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Why are we still measuring the value and desirability of women against the benchmark of youth? Today, I am joined by celebrated author and writing coach Cathy Yardley to pull back the curtain on more than twenty-five years of navigating the publishing landscape.
We trace her career from selling category romance to Harlequin in 1999 to publishing award-winning standalones with Montlake, including her hit midlife romance Role Playing. Cathy opens up about her late-in-life ADHD and bipolar II diagnoses, the drop in estrogen that strips away masking in perimenopause, and how neurodiversity shapes both her daily creative guardrails and her complex, relatable characters. Plus, we dig into the beauty of he-fell-first handymen, the deep grounding power of female friendships, and her upcoming romance centered around midlife K-pop fandom.
Cathy Yardley is an award-winning author of romance, chick lit, and urban fantasy, who has sold over 1.2 million copies of books for publishers like St. Martin's, Avon, and Harlequin. She writes fun, geeky, and diverse characters who believe that underdogs can make good and that sometimes being a little wrong is just right.
She likes writing about quirky, crazy adventures, because she's had plenty of her own: she had her own army in the Society of Creative Anachronism; she spent a New Year's on a three-day solitary vision quest in the Mojave Desert; she had VIP access to the Viper Room in Los Angeles.
Now, she spends her time writing in the wilds of Eastern Washington, trying to prevent her son from learning the truth of any of said adventures, and riding herd on her two dogs (and one husband.)
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Website
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Role Playing by Cathy Yardley
Do Me a Favor by Cathy Yardley
You Can’t Be Serious by Cathy Yardley
Love, Comment, Subscribe by Cathy Yardley
Gouda Friends by Cathy Yardley
Ex Appeal by Cathy Yardley
How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis
Stay Sexy & Don’t Get Murdered by Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark
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What happens when you look at live professional wrestling, see the electric tension between two fierce athletes in the ring, and wonder: what if they kissed? Today, I am joined by romance author Tamara Lemus to discuss her path into indie publishing and the creation of her Wrestling With Love series.
We break down the inspiration behind her breakout sapphic sports romance, From the Top Rope, which was sparked while attending WWE Backlash in Puerto Rico. Tamara shares what it takes to write authentic Latinx representation across fantasy and sports romance, exploring nuanced bi awakenings, balancing legacy privilege against hard-earned ambition, and what readers can expect from the next installment in the ring, Behind the Ropes.
Tamara Lemus started writing at a young age when her mother gifted her journals. Later, she branched out onto the online writing scene by writing Harry Styles fan fiction on Tumblr. Her love of reading started when a little book titled Twilight entered the world. As she grew up, life got in the way, and reading went to the back burner until she picked up a fantasy book that sparked her love of reading back to life. Tamara enjoys reading fantasy, romance, and thriller books. In her spare time, she loves traveling, trying new foods, and spending time with her family and fur baby, Xena
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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
From the Top Rope by Tamara Lemus (Amazon)
Behind the Ropes by Tamara Lemus
Runaway Fae by Tamara Lemus (Amazon)
Jack Whitney
Hailey Dickert
Alex's Bookstore
The New Romantics
Scribbles Bookshop
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Enemies to lovers is easily one of the most beloved tropes in romance, but the tag gets slapped on everything from gentle workplace competition to full-blown murderous vendettas. Today, I sit down with fellow reader and creator Chalon from Bookmarked by Chalon to break down the entire spectrum of enemies to lovers.
We define the boundaries between mild rivals to lovers, enemies to lovers light, and true enemies with deadly intent. Then, we trade our favorite book recommendations across subgenres, including fantasy, mafia, sapphic sports, monster romance, god retellings, and historical romance.
Chalon is the book reviewer, content creator, and host behind Bookmarked by Chalon. After stepping away from pleasure reading while working as a teacher, she returned to fiction with a passion for romance, character-driven storytelling, and high-angst tropes. She shares book recommendations, author discussions, and reviews across social media.
