Victoria's Thoughts

welcome to my birthday special :') where we delve into some more personal questions about my life and experiences! hope you guys enjoy, i love you!

in today's episode, we discuss why women try to control men, and my case for why we should stop. we dive into how this behavior enables us to not take accountability for our lives, feeds our trauma responses, and disrespects our inner child.

love you guys so much,

xoxo,

Victoria

when you crave the validation of weak men so deeply that you will cheer as your innocent sisters burn, you forget that what they are burning is you.

every woman, deep in her heart, requires emotional and physical safety to feel truly relaxed in the journey of pregnancy and motherhood. throughout the centuries, we have conditioned ourselves to forget that we have requirements for motherhood: having a safe, dedicated, and loving partner, being materially provided for so you can rest during pregnancy and postpartum, having your emotional needs met by your partner, having your unique requirements specific to you stated and met, etc. however, in this day and age now, women have no semblance of understanding that they should have their requirements met to have a child. because of this, mothers live miserable and unfulfilling lives. furthermore, women tend to use motherhood to avoid their lives and themselves. for example, a woman might be unhappy with the level of love she has received in her life, and because of this, she decides to have a child in hopes of receiving unconditional love (manipulative & abusive); or, she might not like the dating prospects she sees or she may not actually like or love her husbands husband or partner, and so she has a child to distract herself.

what women are forgetting here, and what this episode aims to remind us, is that children are a small phase of your life: they will leave, you will not be their priority, they will start their own families and have their own spouses, and you will be stuck with the same unfulfilling life and partner, right where you started.

don't avoid your life through motherhood. instead, cultivate a life you are excited about and fulfilled in. and when you are ready- if you desire- when you feel safe and secure and supported, choose to be a servant of a child by serving their soul's evolution through their childhood and adolescence. anything less than this is asking for struggle motherhood, and we're not doing that anymore.

xoxo

Victoria

in today's episode, we talk about the deep healing that occurs when we choose a man who we can truly trust, a man who we can put our guard down 100% with and know we are safer with it down than we ever were with it up.

we also discuss why we choose men we cannot trust, and how that strengthens our wounds.

if you'd like to dive further, you can book coaching with me at victoriadevall.com

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today's episode is all about how to receive from a man and from life. we talk about being provided for by a man, genuine vulnerability, and having standards. there is a certain level of vulnerability that comes with receiving from a man you RESPECT. deeply. and that's what we are discussing today :) love you guys and hope you enjoy

xoxoxox,

Victoria

hi girlies, this was just a quick episode i took when Jeremie went to the store real quick :) i hope you all enjoy, love you!

today's episode is all about how I healed my period and my own personal journey with going from extremely painful periods to painless periods. I understand that everyone's experience is different and unique, but I share the way I healed my period in hopes that it gives direction and guidance to others who resonate and are looking to do the same!

I also understand that trans-people have their own unique experience with periods and did not touch on this as much in this episode but it is still valid and important.

love you guys :*

hi girls, today is the best episode ever on how to heal your inner child.

hope you enjoy :')

if you'd like to embark on a 3 month coaching journey with me, go to victoriadevall.com to book your free intro call

love you all :*

in today's episode, i speak on some tips for women looking to receive a truly safe and masculine king: from not pedestaling him to deciding when to sleep with him, i dive into it all! of course, for any of this to work, you must be at a truly embodied and safe space within yourself.

to learn how to do this, you can apply for my 3 month coaching program, and schedule your FREE intro call with me on my website: victoriadevall.com