Whether you’re on a vacation and looking for love or you’re in your hometown swiping or walking your dog and waiting for a rom com “meet cute,” you’re probably feeling anxious to find “the one” and get the relationship going, right! You might think this sense of urgency sounds like desperation but we think being sure about what you’re looking for and standing solid on your expectations, boundaries and standards can help you fast track your road to love, as long as you don’t ignore the ever so dreaded red flags and fall for someone without really knowing what you’re getting into.

Committing to someone is the ultimate goal and there are ways to become exclusive and drive into a relationship without getting a speeding ticket for premature emotional "investulation." We are going to guide you through some tips we read posted by Erica, @your.relationship.reset, a relationship therapist and dating coach, that will help you identify if early emotionally investment is a pattern for you, how to be intentional about your dating decisions, why healing your abandonment wounds is important and 12 warning signs that you are emotionally investing too soon!

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