Vanessa’s Lack Thereof

A candid episode of me admitting harsh truths to myself and how it has been abundantly beneficial to the ones I love the most. I also bring up being a fatty in the dating game to further illustrate that 1. It’s important to be “fit attractive” (by societal terms) especially from a man’s perspective 2. This does NOT make them villains especially when women do the most ABOMINABLE ludicrous offenses to dudes and his kid(s) just to be fucked up 3. Better to understand the game then create opportunities for yourself keeping in mind all parties highest goods of course 4. Finally, growing and transforming is intimidating but is a more efficient long-term game I think. As usual, I’m just attempting to describe what’s going on, as best as I can, how men approach dating & women

This one is for you single moms raising sons in a disadvantage way & have no ideal man in your inner circle that could help better prepare him for this life as a man. I know you have the best of intentions and for that I applaud you 👏🏾 Moreover, maybe there are other methods you can consider. Just my opinion and experience. Use your own inner compass and discernment as usual 💜

Just me walking with my best girl and discussing my weird journey again and especially repairing my relationship with my siblings. Gotta step up, not be bitter about it and move forward with unconditional love and grace. Hope y’all have a fantabulous day ☀️

Nope. Vanessa of the corn 🌽 Just an episode of me giving three examples of when the Universe used children to get me to level up and pay attention. Humiliating? Yep 🫥 Entertaining? Sure 🫣

This is a conversation for future me where I discuss my podcast journey. Giving helpful critiques to ensure better organized audios as well as giving kind words of motivation. Keep going future Vanessa. You get better every day 😎👌🏾

Yet another conversation where I am arguing in favor of women, especially young and in their prime, to avoid a hoe phase. Or at the very least save it as a last option; a Hail Mary at older ages instead of in the beginning of life. I use Bridgerton Season 1, Episode 1 to further support my position so if you have not watched I do talk about the episode in detail quoting the show verbatim. So listen at your own risk ⚠️ 🙃✨

A conversation about how I hate that crystals & spirituality have become extremely hoe/dumb bitch signs. And especially hate that it’s a huge fad right now. Still, to each her own & I have no problem just doing me regardless of outside perceptions 🫶🏾💋

Just another episode of more evidence to support my recent micro calling where I am HIGHLY encouraging women, especially young and in their prime, to avoid having a hoe phase and ruin any potential for a healthy relationship and family in the future. Also, by avoiding hoe-ing, it gives you an edge on the competition & you have an advantage to get with an “elite, alpha, socialite” male. Who are rare & ultimately what most women strive for if we all had the courage to be truthful.

Me speaking to women who argue with everything inside them that being a female hoe doesn’t matter, is okay, and has no long-term repercussions. It does. It definitely does. My message now is always “I’ve been a hoe don’t do it! Not worth it! Don’t do it! Don’t doooooo iiiiiiit pleeeeease!!!!” But I sadly did used to be a big ol dumb bitch. So I’m again trying to persuade young women and women in their prime to think before you take all those d’s. And member mija, what you think, feel, believe, etc is irrelevant in this game where the rules have been set and will not likely change in the short term. Maybe I’m wasting my breath but it feels worth it for me to say regardless so get ready for more bitch slaps of truth in the hopes you make better & more effective decisions for yourself. And YOU are the only one who knows what that means for you.

Me ranting about movies with dumbass mom characters. Please do better for your children y’all. I swear I’m rooting for ya just get it together for the love of all that is good 😌