In this 19th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we talk

We describe a little about how we were introduced to sex through

Though sex education as curriculum taught in schools remains a

We also think it's very important to understand good ways of

Also, we feel it's our job as sexually active adults to seek pleasure

This takes practice. So, let's get going.

Enjoy the show.

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In this 18th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we talk about toys. 

Of course we love toys. Partner play with toys is a huge part of a healthy sexual relationship, we think.

The more toys the better! 

And the more communication and exploration the better.

Toys can be intimidating, however. 

What's the difference between a vibrator and a dildo? There are Wifi controlled toys? Butt plugs and sex furnature? Oh my!

Can you demo toys? Should you share toys? Isn't toy play just for women?

Let's dive in deeper for a true Toygasm.

What's your expererience with toys? Let us know.

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In this 17th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, Suzy and Sam are talking about public displays of affection. 

When are PDAs appropriate or not? What's too far? Who get's to create the rules? 

We'd much rather watch people showing loving affection in public then, say, fighting. And it really does spice things up kissing and petting when you know others may be watching. 

We talk about using the wifi controlled WeVibe Vector when going to a restaurant and bar. 

Also, we address the importance of code words to STOP the play when you partner may be thinking your resistance or reluctance may be simply part of the play. Power roles can be challenging both in the bedroom and outside without good communication.

What are your thoughts of PDA? Have you used toys like the Vector in public?

What are you code words to advance or stop the play according to the comfort levels of you and your partner? 

Let's hear from you. 

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This is the 16th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast with your hosts, Suzy and Sam.

Foreplay is what we call the "first chapter" of a sexual experience.  

It is about planting the seed of sex and building sexual tension. 

More than simply lubricating genitalia, foreplay is setting the stage.

Priming your partner in advance of the experience is very much part of sexuality.  Have them think about it, dream about it, spend the hours before anticipating what will happen.  Include sexy text messages, love notes, suggestive gifts. 

Let your partner know you desire them.

What are the things you include in foreplay? Let us know.

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In this Episode 15 of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast we are talking about aftercare. 

Aftercare is what we call the "third chapter" of a sexual expreience followed by foreplay and the sex acts themselves.

Aftercare may be one of the most often neglected part of the sexual experience. It is, however, a key ingredient to having rewarding sex. 

It's the time partners spend recovering together, caressing, cuddling, affirming their affection.

Aftercare is when lovers return to reality together after what may have been an intense sex that may have included elements of BDSM or fantasy roll playing. 

We'd love to hear your feedback and suggestions to make this podcast better.

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After taking several months off from recording episodes, the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast is back! 

Suzy and Sam are recording more episodes promoting safe and consensual sex without shame or guilt.  We're celebrating positive connections between people, and exploring new ways to experience pleasure together.  And, of course, we'll be reviewing sex toys.  FUN.

We consider the word SLUT in this episode.  Can women reclaim the derogatory connotation of the term and make it one without shame? 

Is there a better word we can use?

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In this episode we are talking about the BLUEPRINT of Sexual Compatibility as created by somatic sexologist JAIYA.  

Are you an Energetic? Sensual? Sexual? Kinky? ShapeShifter? Are you fulfilling your sexual blueprint superhero side, or living in the shadows of the archtype?

Take her quiz to determine what of the five Blueprint archtypes you are, and what you can become by going to her site www.missjaiya.com.

Most importantly, communicate with your lover. Discover who you are and what you may become together through exploration and attention.

Enjoy the show!

As always, please review and offer suggestions to make the podcast better.

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In this 12th episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast, we are ringing the Devil's doorbell and talking openly about masturbation.

Something judged, celebrated, reviled, and studied throughout history.

Suzy has done some fun research about how masturbation has been viewed over the centuries.

Masturbation has it's several benefits.

And it's complications.

So, warm up that bottle of coconut oil of yours and enjoy the show.

Please review and rate this episode on the platforms you listen to podcasts.  We'd certainly appreciate the feedback.

Also, let us know your suggestions for upcoming episode topics.

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In this Episode 11 of the What Bird Are You Podcast, we talk about pleasing your man in the bedroom. 

Our earlier episodes have been focused on female pleasure. This one gives attention to the male. 

Communicatie with your partner. And hopefully, just hopefully he will be receptive and reciprocate in kind. Find out what he wants. Discover his kinks and his fantasies. Does he prefer lingerie or booty shorts and knee-high socks? Does he want dominant or submissive? How loud and sloppy and dirty should the sex be? What will complement his masculine energy? It differs from each man and each circumstance.  

The key is communication and play. 

Enjoy 

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What better conversation than ORGASMS to ring in the double digits? This is episode 10 of the What Bird Are You Podcast.

We're talking about the various forms of orgasm, including the clitoral, g-spot, and anal orgasm.

Though we are not biologists or therapists, our experiences have given us some anecdotal evidence that reveals a lot about the value of orgasms in our own lives.

We also review the Pro 2 clitoral stimulator by SATISFYER. "Our classic and stylish Pro 2 debuts our proprietary Air-Pulse Technology, meant to excite your clitoris into pure bliss. Featuring a whisper quiet motor and a soft silicone head, the Pro 2 sets the mood to reach the peak of your desire."

What are your experiences with orgasms?

What are your thoughts on clitoral stimulators?

Reach out!

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