Wake Up Abundant

Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 18 of Overflow October! We're tackling the fear of being seen - whether that's showing up online, stepping into leadership, dating, or just being your authentic self. If staying small is blocking your abundance, this episode is your permission to be fully visible.

 Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis 

Overflow October Workbook: https://a.co/d/h1g70vh 

What We're Covering: 

✔️Why fear of being seen is universal (online space, public figure, office leader, dating, new friends) 

✔️The real fear: being judged, experiencing hate, feeling rejected 

✔️How staying small limits your impact and blocks abundance 

✔️Why your authentic presence awakens something in others 

✔️How being seen is less about you and more about collective human experience 

✔️The world needs authentic selves, not everyone doing the same safe things 

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Today's Affirmation: "I am safe to be fully seen. My authenticity is magnetic and creates the right opportunities." 

✨ Reframe Practice: "Everything gets to work out for me. I am safe to be seen." (Repeat this often) 

✨ Impact Recognition: Your presence as your authentic self awakens something in others and creates beautiful coherence

 ✨ Challenge Question: "If I weren't afraid, what would I create? What would I do? How would I want to be seen? What's ONE step I can take this week?" 

Key Reframe: Being afraid to be seen is common - it's putting yourself out there and risking judgment, hate, or rejection. Makes total sense why we'd avoid it. But as we get older, if we don't put ourselves out there, we limit the possibilities of our impact. You DESERVE to have an impact. 

Personal Truth: I get scared to put myself out there, try new video concepts, share my truth. But it's not always about me - it's less about me and more about feeling CALLED to do this. Whether that's being a leader, going on dates, being vulnerable with friends - it's bigger than you.

 Truth Bomb: When you stay small and don't put yourself out there, you create blocks for abundance constantly. The universe can't give you opportunities when you're hiding. People are tired of everyone looking, being, thinking, and doing the same safe things. The world becomes safer when people show authentic selves. 

Day 18 Reality Check: Yes, there will be moments of judgment - that's part of it. But you're strong and can overcome them. The world needs you. Your community needs you. That person who wants to go on a date needs you to put yourself out there. Your business needs you. Your company needs you. 

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 17 of Overflow October! Good morning! Today we're talking about boundaries and how they actually HELP your abundance journey. Let's make your morning better with high vibe content and reflection.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Overflow October Workbook: https://a.co/d/h1g70vh

What We're Covering:

• Why boundaries create abundance (protecting energy, time, desires creates space to receive)
• How running on empty means no energy for what you want or even knowing what you want
• Personal story: wishing my mom had more boundaries (over-exertion taught me over-exertion = love)
• Why setting boundaries actually adds to you AND those you love
• How people treasure your time more when you're not constantly available
• Moving from depletion to creation mode (where abundance lives)

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Energy Protection: When you constantly exert yourself to no return, you have no energy for your desires - you don't even know what you want

✨ Boundary Practice: "I'm really exhausted today after a long work day. I need time to decompress. Let's revisit this in 20 minutes."

✨ Fear Work: Ask yourself "Why am I afraid of setting boundaries? What's the worst case scenario?" Then start with small "no's"

✨ Time as Luxury: Time is the most important non-replenishable commodity - giving it away is a luxury, not an obligation

Key Reframe: Abundance is about more than enough and overflow. When you protect your energy, time, and desires through boundaries, you create space to actually GET those things. Without boundaries, you run from zero/empty gas tank with no energy to do what you want.

Personal Truth: As a daughter, I wish my mom had more boundaries with us, work, and life. It would've been healthier to see her give boundaries than over-exert herself. I learned over-exertion = love, and now I'm unlearning that. Kids notice. People who love you WANT you to set boundaries.

Truth Bomb: Think about times you DID set boundaries - how did people receive it? Probably not as scary as you thought. The more boundaries you set, the more people respect your time when you ARE available. Setting boundaries isn't mean - there are nice ways to do it.