In this episode, we're discussing:
CONNECT WITH CHALON:
YouTube
Episodes Mentioned:
Alexandria House S1 Ep10 (Podcast | YouTube)
Naima Simone S2 Ep4 (Podcast | YouTube)
Regina Black S4 Ep 2 (Podcast | YouTube)
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Urban Romance Recs from @Tofu.TBR (Part 1 | Part 2)
House of Agnes by Fiona Zedde (Amazon | Bookshop)
His Vicious Siren by Anaïs Isaac (Amazon | Bookshop)
Destiny’s Captive by Beverly Jenkins (Amazon | Bookshop)
Shadowland Omega by Elizabeth Stephens (Amazon | Bookshop)
Your Coffin or Mine by Jacklyn Hyde (Amazon | Bookshop)
Hostile Takeover by Christina C. Jones (Amazon)
Cocky by Taahesi B. Williams (Amazon)
Memphis and Lilith by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
Pride and Protest by Nikki Payne (Amazon | Bookshop)
Enemies to Lovers by Alisha Rai (Amazon | Bookshop)
Debt by Nina G. Jones (Amazon | Bookshop)
The Love Audit by Lucy Eden (Amazon | Bookshop)
From the Top Rope by Tamara Lemus (Amazon | Bookshop)
Outdrawn by Deanna Gray (Amazon | Bookshop)
Our Vicious Oaths by N.E. Davenport (Amazon | Bookshop)
Lore Olympus by Rachel Smythe (Amazon | Bookshop)
Bound to the Battle God by Ruby Dixon (Amazon | Bookshop)
Demon’s Dream by Elle Kayson (Amazon | Bookshop)
August Lane by Regina Black (Amazon | Bookshop)
Strung Together by Kasha Thompson (Amazon | Bookshop)
Huntsman by Naima Simone (Amazon | Bookshop)
Katee Robert (Amazon | Bookshop)
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With vampire romance surging in popularity, how do you take a classic paranormal creature and flip the rulebook completely on its head? Today, I am joined by North Carolina romance author and event host Melissa Simone to break down her unique paranormal universe. We discuss her novel The Vampire Reversal, where a 400-year-old vampire actively seeks a way out of immortality through genuine, uncompelled human connection.
We also get into her writing journey from early poetry to indie romance, how her entire family became her ride-or-die promotional entourage at book events, and what it really takes to build inclusive, author-focused book conventions like Temptation in the Triangle and Write Me Romance and Fantasy Book Con.
Melissa Simone has always enjoyed reading and writing since childhood. Her passion for books and happy endings inspired her to write and publish her own love stories with smut and happy endings as a requirement. Aside from being an independent author, she is a wife, a mother of 4, a US Army Veteran, and a Nurse. Melissa identifies as free-spirit with a hippie heart, and a butterfly soul.
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CONNECT WITH MELISSA SIMONE:
Event Website
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
The Vampire Reversal by Melissa Simone
Significance of Love, Sacrifices, and Secrets by Melissa Simone
Letters, Quotes, and Poetry, Et cetera by Melissa Simone
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With over a decade in the publishing industry, romance author and literary agent Sade Rena has navigated nearly every corner of the business. Today, I sit down with Sade to discuss the reality of author burnout after publishing 20 books in three years, the collaborative mechanics of co-authoring with close friends, and the transition from indie control to landing a traditional two-book deal with Forever.
We also explore how writing helps process personal grief, the evolving boundaries authors must set against modern parasocial behavior, and her new adult hockey romance, On Thin Ice.
S. Rena (Sade Rena) is a contemporary, dark romance, and sports romance author who has been writing stories since childhood. In addition to her extensive indie backlist and multiple co-written series, she is a literary agent at Beck Literary, where she advocates for marginalized authors across the industry. Her traditional debut, On Thin Ice, is out now.
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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
On Thin Ice by Sade Rena
Last Chance Cowboy by Sade Rena
Hazard by Sade Rena
B.L. Mute
M.L. Preston
J.L. Beck
Zane
Rina Kent
Elizabeth Stephens
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Connecting with long-time romance readers brings such a deep understanding of genre conventions to the podcast. This week, I am sitting down with Jessica P. Pryde to discuss her transition from public librarian and Book Riot editor to founder of the Why Choose Pop-Up Romance Bookstore. We talk about the importance of curating shelves filled with systemically excluded voices, how to combat the algorithm by reading intentionally, and why romance tropes are conventions rather than copies of other books. Plus, we share a massive stack of character-forward recommendations, including urban romance doorstoppers and nerdy meta-fiction.
