In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta welcomes back licensed trauma therapist and Survivor Speak member Patti Ieraci for an honest conversation about navigating holiday stress and practicing self-care. Together, they explore why the holidays can be triggering for many, especially for trauma and sexual assault survivors. Patti shares actionable tools for coping, how to set healthy boundaries, and ways to honor feelings of grief and loneliness. 

This episode encourages listeners to embrace authenticity, check in with their emotional needs, and frame the new year not by what they want to accomplish, but by how they want to feel. Whether you find joy or difficulty in the festive season, this conversation offers comfort, hope, and empowering steps toward peace.

Topics Discussed:

• How the holidays can be a stressful time for many
• Common sources of holiday stress
• Holiday stress can trigger anxiety, depression, and past traumas
• The unique challenges sexual assault survivors face during family gatherings
• Navigating rooms with potential assailants
• The concept of “micro regulation” and practical self-care tools
• The importance of deep breathing to signal safety and bring oneself into the present moment
• Strategies for setting healthy boundaries
• Coping methods for grief and loneliness during the holidays

Your voice matters — please ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠take our short survey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org⁠

In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with Kate Cooler a survivor, advocate, and member of the Jane Doe No More Survivors Speak team. Kate bravely shares her journey, from being groomed and assaulted as a teenager to her inspiring transformation into an EMT, police officer, and dedicated victim advocate.

She openly discusses the challenges she faced during her recovery, navigating the criminal justice system at a young age, and finding strength in healing. Kate’s story is one of resilience and hope, offering important insights on internet safety, the ongoing nature of healing, and the power we all have to be a light for others.

Topics Discussed:

• Kate’s experience with grooming and assault
• Dangers of online grooming
• Emotional and mental response during and after abuse
• Journey through anger, self-blame, and healing
• The impact trauma has on personal relationships and self-esteem
• Personal experience shaping approach as a police officer
• Strategies for supporting victims
• Importance of ongoing healing
• Hope, healing, and being a light for others

Your voice matters — please ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠take our short survey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org⁠

In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola and Amy Polacko for a deep dive into the hidden realities of coercive control and abuse in the family court system. They also disuses the book they co-authored "Women in the Family Court Underworld," sharing firsthand accounts from their work supporting survivors.

In this conversation they uncover the dark side of family courts where abusers often manipulate the system to continue their control. The conversation also discusses the motivations behind writing their book, systemic issues of collusion, and judicial immunity within the courts.

Topics Discussed:

• The realities of the family court system
• The concept of the “abuser’s playbook”
• Challenges and emotional toll women face when trying to leave abusive relationships
• Coercive control legislation
• Strategies for women entering or navigating family court
• Identifying abuse early in relationships
• The role of gender within the court system
• Resources for listeners
• Speaking out despite fear or risk
• Hope for systemic change

Your voice matters — please ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠take our short survey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

Connect with the guests:https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/

https://www.freedomwarrior.info/

In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, Patti Ieraci and Donna Palomba speek with host Jocelyn Maminta about the ongoing media coverage of the Epstein files. Examining the real impact on survivors and the vital need to center their voices.

Donna is the founder of Jane Doe No More and Patti is a licensed professional counselor and trauma specialist. Together they discuss the shortcomings of how media frames high-profile sexual abuse scandals, often spotlighting headlines and powerful names while sidelining those most affected.

Through candid conversation and lived experience, Patti and Donna explore why survivor stories are so often left out, how shame and isolation are perpetuated by incomplete narratives, and what meaningful justice and healing should look like. Patti and Donna share advice for survivors feeling triggered or silenced, offer strategies for self-care and empowerment, and call for a shift toward survivor-led storytelling.

