Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

A tender conversation about how, collectively, women are fucking up as mothers

An arguably ignorant conversation about the madness that is woke culture specifically with trannies in the dating men game. As wild as it sounds I re heard this and completely stand by everything I said. If I’m wrong I will figure it out eventually. ‘Til then this talk is not for the weak and may, no, IS (it absolutely is) offensive

A conversation about Halsey’s song “Without Me” as if they were characters in a story (bc technically they are) and how that specifically is 💯 percent her fault. Let’s be more aware because I genuinely think we are not and that it is for lack of knowing and not intention (benefit of the doubt) 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

An emotional conversation about how I dealt with death and grief earlier in my life. Though it is really not THAT traumatic I did struggle even as a bubble gum pop tart dweeb so no need for sympathy. Just trying to help myself and anyone else who may learn from my experiences and make better choices than I did. At the very least, I remind myself why we changed our mental and to keep going… also, full disclosure, there’s an OBNOXIOUS amount of crying from me soooo 🤡❤️🥊🍷

Me speaking to mothers again about including the father of their kid(s). Asking you women to be as “mature” as you claim you are but to the father. Not everything revolves around you. And just know, if it does revolve around you and only you then when shit hits the fan it is 100 million percent YOUR FAULT ALONE and don’t ask the father for shit ESPECIALLY his money and resources 🙅🏽‍♂️🙅🏽‍♀️

An episode of me being truthful and transparent about my inadequacies and how I still keep moving regardless. Whether I have to trick myself, pump myself up, or just muddle through shit I do whatever I can to keep it pushing. And I hope the same for you 🥊🍷

A conversation about me realizing I’ve been selfish in a negative way and I need to humble myself to reach a more objective perspective and fulfilling life. I still keep failing constantly but at least there are more positives than there used to be. Just gotta keep my head up, heart open and care more.

I was called heavily to speak on this even though I really did not want to. But I realize that even though I may feel inadequate, lonely, lost, etc that I may still be able to say things for others that may help them find that inner warrior they’ve forgotten resides deep inside and that they have allowed themselves and others to convince them does not exist and never did. I am here to remind you that warrior within you very much DOES exist and that YOU are the only one who can call it out of you. Don’t allow these dumb mother fuckers to convince you that you ain’t shit. Even if there is some truth to that YOU have the power to change yourself WHENEVER, HOWEVER, WHEREVER. That warrior is dying to bust out of you and give you the strength you’ve always dreamed of, needed and hoped for. It ain’t over til it’s fucking over so if you never believe in anything again believe YOU WILL MAKE IT ONE MORE DAY because you believe in, nurture and love yourself regardless what these miserable dummies think, say, or feel. Fuck ‘em! Don’t give those losers the FUCKING SATISFACTION. Because if you take yourself out you’re allowing them to believe they are stronger, better, faster, etc. Fuck that noise. Show ‘em you came to FUCKING DOMINATE & if they wanna go they better be ready to FUCKING RUMBLE cause you ain’t playing that baby bullshit no more!!!! You fucking got this. Make them eat that shit that is their words. Allow them to burst that warrior out of you. Allow them to remind you of WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE G. So please do not quit now bc you’ll leave me and others here without being able to see and bask in your success journey as you prove these mother fuckers wrong 😈💪🏾🙌🏾💋

Just me reiterating to women how earning money does NOT at all qualify you to move up in rank in the dating world. In fact, too often the opposite is true.

An episode of me realizing women have the best window to find a man during the years 18-25. Again, by societal terms so there’s no need to blame men. Though it may be uncomfortable or obnoxious it is what it is regardless of your and any woman’s feelings or opinions. Do you just have ways to keep yourself grounded, protected, and playing by the right rules so you can adjust in effective ways that highly benefit you and do no harm to others (especially emotionally). These truths may suck but we can learn and benefit if we choose to.