Jessica Pryde is a professional book person and Blerd currently living in Southern Arizona. A librarian for over 15 years, she has been pushing progressive romance onto unsuspecting readers for half of her life. She is a Contributing Editor at Book Riot, where she writes mostly about romance and libraries, and hosted the When In Romance podcast for nearly eight years (RIP). She is the editor of the essay anthology BLACK LOVE MATTERS: REAL TALK ON ROMANCE, BEING SEEN, AND HAPPILY EVER AFTERS and has written for Audible, Kobo, the Harlequin Ever After blog, and other places. She is the owner and Founder of Why Choose, a pop-up romance bookstore centering the work of historically and systemically excluded and marginalized creators. Read more at jessicapryde.com
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CONNECT WITH JESSICA P PRYDE:
Website
Bookstore Instagram
Personal Instagram
Personal Website
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Demon's Dream by Elle Kayson (Amazon | Bookshop)
Fan Service by Rosie Danan (Amazon | Bookshop)
Score by Kennedy Ryan (Amazon | Bookshop)
Big Trouble In a Little Mafia by Tanvier Peart (Amazon | Bookshop)
Please Don't Go by E. Salvador (Amazon | Bookshop)
Legend by Jude Deveraux (Amazon | Bookshop)
Beverly Jenkins (Amazon | Bookshop)
Cat Sebastian (Amazon | Bookshop)
Katee Robert (Amazon | Bookshop)
Chencia C. Higgins (Amazon | Bookshop)
J.L. Seegars (Amazon | Bookshop)
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What does it take to direct a play, write television sitcom specs, and transition into creating vibrant Black rom-com universes? Today, I am sitting down with Los Angeles-based romance author Monique Fisher to discuss her artistic journey, her theater and playwriting roots, and why she is never precious about scrapping full manuscripts when the story isn’t hitting the mark.
We get into the craft lessons of sitcom writing, why the most memorable meet-cutes embrace the cringe, and how she deliberately subverts classic romance tropes—from soft doms to female-led power dynamics in male-dominated spaces. Plus, Monique breaks down her Decadence series, the Richardson Sibling trilogy, and her epic, 15-year love story Where There Is Smoke, There Is Fire!
Monique Fisher is a Los Angeles-based author of contemporary Black romance and romantic comedy. With a background in theater directing, playwriting, graphic novels, and television writing, she brings sharp comic timing, vibrant community dynamics, and authentic Black love to the page. She is the author of Where There Is Smoke, There Is Fire, the Richardson Sibling trilogy, and the Decadence series.
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CONNECT WITH MONIQUE FISHER:
Website
TikTok
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Where There Is Smoke, There Is Fire by Monique Fisher (Amazon | Bookshop)
She a Baddie by Monique Fisher (Amazon | Bookshop)
Make Room for Heather by Monique Fisher (Amazon | Bookshop)
Hot for Teacher by Monique Fisher (Amazon | Bookshop)
Spend My Life with You by Monique Fisher (Amazon)
An Appeal for Your Love by Monique Fisher (Amazon)
Tell Me I'm Not Dreaming by Monique Fisher (Amazon | Bookshop)
Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry by Mildred D. Taylor (Amazon | Bookshop)
Waiting to Exhale by Terry McMillan (Amazon | Bookshop)
Eric Jerome Dickey (Amazon | Bookshop)
Bebe Moore Campbell (Amazon | Bookshop)
Beverly Jenkins (Amazon | Bookshop)
Brenda Jackson (Amazon | Bookshop)
Frances Ray (Amazon | Bookshop)
Zane (Amazon | Bookshop)
Meka James (Amazon | Bookshop)
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Today on the podcast, we have a very special treat: our first man on the show, and someone who writes deeply authentic, Black queer M/M romance! I am sitting down with author and higher education administrator Frederick Smith to discuss his seven-novel journey, writing queer love stories set across California, and navigating a full-time university career alongside a prolific writing schedule.
We dive into the importance of own voices in the M/M romance space, paying homage to trailblazers like E. Lynn Harris, the three non-negotiable rules for an ethical second-chance romance, and why authors and readers alike must show up in spaces where Black and queer voices need greater visibility. Plus, Frederick shares the real-life inspiration behind One and Done and teases his upcoming 2027 mismatched age-gap romance!
Originally from Detroit, Frederick Smith is the author of seven romance novels set in L.A. and San Francisco that feature Black LGBTQIA+ characters. His 2024 novel, One and Done, is described as a Black, Queer, Higher Ed, Bay Area romance. It was published on Bold Strokes Books. His forthcoming novel, Love Is A Contact Sport, is a Black, Queer, Second Chance, College Reunion, MM romance out June 2026 on Bold Strokes Books. A higher education professional by day, Frederick does Student Affairs and Diversity & Inclusion work at San Francisco State University.
