There is something so delicious about the "he falls first" romance trope. This week, I am sitting down with my friend Aimee from Curvy Girls Read Romance for a trope deep dive into down-bad heroes, pining, and why this trope shines so brightly in plus-size romance. We discuss body neutrality vs. body positivity in bookish spaces, moving past 2000s media toxicity, and why we will never get tired of heroes who fall fast and hard for their women. Plus, we share a massive stack of recommendations spanning contemporary, historical, sports, and monster romance.
Aimee is a trained historian and the creator behind Curvy Girls Read Romance on Instagram and StoryGraph. She highlights plus-size representation across romance genres, including contemporary, historical, dark, and monster romance, with a focus on bringing body neutrality to the bookish community.
In this episode, we're discussing:
- The shift toward body neutrality in romance and pushing back against toxic beauty standards.
- Why the "he falls first" trope works so well alongside friends-to-lovers, wife guys, and pining heroes.
- Why down-bad heroes hit differently in plus-size romance by turning old media tropes on their heads.
- How body neutrality in books creates validating, real-world relationship representation.
- A curated reading list of top "he falls first" book recommendations across multiple romance subgenres.
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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Goal by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
Let Me Love You by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
Lilith by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
A Tropical Rebel Gets the Duke by Adriana Herrera (Amazon | Bookshop)
Only for the Week by Natasha Bishop (Amazon | Bookshop)
The Catch (Seattle Strikes series) by Leonor Solis (Amazon | Bookshop)
The Game (Seattle Strikes series) by Leonor Solis (Amazon | Bookshop)
Not Safe for Work by Nisha J. Tuli (Amazon | Bookshop)
Almost Maybes by Anna P. (Amazon | Bookshop)
Taken to Voraxia by Elizabeth Stevens (Amazon | Bookshop)
Pursued by the Orc by Saam King (Amazon | Bookshop)
Center of Attention by Daisy Wren (Amazon)
First Comes Amor by Cynthia A. Rodriguez (Amazon)
You Hide, I'll Seek by M.L. Bash (Amazon)
Who You Belong To by M.L. Bash (Amazon | Bookshop)
For the Plot by Emily B. Rose (Amazon | Bookshop)
Just Joshing by Evie Mitchell (Amazon | Bookshop)
Cocky by Taahesi B. Williams (Amazon)
Tasty by Taahesi B. Williams (Amazon)
Big Trouble in a Little Mafia by Tanvier Peart (Amazon | Bookshop)
Danger Family Series by Endiya Carter (Amazon)
Luv Shuv in New York by N.M. Patel (Amazon | Bookshop)
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