Day 17 Challenge:

1. Notice why you're afraid of saying no
2. Play around with saying no to small things first
3. See how people react (usually fine!)
4. Build confidence to create more boundaries respectfully
5. Watch others learn to create their own boundaries too

The Result: Beautiful boundaries everyone respects. Space to step into creation mode. Abundance lives in creation mode - you can't tap into creation when exhausted.

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 16 of Overflow October! Today we're talking about CONFIDENCE - stop waiting for permission and validation to go after what you want. Do the damn thing NOW.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Overflow October Workbook: https://a.co/d/h1g70vh

What We're Covering:

• Why we constantly seek external validation to move forward with scary things
• The difference between market validation (nice to have) vs. dream validation (you don't need it)
• How women are trained to fit in boxes and ask "what's wrong with me?" instead of questioning external systems
• Why self-validation is more powerful than external approval
• Building confidence by getting uncomfortable and doing things before you're ready
• The "I'll do it when..." trap vs. "do it now, do it messy"

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Today's Affirmation: "I give myself permission to be confident now. I don't need external validation to know my worth."

✨ Past Behavior Audit: Make a list of things you wanted to pursue but didn't. Ask "Why didn't I have confidence? Why did I need external validation?"

✨ Now Action: Ask "What can I do about it NOW?" - we're analyzing, not giving up

✨ Confidence Building: Get out of comfort zone, do things uncomfortably, do things before you're ready

Key Reframe: While external validation feels nice (someone saying you're doing good, they appreciate you, they love you), there's nothing more powerful than learning to create your own validation. You don't need permission to pursue dreams, go on adventures, or know you're lovable.

Truth Bomb: You think I had confidence to do a daily podcast every single day, coming up with something new? NO. It was messy. It's still a little messy. But I knew to have a different life and reach masses, I had to just GO FOR IT. So you just have to go for it too.

Personal Reality: Women are constantly seeking approval to fit in the right boxes. When we don't fit, we ask "What's missing within me? Why am I not enough?" instead of questioning what's wrong externally. That missing piece is self-esteem and self-validation.

Day 16 Challenge:

1. List things you want to pursue but haven't
2. Analyze why you didn't have confidence
3. Stop saying "I'll do it when..."
4. Start planning, researching, setting things in motion NOW
5. Do it messy - just START

Reminder: You are SO CAPABLE. You can have, do, and be anything you want. The only obstacle is you - you are the mountain. Learn to climb it or move it, and your life will never be the same.

Workbook Deep Dive: Today's affirmation plus deeper integration exercises. Link below!

I Validate You: Know that you always have one person cheering you on.

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 15 of Overflow October - we're HALFWAY through! If you're following along and going deeper with the workbook, cheers! Today we're tackling how to stop attracting energy drainers because they're blocking your overflow.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

What We're Covering:

• Why you attract draining people (you're an overgiver, empath, generous, see gray areas)
• How draining people create constriction to overflow by leaking your energy
• The process: identify drainers, set boundaries, reclaim your energy
• Why boundaries make toxic people leave on their own
• How to have direct conversations if you want to keep them in your life
• What happens when you create space (more energy to manifest and experience overflow)

Your Empowerment Tools: ✨ Step 1 - Make the List: Write all people who drain you (acquaintances, close friends, even family) and times they drained you

✨ Step 2 - Set Boundaries: When they call to vent, say "I'm actually really busy right now, I have to go" early in the conversation

✨ Step 3 - Permission to Be Unavailable: You're not obligated to pick up calls. No one is available 24/7 - it's energetically impossible

✨ Step 4 - Have Conversations: "Lately I've been feeling like this is one-sided. I'm doing a lot and this is how I feel. I cherish you, but moving forward this is what I need."

Key Reframe: If you're attracting draining people, it's because you're generous, a good listener, an empath who never asks for more and is always there. They noticed and said "I like that - I'll keep you around when I need you but not give actual friendship."

Truth Bomb: When you set boundaries with draining people, they often leave on their own because they see you can't be stepped on anymore. They go munch on other people instead. Any energy leakage not in alignment creates constriction to overflow - you don't have energy to call in more or get clear on desires.

