Episode 6: We often hear reinvention packaged as bold and exciting, but when the reality doesn’t match the expectation, the emotional fallout can be heavy, especially for women navigating change in midlife. In this episode, Beverley speaks candidly about moments when starting over feels more like stumbling than soaring. She explores the gap between expectation and reality, the common pitfalls that make reinvention feel like failure, and the subtle societal pressures that can amplify self‑doubt after 50.
From the episode:
“If you’re feeling stuck, if you’ve tried so many things to reinvent yourself and nothing seems to stick; if you’re exhausted, disheartened, and wondering whether it’s even worth trying again, you’re not alone. I’m right there with you. Today, I want to speak from that place, not the finish line, but the messy middle, about what happens when reinvention feels like failure, and why that feeling doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong.”
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- Why reinvention sometimes looks like failure (and why that’s not the whole story)
- How to reframe setbacks as part of the learning curve
- Practical steps to regain momentum after a disappointing attempt
- Tools for self‑compassion and resilience tailored to women over 50
Through personal reflections and practical advice, Beverley invites listeners to recognise the growth hidden inside setbacks, and to treat the process of reinvention as part of a long, wise journey rather than a single pass/fail test.