Topics Discussed:

• Epstein Files and the Media Coverage
• Importance of Centering Survivors
• Media’s Missed Opportunity
• Impact of Coverage on Survivors
• Reclaim your narrative
• Encouragement for Those Still Silent
• Path Forward

Your voice matters — please ⁠⁠⁠⁠take our short survey⁠⁠⁠⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with attorney Samantha McCoy, to discuss the landmark "Take It Down" Act. Samantha bravely shares her personal journey as a survivor of image-based sexual abuse, shedding light on the devastating realities of non-consensual image sharing and deepfake exploitation. Together, they break down the new federal law, which criminalizes the distribution and threatens stricter accountability for tech platforms hosting non-consensual intimate imagery. The conversation highlights the vital role of survivor voices in shaping the legislation, the current prevalence of image-based abuse in the digital age, and practical steps victims can take for support and justice.

Samantha McCoy is an award-winning appellate attorney, public speaker, activist, and licensed mental health therapist. Throughout her career, she has dedicated herself to closing the gaps within the judicial system and advocating for survivors of sexual violence to ensure they are treated with dignity and a trauma-informed approach. Drawing from her personal experience with image-based sexual abuse, Samantha has become a leading voice in the fight against non-consensual image abuse and deep fake exploitation. She was instrumental in the recent passage of the federal Take It Down Act, working alongside legislators to shape and promote vital legislation aimed at protecting victims and holding perpetrators and tech platforms accountable.

Topics Discussed:

• Introduction to the Take It Down act
• Details of the new law recently passed
• Process for victims to report abuse
• Prevalence and impact of image-based abuse
• Non-consensual intimate images, both real and AI-generated
• Accountability for tech platforms
• Role of survivors in shaping legislation
• Support and future action

Your voice matters — please ⁠⁠⁠take our short survey⁠⁠⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, a clinician, coach, and expert on coercive control and narcissistic abuse. Christine shares her personal journey as a survivor, highlighting the often subtle and insidious nature of coercive control in intimate relationships and systems impacting both adults and children.

You will learn how coercive control serves as the foundation for various forms of abuse, including emotional, physical, and systemic oppression. The discussion delves into the challenges victims face in being believed, especially in family court, and the importance of authentic connection between protective parents and their children.

With over three decades of experience, Christine has dedicated her career to supporting survivors of domestic violence and advocating for systemic change. As the founder of the Protective Parenting Program, she offers education and tools to parents navigating trauma and high-conflict custody situations.

Driven by both professional expertise and lived experience as a survivor, Christine’s work is rooted in empowering others, fostering connection, and redefining approaches to safety and healing.

Topics Discussed:

• Differences between coercive control and other forms of abuse

• ·Trauma bonds in families and the challenge of leaving abusers
• Navigating court systems and challenges for parents
• Guidance for protective parents
• Creation and philosophy of the Protective Parenting Program
• Legislative advocacy and education
• Encouragement for survivors

Learn more at Coercive Control Consulting: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com

Your voice matters — please ⁠⁠take our short survey⁠⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

On this episode of Voice 2 Change, Jocelyn Maminta invites Dan Saban, a seasoned law enforcement professional from Arizona, to the conversation. Dan offers insights into his trailblazing work in victim advocacy, particularly his efforts to bridge gaps between law enforcement and communities. Through personal anecdotes and professional experiences, Dan discusses the evolution of handling sexual crimes and the creation of advocacy centers, providing a unique look at how specialized training in law enforcement has transformed victims' experiences. Join us for a heartfelt discussion and discover how each of us can contribute to meaningful change.

Dan Sabin, a dedicated law enforcement officer from Arizona, first encountered Donna's remarkable story on an episode of Dateline several years ago. Deeply moved by her experiences and the challenges she faced, Dan found himself empathizing with her frustrations, which mirrored some of his own experiences in law enforcement. Dan has forty years of experience serving his community and pioneered the first family advocacy center in Arizona, in 2008.

Topics Discussed:

• Dan got involved after seeing Donna's story on Dateline
• Dan shares his career in law enforcement and victim advocacy
• Emphasis on building community connections

• How victims benefit from a consolidated support system
• The importance of bringing in national experts to train law enforcement
• Developing specialized training for trauma-informed policing
• How Dan shares his expertise across the country to help other programs

Your voice matters — please ⁠take our short survey⁠ so we can keep creating content that speaks to you.

