Wake Up or Break Up!

It's not easy talking about the past...especially when it involves hurting someone you love. Here's part 2 of my question and answer session with Joe.

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It's not easy talking about the past...especially when it involves hurting someone you love. On today's episode, Joe opens up about how we met, what pushed him to cheat, and why he wants to stay together. 

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Telling the truth is hard. We don't want to admit we messed up. We don't want to be embarrassed. We don't want to hurt someone's feelings. We don't want to get uncomfortable. We don't want to be honest.  

Our inability to embrace truth is holding us back from becoming our true authentic selves. We need to do better. We need to be better. 

Stay tuned for Episode 8 where Joe and I get open and honest with life after infidelity. 

Special Shoutout to Deshawn Sinclair for the amazing soundtrack on this podcast!

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As we transition into the next phase of the podcast, there are few last things I'd like to say. I don't know if this will episode will make much sense, but I wanted to get some stuff off my chest before moving forward. So here I go...in all my random glory! Enjoy!

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We're coming to the end of season 1 and building up momentum for season 2!

For the past 6 weeks...I think I’ve covered almost everything I’ve experienced from infidelity to forgiveness.  Now it's time to transition into the next phase of the podcast.  As much as I've enjoyed sharing my journey with all of you, I'm excited to share the stories and experiences of people who have cheated or been cheated on.  Before we move on to Season 2, there are a few things I'd like to get off my chest. Tune in to Episode 7 for my final thoughts and things I wish I would have said to the other woman, Joe and myself. 

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Let's talk about SEX baby...Let's talk about YOU and ME...Let's talk about all the GOOD things and the BAD things that may be...Let's talk about SEX!

First of all, I totally EFFED UP on this episode. I guess that's a side effect of being human! You'll hear me refer to Episode 5 multiple times, but it's actually Episode 6. I also decided to remix the question.  Before we begin, let me share this disclaimer: "There is not a one size fits all solution to relationships and infidelity. I am simply sharing what worked for me, and encouraging you to honor what works best for you." 

That being said, I hope you enjoy this episode!

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I was definitely channeling some..."I am Woman hear me ROAR" vibes when I recorded this weeks podcast. Eight months ago I was faced with a devastating reality that was meant to destroy me and my marriage...and I SURVIVED! 

I took the pain, the hurt, the anger, and I made the most of it. In fact, I came out stronger, wiser, and more confident than I've ever been in my entire life! 

I'm not special guys. I don't have any life altering secrets to success or cheat codes to help salvage a marriage. I just put in the work. And when I say put in the work...I mean work on MYSELF.  For the first time in 15 years, I finally put my own happiness, well-being, and basic needs FIRST. 

Let me just say, it feels FREAKING AMAZING!

After Joe and I broke up, I found myself asking over and over again (in my Mr. Chow voice)...BUT DID YOU DIE??? And yes, that might be a little harsh and insensitive because I in fact did not die...but nonetheless...it was a good question to ask! 

Asking myself, "But Did You Die?"was a helpful way for me to shift my focus from victim to victor (if there was a victor in this situation), allowed me to own my circumstances and start the healing process. I needed a personal mantra. I needed something to remind me that I MADE IT! I faced one of the most painful experiences of my life and I'm still here!  I might be a little bruised, a little scarred, a little broken...BUT I DID NOT DIE!

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Every situation is different. Every couple has a different drama, dynamics, and connection. I can't tell you that forgiving and forgetting is necessary or even possible for you and your partner. All I can do is share my story and my insights.

Do I think it's possible to forgive and forget? Absolutely! Do I think it's necessary? Well, that depends on your personal situation and how you want to move forward in your life. 

If you want to stay together...If you want to move on...If you want to remove the burden hurt and anger have over you...If you want to free yourself of the situation...I strongly recommend creating your own healthy version of forgiving and forgetting. Honor your feelings and your relationship and do what's best for you, your family,  and your situation. 

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I'll talk to you guys again next week! Cheers!