Victoria's Thoughts

in this episode, i tell you everything you need to know about how to heal your anxious attachment. it all comes down to building trust with yourself by feeling your feelings and holding yourself through the emotions that arise. doing this over and over until you have created a new, healthy baseline.

another thing i did not mention is that especially right when you meet a possible romantic love interest, it is sooo important to be securely attached. if you are not, you will bypass your own feelings or emotions all because you don't want them to abandon you. when you are unafraid of being abandoned, when you are unafraid of feeling your "uncomfortable" emotions, you can show up to them fully embodied, and fully able to sit in a seat of power that asks "do I like them? do they meet my needs? is anything they are doing making me feel uncomfortable?" you will be willing to look at them evenly, because you are okay if they do not like you or want you. from that space, you can ask yourself if you even like them, or if they are meeting all your standards/boundaries.

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in this episode, i deep dive into everything you need to know about how to heal your relationship with your womb: yoni massage, yoni mapping, vaginal dearmoring, radical reclamation, why we are disempowered, healing sexual trauma, coming into union with your womb, ancestral work...EVERYTHING.

another big thing is you cannot eat animals or animal products !!!

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book I referenced: Yoni Massage by Michaela Riedl

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hi you guys, this is a comprehensive podcast about veganism: why to go vegan, how to go vegan, the animal environmental and human rights injustices that surround animal agriculture.

comment on my last insta any questions you still have about veganism :)

in today's episode, i speak on how to set boundaries, how to not abandon yourself, and how to allow someone else's reaction to your boundary. hope you guys enjoy :*

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hi girlies. hope you enjoy today's episode!!

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hi girls. this episode is all about releasing shame from your past sexual experiences; experiences where you may have been disrespected, treated poorly, touched by hands that didn't cherish you, or sexually violated. i love you all so much and i hope this episode helps you remember that there is nothing you have ever done sexually that could make you less valuable, less worthy, less divine, less holy. enjoy :)

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hi girls <3 in this episode I speak about why it is absolutely imperative why you and all people stop watching porn. i speak about the innate level of objectification of another human that it takes to watch porn, i speak about how it disconnects you from your femininity and body, i speak about how it is misogyny and not empowering, and so much more. this direct dehumanization of women is extremely disturbing to me, so i was a little upset in this podcast, which is part of natural ~feminine rage~ which is the rage and anger that women feel when they are saying the truth that has been denied. i love you guys so much!

I also mentioned an incredible woman and ex sex worker, @profitfromtrauma, in this episode- check her out on IG and Tik Tok! i loveeeee her and resonate with her truth so deeply, she is amazing.

and of course, this is a safe space for sex workers. we support sex workers here, we love them, we want the best for them, we want safer working conditions, and we NEVER shame them.

thank you all for listening!

hi guys :) today, we are talking about the whole "liking other girls pictures" phenomenon. what I say in this podcast is also applicable to complimenting other women and watching p*rn. men of value do not do any of these things. their main priority is protecting your heart and making you feel safe. if the container he provides has all these holes with space for his attention on other women, he has not provided anything, and he has no idea what it means to be a man.

stop trying to change your low quality man, and love yourself instead. :*

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Hi girlies. I did a little special on all things healthy relationships for valentines day! I went into detail on the difference between healthy and toxic relationships, how to get into healthy relationships, how to see more healthy men in the world, and what my relationship looks like hehe. love you guys so much!!

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if you'd like to go deeper 1:1 with me on any of these topics, i offer women's coaching on my website :) love you guys!