Day 15 Challenge:

1. Identify who drains you and when
2. Set one boundary this week
3. Notice their reaction - do they apologize and change, or stay defensive?
4. If defensive after multiple conversations, consider walking away

The Result: More energy to manifest. More energy to think about what you want. More energy to experience overflow. Flow is where all the goodness comes in.

Workbook Reminder: Halfway through October - grab the beautiful workbook to go deeper! Link below.

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 14 of Overflow October! Today we're talking about feeling "more than enough" - what it actually feels like to have enough to be happy, thrive, spoil your family, be generous, enjoy hobbies, and live a great life. That's the overflow enough feeling.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Overflow October Workbook: https://a.co/d/h1g70vh

What We're Covering:

• How to tap into "enough" when reality tells you the opposite
• Why our current reality was formed from past thoughts (new reality needs future-focused thoughts)
• The universe needs a cohesive message, not perfection
• Finding moments in your life where you DID feel like you had enough
• How to amplify that "enough" feeling in your body right now
• The difference between expanding from wholeness vs. expanding from lack

Your Empowerment Tools: ✨ Small Things Practice: "I have enough - clean water, friends I can count on, a support system, a career that helps me get by, moments to splurge"

✨ Repeat Daily: "I have enough. I have enough to support myself. I have enough to support my family. I have enough to enjoy this world. I don't always need to be stressing."

✨ Memory Exercise: Find a moment in your life when you felt like you had enough (even small - like buying favorite candy for the movies). What did that feel like in your body?

✨ Body Activation: Feel into "What does it feel like to have enough RIGHT NOW?" Take a moment during this podcast and really be with that feeling.

Key Reframe: The hardest thing is looking around when things are tight and stressed and saying "I have more than enough." But if we don't believe we currently have enough, the universe can't match more money with us. Our current reality was formed from past thoughts - to create new reality, we need future-driven thoughts.

Truth Bomb: The universe doesn't need perfection - it needs a cohesive message. Do your damn best every single day. When you believe "I have enough" in your body, the universe makes sure you have enough. Things start dropping into your lap.

Day 14 Challenge:

1. Find moments where you felt like you had enough
2. Feel into what "enough" feels like in your body NOW
3. Ask "What do I want to have enough of?" (money, love, support, experiences)
4. Expand from wholeness, not lack - "I'm already provided for, I'm already good, I'm Gucci"

Workbook Deep Dive: Today's prompt: "What would need to be true for me to feel like I have enough money right now?" Plus 2 more prompts + the "Enough Practice" activity. Link below!

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 13 of Overflow October! We're tackling money myths from working class programming that keep us from wealth. Today we're shifting from seeing money as a status symbol to understanding it as a TOOL for good people to do good things.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Overflow October Workbook: https://a.co/d/h1g70vh

What We're Covering:

• How growing up working class creates "you vs us" money divide
• Why money is neutral, not bad - it amplifies who you already are
• The myth that rich people are greedy (some are, some aren't - you get to be rich AND good)
• How most wealthy people have multiple income streams, not one path
• Why the world needs more good people with money
• Making peace with the rich version of you

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Myth Reframe 1: "Money is bad" → "Money is neutral, a tool to achieve my goals and make the world better"

✨ Myth Reframe 2: "Rich people are evil" → "Some rich people are evil, some do good. I'll be a rich person doing good"

✨ Myth Reframe 3: "Only one path to wealth" → "I can think creatively about multiple income streams"

✨ Identity Work: Where's the line you can cross to meet the rich version of you WITHOUT hating her? If you judge her, you'll never become her.

Key Reframe: Money doesn't make you greedy - it amplifies who you already are. Greedy people without money are still greedy. Generous people with money become MORE generous. Your values don't change with wealth if they're deeply rooted.

Truth Bomb: Working class beliefs keep us working class. Ultra wealthy people didn't just get degrees - they understood money as a TOOL and became a match for more of it. Good people staying stuck in working class habits creates constant division instead of change.

Day 13 Challenge: Analyze your money myths today. Install abundant beliefs: "Money is a tool. I can be rich and good. I make peace with being wealthy."