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CONNECT WITH FREDERICK SMITH:
Website
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Love is a Contact Sport by Frederick Smith (Amazon | Bookshop)
One and Done by Frederick Smith (Amazon | Bookshop)
Play it Forward by Frederick Smith (Amazon | Bookshop)
Right Side of the Wrong Bed by Frederick Smith (Amazon)
E. Lynn Harris (Amazon | Bookshop)
Terry McMillan (Amazon | Bookshop)
Eric Jerome Dickey (Amazon | Bookshop)
Beverly Jenkins (Amazon | Bookshop)
Kennedy Ryan (Amazon | Bookshop)
Rebekah Weatherspoon (Amazon | Bookshop)
Adib Khorram (Amazon | Bookshop)
On Thin Ice by S Rena (Amazon)
Monique Fisher (Amazon)
Karmen Lee (Amazon)
Meka James (Amazon | Bookshop)
Julian Winters (Amazon | Bookshop)
Rashid Darden (Amazon | Bookshop)
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There is something so delicious about the "he falls first" romance trope. This week, I am sitting down with my friend Aimee from Curvy Girls Read Romance for a trope deep dive into down-bad heroes, pining, and why this trope shines so brightly in plus-size romance. We discuss body neutrality vs. body positivity in bookish spaces, moving past 2000s media toxicity, and why we will never get tired of heroes who fall fast and hard for their women. Plus, we share a massive stack of recommendations spanning contemporary, historical, sports, and monster romance.
Aimee is a trained historian and the creator behind Curvy Girls Read Romance on Instagram and StoryGraph. She highlights plus-size representation across romance genres, including contemporary, historical, dark, and monster romance, with a focus on bringing body neutrality to the bookish community.
In this episode, we're discussing:
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BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Goal by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
Let Me Love You by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
Lilith by Alexandria House (Amazon | Bookshop)
A Tropical Rebel Gets the Duke by Adriana Herrera (Amazon | Bookshop)
Only for the Week by Natasha Bishop (Amazon | Bookshop)
The Catch (Seattle Strikes series) by Leonor Solis (Amazon | Bookshop)
The Game (Seattle Strikes series) by Leonor Solis (Amazon | Bookshop)
Not Safe for Work by Nisha J. Tuli (Amazon | Bookshop)
Almost Maybes by Anna P. (Amazon | Bookshop)
Taken to Voraxia by Elizabeth Stevens (Amazon | Bookshop)
Pursued by the Orc by Saam King (Amazon | Bookshop)
Center of Attention by Daisy Wren (Amazon)
First Comes Amor by Cynthia A. Rodriguez (Amazon)
You Hide, I'll Seek by M.L. Bash (Amazon)
Who You Belong To by M.L. Bash (Amazon | Bookshop)
For the Plot by Emily B. Rose (Amazon | Bookshop)
Just Joshing by Evie Mitchell (Amazon | Bookshop)
Cocky by Taahesi B. Williams (Amazon)
Tasty by Taahesi B. Williams (Amazon)
Big Trouble in a Little Mafia by Tanvier Peart (Amazon | Bookshop)
Danger Family Series by Endiya Carter (Amazon)
Luv Shuv in New York by N.M. Patel (Amazon | Bookshop)
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What happens when a Hollywood screenwriter and director steps out of the writer's room to write her very first fiction novel? Today, I am sitting down with screenwriter, director, and author Laura Chinn to talk about her debut novel, Counting the Days. We get into what it's really like transitioning from TV sitcom writer's rooms to solo novel writing, pre-midlife anxiety surrounding fertility and reproductive timelines, healing inner child trauma, and why she deliberately writes female friendships centered on genuine sisterhood rather than pettiness. Plus, Laura breaks down her screenwriting perspective on what actually makes a book adapt well to the screen!
Laura Chinn wrote and directed the Searchlight feature film Suncoast, which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival and won a jury prize. She created and starred in the half-hour comedy series Florida Girls and wrote the memoir Acne (Hachette) and the novel Counting the Days (Penguin Random House). Her other television writing and producing credits include High Potential, The Mick, and Childrens Hospital.
In this episode, we're discussing:
CONNECT WITH LAURA CHINN:
Counting the Days by Laura Chinn (Amazon | Bookshop)
Suncoast (Film directed by Laura Chinn)
BOOKS/AUTHORS MENTIONED:
Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver (Amazon | Bookshop)
The Dutch House by Ann Patchett (Amazon | Bookshop)
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