VIRGIN.BEAUTY.B!TCH

It's 2022, 365 new days to make a difference in your relationships - your family - your tribe - your society, and make a difference in how you see and treat yourself. Christopher & Heather ask these questions: how can we contribute to your reaching your goals, realizing your vision, and achieving your purpose?

This episode of VBB is different from other shows we've released. Heather and I are blessed; we speak with dozens of amazing women every year. However, in 2021, one guest, La Tonya Davison, turned the tables on us. La Tonya is a Licensed Master Social Worker / Sociologist / Cultural Therapist / Stand-Up Comedian and host of Mental Speak Radio on the Fishbowl Radio Network, the largest personality-driven internet radio station globally. In front of her worldwide audience, La Tonya quizzes us on how we use provocative words, VIRGIN.BEAUTY.B!TCH to empower women in a positive light. You'll also hear how Heather and I first met and why two obvious opposites like us feel we can be a positive example for a binary-obsessed world.

"When our son Byron married, he and his fiancée created a lasting memory that touched our hearts: They each wrote a letter to their parents, describing their fondest childhood memories, values, life lessons, and ideals they could bring into their marriage. When the letters were read for each pair of parents, there wasn't a dry eye in the room. Learn how to write your own Heartfelt Letters For Special Occasions and Occasions Made Special with Lynette M. Smith, Author.

Corbie Mitleid is a psychic, channel, medium, and has been reading since 1973. She travels coast to coast across the United States and into Canada as a full-time intuitive counselor, inspiring and helping thousands of individuals every year as a teacher and facilitator. Corbie is also the author of the self-help publication Clean Out Your LifeCloset. It's to help you get un-stuck from believing that you can't solve your problems, you can't get out of your own way, that you'll fail, or that you're just not good enough. Corbie also encourages writing your own story of change based on your history, your life experiences, and your personal goals.

Sandra Cooze is the author of Journey to Your Self: A Transformational Trilogy, she's an Intuitive, and a Trauma Release & Self- Empowerment Coach with a passion for helping others heal. Sandra’s own traumatic past includes being a victim of child molestation, sexual assault, bullying, and rape. Sandra’s life journey has taken her through the mysteries of trauma, and the effects it can have on the body, mind, and spirit. Having learned the importance of self-reflection and self-healing, Sandra helps others to successfully heal their trauma and transform their lives.

Rustie MacDonald's personal journey began in the darkness of severe poverty, rape, abuse, and homelessness. Today, she's a successful multi-book author, International Radio Show Host, Speaker, and passionate full-time single mom. Rustie believes that lack is not meant to be a part of anyone's destiny, so her new journey is to inspire others to show gratitude and find hope even in their darkest moments.

The Making of a Woman: From the Inside Out is a compelling autobiography of a woman who refused to bow down to the circumstances of her childhood. Jewels began family life as an only child only to end up becoming a victim of the most prevalent form of intra-familial abuse — sibling sexual abuse. With a powerful sense of survival, Jewels fought against forces that so often crush young women.

At an early age, Fatima C. Oliver became emphatically convinced that pain and family were synonymous. Living with trauma from physical and sexual abuse, the loss of a child, abandonment issues, and domestic violence, she lived life as if waiting for the world to compensate her for her pain and suffering. A believer in paying it forward, Fatima has chosen to open her life up in vulnerable ways to share the pitfalls and growing pains she endured in her state of sorrow, resentment, bitterness, and self-righteous anger. Fatima shares with us how she came to heal herself, and forgive the unforgivable.

"My family didn't discuss sex, leaving me in the dark and terrified of sex. During my first sexual encounter, my partner asked me, 'what do you like?' I responded, aren't you supposed to know that?" That terrified young woman was Carlyle Jansen. Today, she's a renowned Sex and Relationship Therapist with her Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology. An author of books based on sexual exploration and a Ted-X speaker on sexual intimacy. Carlyle also facilitates sexual workshops and owns Good For Her, an intimacy shop in Toronto, Canada.

"I don't understand how socially we believe that women don't like sex, that sex is something women give to men, that liking sex makes a woman impure, and women who enjoy sex can't be good mothers or trusted wives." Veronica Kazoleas, a former healthcare executive and researcher of sexual fantasies with her Master's in Social Psychology, is the founder of The Nookie, a sensuality shop in Toronto specializing in pleasure products and fostering human connection.