Workbook Reminder: Overflow October Workbook available on Amazon! Halfway through the month - still time to go deeper with timeless topics. Link below!

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 10 of Overflow October! Today we're working on increasing your worth by separating your identity from your bank account. Your money story creates your reality - not the other way around.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Overflow October Workbook Companion: https://a.co/d/49MIoUo

What We're Covering:

• Why your money story isn't linked to your bank account (it's the opposite)
• How fear-based decisions keep you surviving instead of thriving
• Why tying identity to financial worth defeats the purpose of abundance
• The pressure of "I'm only valuable if I provide money" and how it blocks overflow
• How your presence and energy are the actual prize, not your money
• Creating a new money story that feels worthy and expansive

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Money Story Shift: "Money is always coming to me. I am always supported. More money is coming in." vs. "I can't make more money, I don't know what I'm doing"

✨ Thriving Mindset: Ask "What does it feel like to be thriving? How can I feel worthy of a new money story even while surviving?"

✨ Identity Separation: "I'm so much more than money. My presence helps people expand. I am the prize, not the money I bring."

✨ New Story Creation: Write your new money story and chant it consistently - "I make money in ways that make me happy. I always pay rent. I know my worth regardless of money I bring in."

Key Reframe: When you have a money story where money always comes to you and you're always supported, more money comes in. The dip only happens when fear overtakes you and you make survival decisions instead of thriving decisions.

Truth Bomb: You are the prize. Your breath, your beauty, your light, your energy that lights people up - THAT'S the prize. Not the money you bring. We've confused this. When you shift to "I am the prize, I get to experience wealth, my energy supplies wealth," things start shifting.

Day 10 Challenge:

1. Think about your new money story
2. Write it down
3. Chant it consistently
4. Watch what happens over time

Weekend Note: Days 11 & 12 will be on Instagram and TikTok @helloamberalexis (podcast resumes Monday for Day 13).

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 9 of Overflow October! We're continuing our money mindset deep dive. Today we're talking about the poverty mindset that shows up in weird, subtle ways and keeps you playing small.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Grab your Overflow October Workbook: https://a.co/d/5y6JvUY

What We're Covering: 

• What poverty mindset actually looks like (beyond just being broke)
• How it shows up in unexpected ways: forcing yourself to finish meals, buying cheap things that break repeatedly
• The "this might be the only time" scarcity thinking
• Why making decisions from "money will run out" keeps you stuck
• How small shifts (like adding egg and cheese to your bagel) raise your vibration
• The difference between being budget-conscious vs. fear-based

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Observation Practice: Notice where poverty mindset shows up - Are you finishing meals even when you're sick-full? Buying cheap things that break repeatedly?

✨ Abundance Reframe: "There's more where that came from. I deserve this. This is my new lifestyle."

✨ Trust Shift: What if you trusted money would always come in? That you're always supported? What would you do differently?

✨ Small Stretch Action: Do one thing that makes you feel stretched but still okay - not crazy out of budget, but combating the fear

Key Reframe: Poverty mindset isn't just about spending - it's forcing yourself to eat everything on a nice meal because "when will I get another nice meal?" It's buying the cheapest thing that breaks repeatedly instead of investing in quality that lasts 10+ years.

Personal Story: If someone paid for a really nice meal for me, I'd eat EVERYTHING even if I was sick to my stomach, thinking "I can't waste this money, this might be my only nice meal." That's poverty mindset, not gratitude.

Day 9 Challenge:

1. Observe your poverty mindset behaviors today (no judgment!)
2. Notice where fear of "not having enough" controls your decisions
3. Do ONE small thing that stretches you - maybe it's the bagel with egg and cheese instead of just the bagel (extra $2-3)
4. Maybe it's investing in that course or not shutting down an experience you're drawn to

Money Mindset Series: This is part of our sub-series within Overflow October focusing specifically on money. Repetition is key for reprogramming!

Workbook Update: Now available on Amazon KDP + digital download! These themes are universal and timeless - grab it anytime to benefit.

