Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

Someone trying to talk down to me and discourage my efforts and life again and I fucking kill it! Not infiltrating me today mo’ fuckas 👽

An episode where I am speaking to you ladies about interacting with one another in more efficient ways.

I spent an hour recording an episode and when I went to publish it obviously I saw it wasn’t there. Pissed, naturally, I searched for an episode I pre-recorded to use. And I’m surprised how accurate this episode illuminates my frustrations and annoyance. Oh well, gotta keep trying and delivering. Hopefully tomorrow will be brighter 🌞

This is yet another conversation where I discuss weight as it pertains to multiple thangs such as: personally, datingsphere, my closest peeps, and overall in western society 🏖🗿👩🏽‍🌾

Just me discussing, with passion, how people of color need to chill with their open disdain for white people. They are not the enemy. I use the Hailey Bieber lip liner example that’s flooding the internet right now. And I’m just soooo over people of color crying and complaining yet doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to improve themselves, their culture/ethnicity, etc. There is a better way. Allow me to try to paint this perspective if you will. At the very least, I hope it triggers introspection in a positive, uplifting manner 🫶🏾🇺🇸

Future Vanessa, here is another audio for you to hear when you’re down in the dumps. This entire life is bullshit. Do not allow it to control you. Refuse to let it affect you negatively and when in doubt keep building your resistance as well as your character. We live by a code of ethics now and exceptional is the standard. If you can’t take it — quit (you loser!) or make it work, pivot, adapt, and shut the fuck up. Keep your head down, spirits up, and work. Our success is imminent. Now start fucking acting like it

Ever wondered what I have to offer as a friend? Take a listen to find out… but honestly, don’t get your hopes up 🫠😬😶‍🌫️

In this episode I discuss the movie “Bad Words” with Jason Bateman and Kathryn Hahn. I talk about how kids should face that bullshit with parent support. And without parents interfering too much or causing dumb emotional scenes because you know you can’t beat your perceived enemy. I also speak on tough love, letting men teach boys about how to be a man and how women need to take more responsibility for having kids even though the father does not want it or to participate. Whether you agree or disagree I’m hoping you can hear the information with an open heart and mind and decide for yourself what you think will work best. As always I’m just here to shed light and I am trying.

An episode where I go off talking about how believing in and focusing on race, gender, excuses, etc is just an extension of victim mentality and thus a negative thing for anyone to believe in and focus on 24/7. True freedom comes from taking responsibility for our mind, lives and decisions. Quit acting like a lil bitch and let’s realize the individual’s will power, efforts, and persistence are what truly move the needle forward. Success in this gorgeous U-S of A offers everyone the same chance to win. Sure every individual struggles with their own shit storms and issues but the Great and the Exceptional persevere and do not allow anyone or anything to keep them from what they want to achieve. And we could ALL highly benefit from rejecting loser (victim) mentality. I stand by what I said.

A talk about freedom of speech where I defend it yet again and discuss, in detail, why I believe it a necessary tool. Also there are some parts where I am not talking into the speaker and for that I both cringe as well as apologize. But it was too good an episode to redo and not too long or too annoying of interruptions so enjoy