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

In this episode of the Voice 2 Change Podcast, our host Jocelyn Maminta interviews Dr. Shamina Aubuchon, the inspiring author of the children's book, "If You Touch, I'll Tell." Shamina, a courageous survivor of child sexual abuse, shares her journey and the powerful motivation behind becoming an author. Her book serves as an invaluable resource for educating children and parents about safety and prevention. Learn about the importance of empowering children to use their voices, the crucial role of parental guidance, and how to identify the warning signs of grooming.

Shamina Aubuchon is a dedicated advocate and author who channels her personal experiences into powerful narratives to raise awareness on sexual abuse. Born a survivor of child sexual abuse, Shamina found the courage and determination to address this pervasive problem through her writing. Shamina urges parents to discuss these uncomfortable topics and encourages children to use their voices.

Topics Discussed:

• Shamina's personal experience with child sexual abuse
• Inspiration behind writing the book
• The importance of speaking about difficult topics
• Finding the right age and methods to discuss such topics with children
• Importance of prevention, rather than cure
• Strategies for keeping children safe
• Empowering children through the book’s message
• Warning signs and behaviors to be wary of
• The importance of believing children when they disclose abuse
• Encouraging children to use their voice for protection

Shamina's book 'If You Touch, I'll Tell'

Also available at ⁠ifyoutouchilltell.com⁠ 

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

In this episode of the Voice 2 Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, we talk with Rachel Henderson about the Gail Burns Smith, Sexual Assault Forensic Examiners (SAFE) program in Connecticut. Rachel explains how the SAFE program provides a compassionate, trauma-informed approach to conducting medical forensic exams for sexual assault survivors. The conversation highlights the importance of the SAFE program in bridging healthcare and legal systems to support survivors, discussing how forensic nurses are trained, the challenges they face, and their impact in empowering survivors through choice and support. The episode also underscores the critical services provided by the Connecticut Judicial Branch Office of Victim Services, offering extensive support and resources for victims throughout their healing and legal journey.

Rachel Henderson is the response program manager for the Connecticut Judicial Branch Office of Victim Services, specifically for the Gail Burns Smith, Sexual Assault Forensic Examiner (SAFE) program. With over a decade of emergency department nursing experience and 25 years of providing emergent patient care across the state, Rachel brings a wealth of knowledge and dedication to her role. She oversees 33 SAFE professionals who respond to eight hospitals and one student health center in central and eastern Connecticut.

Topics Discussed:

• Explanation of SAFE program
• Integration of law enforcement and healthcare systems
• Male nurses' challenges and patient comfort considerations
• Core of empathetic care
• Meeting patients where they are
• Empowering patient rights and choices
• Building rapport and collaboration with advocacy groups
• Role of forensic nurses in courtrooms and legal processes
• Noticing a gap in staff confidence for assault cases
• Effects of compassionate care on patient behavior

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org

In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast we discuss teen dating violence, featuring our special guest Brenda Harkavy, a former SVU prosecutor and experienced litigator. The discussion reveals that one in three teens experiences dating violence, with both physical and digital forms of abuse being prevalent. Harkavy explains various warning signs of teen dating violence, including excessive texting, controlling behavior, digital harassment, and isolation tactics.

The episode focuses on the importance of parents maintaining open communication with their teens about healthy relationships and the potential dangers of digital interactions. Brenda also talks about legal protections and resources for teens in abusive relationships.

 Brenda Harkavy is an experienced litigator who has represented numerous survivors in cases involving institutional misconduact. She previously served as a Special Victims Unit (SVU) prosecutor, where she handled hundreds of teen dating violence cases in Baltimore City and other jurisdictions. During her time as an SVU prosecutor, she was actively involved in educating teens about dating violence by facilitating assemblies at local high schools. Topics Discussed:

• Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month
• Signs and types of teen dating violence
• Importance of raising awareness about unhealthy relationships
• Statistics on teen dating violence in the U.S.
• Empowering teens to recognize signs of abuse
• Legal implications and potential for escalating behavior
• Legal Protections for Teens
• Educating children about their digital footprint
• Setting healthy boundaries and limits for internet use

Connect with Jane Doe No More:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Janedoenomore.org