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 8 of Overflow October! Today we're talking about being broke - and why it's not always about your bank account. This is near and dear to my heart because of my own experiences, and I hope this shifts you into higher frequency.

Connect with Amber: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

Overflow October Workbook Companion, Grab Your Copy Here

What We're Covering:

• How broke mindset affects people with low AND high bank accounts
• Why the lowest bank account times don't always equal the lowest emotional times
• How prosperity comes in many forms beyond money (free trips, stays, meals, support)
• The cycle of looking at your account and saying "I can't because I'm broke"
• Why staying in high vibration brings opportunities, money, and support
• How judging yourself as a "bad person" for being broke creates more blocks

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Feeling Check: Don't look at your bank account - ask "How do I want to feel right now? How do I experience overflow NOW?"

✨ Support Allowance: Allow people to support you, opportunities to support you, unconventional ways to support you

✨ Daily Mantra: "I am abundant. I have all the money I need. I have all the opportunities I need. Money and support come to me in expected and unexpected ways."

✨ Faith Practice: Give power to something greater - you're co-creating, not doing this alone. Surrender, have faith, trust the process

Key Reframe: Times when I had technically low bank balance but felt great? I manifested incredible trips, free stays, people bringing food - all abundant things unrelated to my account. But when I feel low AND my account is low? That's when the cycle continues.

Truth Bomb: You're not a bad person if you're hoarding money. You're not a bad person if you're broke. You're just someone with energetic blocks - and those can be healed with small shifts daily.

Personal Story: I remember choosing between eating now or later because I didn't have funds. I took that behavior with me even when I had money. The broke mindset isn't always about actual numbers.

Day 8 Challenge: If you feel broke (low account or decent money but still feel broke from bills/unmet goals), step away from it. Ask "How can I feel abundant today?" Walk through your day with the mantra above.

No Judgment Zone: Whatever your bank account looks like - high or low - this is a safe space to feel into money fears and scarcity without judgment.

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Today's 7-Minute Reset: Day 7 of Overflow October! Today we're tackling something real juicy: gratitude, spiritual bypassing, and the duality of being grateful while wanting more. Yes, you can do BOTH.

Grab the Workbook here: https://beacons.ai/helloamberalexis

What We're Covering:

• The power of gratitude vs. toxic positivity and spiritual bypassing
• Why "just be grateful, don't ask for more" is exhausting and not true
• How duality works: wanting more AND being grateful can coexist
• The difference between wanting more vs. self-sabotaging something good (discernment)
• How to start with gratitude, then acknowledge what needs to change
• Future gratitude: being grateful for things you're calling in

Your Empowerment Tools: 

✨ Gratitude First Practice: Every morning say "I'm so grateful for this life, my job, family, health, friends, house, food..." Start from love, not scarcity

✨ Soul Check-In: From that grateful place, ask "Where is my soul being called now? What needs to change?"

✨ Future Gratitude: "I would be so grateful for the ability to drive my family in a new car, for a raise that lets me take my family out, for deeper friendships, for a solid partner"

✨ Discernment Question: "Am I wanting more or am I self-sabotaging something really good?"

Key Reframe: If you can listen to this podcast, you already have more than most people in this world. But that doesn't mean things aren't uncomfortable or misaligned. Honoring where your soul is at (unhappy, missing things) is maturity and leveling up spiritually.

Truth Bomb: Duality is real. You can want more AND appreciate what you have now. There was a time when you wished for what you have now - honor that. But don't let "just be grateful" stop you from having the life you deserve.

The Balance Formula:

1. Wake up in gratitude for everything aligned in your life
2. From that place of love, acknowledge what needs to change
3. Ask "How can I add to this gratitude? How can I become my fullest expression?"

This avoids calling in Band-Aid solutions from scarcity and instead creates aligned action from high vibration.

Day 7 Challenge: Step into gratitude practice. Then ask yourself: How can I step into overflow? How can I experience more gratitude? What else am I being called to experience in this lifetime?

EXCITING NEWS: Physical workbook is NOW LIVE on Amazon KDP! Ordering mine now to show you in the next episode. PDF still available below for $2.99.

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