Walk Diva Walk

Let me ask you this question: “Do you know what you want?”

When someone asks you what you want in life do you pause and have to think?

Do you look up in the sky searching for the answer hoping that it will fall from the sky? Being clear on what you truly want sometimes seems so far away from what our reality is or what it could be. 

Many times we forget to get clear on what we want because we are so focused on what other people want vs. our own needs and wants. There are times that we get tricked into thinking that other people’s wants and needs are our own because that is where we put them first. 

I don’t know who needs to hear this today… but it’s time to put you first Diva and get clear on what YOU WANT!!!

What does love have to do with it… EVERYTHING!!

In today’s episode we will take a deep dive into what love means to you. How does love impact our relationships that we enter into? How does love impact how we show up for others? 

We will talk about the standard of love that God gives us, as a matter of fact: God gives us guidance on what love is and what love is not. 

Are you sacrificing in the name of love?

I have learned from a good friend of mine that saying “No” is a complete sentence. It may not always be easy but many times it is necessary. 

Now when I speak about the “Joy Of No”,  I am talking about joy in taking responsibility for who you are, who you want to be, where you want to go, what you want to do and even who you want to be around. 

When you own the power of your “NO”, you remove the obligation to have to say “Yes” to everything and everybody. 

I know, for some the idea that they can say “NO” is foreign enough… the idea of taking Joy in it is a whole other thing. 

Let’s get into it… 

Some people think this may be a bit controversial however… To me it’s necessary!!!

LET’S BE SELFISH!

Now hear me out, I don’t mean to be selfish in a negative way where you have lack of consideration for others. I am saying that it’s time to pay more attention to ourselves and make sure we are taken care of. 

In this conversation we take a look at how we were raised and the belief that we have to be selfless to be valuable. I share my own personal stories of putting other people first and the results of not taking care of me. 

It’s time we turn the tables and reframe how we look at being SELFISH! 

Ready to reclaim control over your time and aspirations?

Brace yourself for a transformative journey as I, Dr. Mary L Boyd, lead the charge on overcoming guilt that often accompanies the pursuit of our dreams. This episode zeroes in on the guilt we sometimes feel when we set our own schedules and put ourselves first. We tackle the myth of life's balance and instead explore the harmony that exists when we align our lives with our goals.

 Let's break the chains of guilt together, stand tall, and unveil the power that lies within prioritizing our dreams.

Fear of judgment is a towering hurdle for many of us. Yet it's time we conquer that fear and allow ourselves to flourish. In the second part of this episode, I share an empowering seven-step guide specifically for Black women, to take this year head-on and live their dreams. Together we will navigate the path towards our aspirations, overcome any obstacles, fears, and guilt that may arise.

So, are you prepared to take control, prioritize yourself and your dreams?

Come along, and let's embark on this journey towards self-love, ambition, and success.

Imagine the power of using your past not as a shackle, but as a stepping stone to a brighter future.

That's exactly what I, Dr. Mary L Boyd, will be sharing with you today. Drawing from my personal experiences, I'll unravel how you can take responsibility for your actions and break free from the hold your past may have on you. Through candid discussions on childhood traumas, family hurts, and even my aversion to dishes and yard work, I aim to inspire you to rise above your past.

On this journey towards liberation, I offer an empowering seven-step process specifically tailored for black women. This process serves as a roadmap, leading you beyond past restraints and towards the realization of your dreams.

I promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have the tools necessary to move forward and live abundantly. 

Find out who Mary Boyde is, how she overcame the impossible, what made her decide she needed to let go of others' beliefs of what she could or should become, and how she decided on her own.  

She lays out how she transitioned to Money and when she started her own business would be the ultimate push she needed for her next level of win.

This raw conversation from Mary is a must and will absolutely change how you take your next steps and win faster toward what you want and your goals. 

We must discuss the topic of rejection and the importance of not caring what others think in order to achieve success.  It's part of the formula and the only way through! In this episode, I explore the KEY role that rejection plays in personal and professional growth, and together we will develop a roadmap and strategies for developing a thicker skin and becoming more resilient in the face of criticism. We are also going to dive into the benefits of embracing a consistent "growth mindset" and the ways in which this perspective can help you overcome obstacles and reach your goals. So, if you're ready to discover the secret ingredient to your win, walk with me DIVA. 

Listen... taking time for yourself and why it's non-negotiable. You hear me and are wondering, where oh where will you find the time, money or just space to even entertain this. I get it. Listen close as I walk you through my journey and we go from setting boundaries to finding activities that bring joy. This episode provides practical tips and guidance on how to start taking care of yourself, today. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn the essential steps to prioritizing your well-being and creating a healthier, happier life so that you can truly WALK DIVA WALK! 

In this laid-back and honest episode, she dives deep into this episode and how it shapes our faith. In this casual conversation, you'll get quick insight to help you navigate through moments of uncertainty.

Get context for the moments when you have questioned your beliefs and feel disconnected from your faith. 

Through genuine and honest dialogue, you'll get practical tips and experiences that can help you rediscover faith or find meaning beyond whatever it is you can see right now.

Whether you're going through your own faith journey or simply curious about others' experiences, this episode provides a safe space for reflection and gives you room to explore. 

Remember, sister; it's okay to question, doubt, and seek answers. We're here to support you along the way.