We All Win | The Inspirational Podcast for Aspirational Women

On today's slightly longer than micro episode we chat about help-asking for it, receiving it and the amplification of our actions through it. Also, did you see the video of the guy scrolling his cell phone while standing behind the young woman as she changed a tire...in the rain?! Let's talk about it! We All Win where you are seen, safe & support.

In this episode, I share about creating spaces where you can be seen, safe and supported. I share a little history and ALOT of vulnerability, which is very new for me. If you're anything like me, you're over 40, you've been grinding for years, you have more to do and are also tired of performative spaces.

I'd love to hear your thoughts and let me know if this is a format that works for you. No frills, no fluff, no bra! Hopefully, loads of inspiration and thoughtful discourse. Let me know what you think. Thanks for tuning in! #weallwin

Today we discuss the Princess Tiana hug that tugged on everyone's hearts and, more importantly, healed the inner little Black girl in so many of us who saw the video. Additionally, we discuss some social science about representation.

CLICK HERE for Linkedin Video of Tiana Hug

CLICK HERE for Angel Reese on Victoria's Secret Runway

In this episode I go deep on my 5-year journey of not being able to cry. We discuss The Strong Black Woman trope and thoughts on what we can do about it, internally.

Resources (click on the media that follows the colon on each entry below, even if not highlighted on the platform you're seeing this):

• Dr. Tracey Marks: YouTube Channel
• Dr. Anita Phillips, The Garden Within: Book
• Happened across this Tracey Marks short on "success" of therapy: YouTube Short
• Teyana Taylor's comments on The Strong Black Woman and Survival Mode: My Linkedin Post
• "Growth" from Insecure: GIF
• White Tears/Brown Scars: How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color: Book
• Sex & the City Movie - Will Carrie ever laugh again? YouTube video

This episode is about coming in dead last and STILL winning. We discuss how winning is defined and I share a TON of resources at the end of the episode, which I also list below.

We All Win does not negate competition, and in a 2-person race for a promotion or anything else your heart may be set on, YOU should win.

I KNOW if it's between me and you I'm rooting for ME, as well all should.

Let's WIN together!

Resources (click on the type of media "book", etc. to link directly to each resource listed):

• War of Art by Steven Pressfield - Book
• Mindset by Carol Dweck - Book (note it was updated in 2017 and there are related works)
• Grit by Angela Duckworth - TEDx Talk and Book
• I'm Highly Percent Sure by Caroline Wanga - Book
• Power Moves by Sarah Jakes Roberts - Book (also has journal and other supporting resources)
• Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware - Book
• The Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin - Book
• Bamboozled by Jesus by Yvonne Orji - Book
• The World is Waiting for you...God Dream by Edwina Findley - Book
• WILL by Will Smith - Book
• Dr. Tracey Marks Neurologist - YouTube Channel
• Dr. Raquel Martin - Instagram Page

This episode discusses the "We All" in "We All Win". If you are a Sister of a certain age and you are feeling depleted, possibly disgusted, then this space is yours. Each episode will be heavy on inspiration, and then resources, strategy and tactics will be secondary.

I care deeply about your journey and want you to know that you are seen, safe, supported and surrounded. Feel free to find me on Linkedin https://linkedin.com/in/michelleytalbert

I would love to connect with you. Here is the link to the post from Dawn Butler about the 300K Black women who have lost their jobs, that I mentioned during the episode, as well HERE

Full link to Dawn's post if the embedded link doesn't work:

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/dawnbutler1_language-matters-activity-7378798307311247360-g45j?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAAADiMxABvT6whsiBoaLBGEufKz5GyPt47zo

Feel free to subscribe to We All Win and share. See you on the next episode!

#weallwin it's not just a hashtag, it's our lifestyle

This is the mini-reintroduction of the podcast. After a year of BEing and not LEADing, Michelle is back, with this snippet to remind you to take a moment for you! And it can start as simple as going to the bathroom when you need to!

See you on the next episode! Drop a review or shoot me a note to let me know how you'll show up for YOU!

An invitation to you to join us on a yearlong study group of Amanda Frances' best-selling book "Rich As F*ck more money than you know what to do with".

This is so much bigger than "money"--it's about dedicating energy and time in community to explore and apply the concepts each month.

Check out more information and sign up at herpowermoves.com/richaf

Watch my video on YouTube here

In this episode we take a look at what may be holding you back in your journey to live out fully.

Some questions you can ask yourself:

1. Regarding others:
   • Can I do that better?
   • Do I want to do that?
   • Are they doing their best?
   • Are they having fun?
   • Do I think it's brave to do what they're doing?
   • Am I brave enough to do that?
     • If yes, and I want to do that, why aren't I do it too?
2. Regarding yourself:
   • If I heard someone say that about my friend or loved one, what would I say?

If you're looking for community where we center 40 & better Black+ women solopreneurs and side hustlers then come take a look at us over on Her Power Moves: The Squad - herpowermoves.com/youvegotsquad

Well this aged well. In 2015 I sat down with Felecia to discuss entrepreneurship, the low expectations of others and DOING EPIC SHIT!

Have you ever been underestimated?