It really matters who speaks to us and we end up listening to.As much as the decisions are ours despite the multiple sources of advice we might have.We need to be careful as to who we allow to speak in to our lives.It's very a much needed resource for personal growth be it carrier or life in general so as to either avoid bad outcomes or even grow to better beings.its extremely important we choose well for a consequence that might not be in our control but the results are almost all positive.