First episode of 2021 and we're talking about patience. How do you cultivate it? Why is it necessary? What makes us impatient? As usual, the laughs are abundant, the candor is unabashed, and your girls Nikki B. and J. Hy give you the real from their everyday. Follow us on social media and don't forget to share and subscribe. 

It's the last episode of 2020. In this episode Nikki B. and J. Hy. talk about getting ready for the year ahead. What's holding you back? What are you excited about? What lessons did 2020 teach you that you'll be carrying into 2021? Don't forget to follow us on social media and listen wherever you stream stuff. We love you. Happy Kwanzaa! Happy New Year! See you in 2021!

Truth is, we tired. Of doing things we don't want to do and dealing with people we should've left alone a long time ago. This week, Nikki and Jocelyn discuss when enough is enough. How to tell when you've had enough, what to do, what motivates you in your relationships and life in general, all of that and some more. Have you had enough? Send us an email at [email protected].

 We talk about what it means to solve for P, where P= Purpose. What is our purpose? How do we know when we've found it? What do we do when we know we aren't fully living it? How to find it, how to follow it, how to encourage our kids to seek it.  

In our first episode, we discussed friendship. It's still one of our most popular episodes. This is the part two of that discussion... the flipside. What if it ain't all good with you and your people? Do y'all need to take a time out or is it lights out and game over ? Nikki and Joc have, as usual, a very candid and honest conversation about the dark side of friendship. What to do when it goes left, how to grieve what you've lost, and how to move on. 

In this week's episode, Nikki and J. Hy put on their small business owner hats and discuss the ins and outs of dealing with people. This episode was inspired by the low ball. If you're a small business owner or know someone who is, this episode is the vent session you need.  Make sure to like and subscribe,  and follow us on Facebook.

This episode is for those people who have to deal with toxic family members during the holidays. That auntie, those cousins, that grandma, them people. And we get it.  Even in a pandemic, they still wanna get together. What do you do? You've done the affirmations, lit the candles, wrote in your journal but you still know that SOMEBODY gon get on your nerves. Listen to this episode, we may be able to help.

In the Season 2 opener, we pick up where we left off, talking shit and snitchin on each other. We discuss the election, coping with the pandemic, and taking care of ourselves. Follow us on IG and Facebook, @we_just_out_here2

We're back with one of our most requested topics: Self Care. During this unprecedented time, a lot of y'all have asked about our self care routines. In this episode we tell y'all what we do and don't do, snitch on each other, discuss the election and our reactions to it, and break down why now more than ever, self care is necessary. 

Now before you send us hate mail, we're wrapping up season one. This is our "No Cap Recap". We talk about the show, how it's changed us, what we've learned in our first season, trauma we've had to move through because of our conversations. There's a lot of laughs, some very candid moments and some spice. But that's why you love this podcast right? Enjoy, we'll see y'all in November. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram: @we_just_out_here2