I used to live an unhealthy, unbalanced life. I wasn't emotionally available to my husband or my kids, but I "prettified" my dysfunction and decay by calling it a "sacrifice" to the Lord. I was burned-out, anxious, depressed, angry, resentful. God isn't interested in our sacrifice if that is the fruit. So what did Paul mean when he wrote we should be living sacrifices? What does it look like to sacrifice but still produce love, joy, and peace?