What do you think of when you hear the phrase "skinny pancakes"? Kris returns from GCLS with stories to tell, including an answer to that question. In this strange in-between time of summer, when shows have ended and not started up again, Kris has been watching movies and Tara has been reading a book about crypto.

Official Recommendations

From Kris: The Hunting Wives (Netflix)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the new Netflix series, The Hunting Wives. It's a show about a woman who moves down south for her husband’s new job and lands in the orbit of a tight inner circle of housewives who keep deadly secrets. Kris loved it.

From Tara: Relationship Material by Rachel Spangler

Tara’s official recommendation this week is Relationship Material by Rachel Spangler. It's a romance between Robin, a psychologist and one of the side characters from Informed Consent, and Sawyer, who's best friends with Robin's boss and is nonbinary. Both are thrill seekers and neither are looking for commitment, and they have to decide what to do when very real feelings develop. 

Works/People Discussed

• Jamie Rose's GCLS Speech 
• ReadOUT Festival
• Final Destination Bloodlines (2025)
• Fantastic Four (2025)
• Jeopardy! (NBC)
• RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars (Paramount+)
• Date Everything! (Sassy Chap Games)
• Number Go Up: Inside Crypto's Wild Rise and Staggering Fall by Zeke Faux
• Incendiant by Virginia Black

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The GCLS conference has come and gone, but this was recorded before that, so Kris shares her plans for the con. 

We hear the tale (tail?) of a new kitty entering Kris’s domain. Everybody give it up for Mangy Kitty! Wait, we're getting an update. The cat has a new name and it’s… oh. Oh dear. Really? You’ll have to listen to find out more.

Kris and Tara also do a final debrief of their (very strong) feelings about the ending of The Ultimatum: Queer Love. 

Official Recommendations

From Kris: Woman on Fire (2016)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the 2016 documentary Woman on Fire, which tells the story of New York City’s first transgender firefighter. Kris says it's very informative about the trans experience and strongly recommends it as a starting point to educate yourself if you’re looking for more information.

From Tara: Date Everything! (Sassy Chap Games)

Tara’s official recommendation this week is Date Everything! It's a dating sim game where, after being let go from your customer service job, you receive a mysterious gift of glasses that allow you to date everything in your home. Everything becomes a person. The bed, the ceiling, the toilet, the blender, and 96 other things. Everything is there for you to date, befriend, or hate. Tara loved this game, playing it like it was her job and ended up laughing until she cried.

Works/People Discussed

• Destination X (NBC)
• Building the Band (Netflix)
• Jeopardy! (NBC)
• The Ultimatum: Queer Love (Netflix)
• RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars (Paramount+)
• Autocracy Inc.: The Dictators Who Want to Run the World by Anne Applebaum
• When DC Met Iowa by Lee Winter
• Toni and Addie Go Viral by Melissa Marr

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Kris returns from Vegas, poorer in money but rich in experiences, which she is here to share. Later, the pair deep dive into the latest season of The Ultimatum: Queer Love. As of the time of recording, the final episodes had not been released, so these are very in-process thoughts. 

Official Recommendations

From Kris: Sally (2025)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the documentary Sally (2025), which explores the life of the first female astronaut, Sally Ride, including her accomplishments and the revelation about her sexuality after her death. Kris described this as a powerful documentary, emotional and informative, and she thinks she and Sally would have been great friends.

From Tara: A Rare Find by Joanna Lowell

Tara’s official recommendation this week is A Rare Find by Joanna Lowell, an enemies-to-lovers queer romance set in the Regency period. It features a young woman who wishes to be taken seriously as an anthropologist and ventures to find an old Viking burial ground she believes to be on her property.

Works/People Discussed

• FUBAR (Netflix)
• Alone (The History Channel)
• Alone: Australia (SBS)
• My Mom Jayne (2025)
• The Ultimatum: Queer Love (Netflix)
• RuPaul's Drag Race: All Stars (Paramount+)
• KPop Demon Hunters (2025)
• The AI Con: How to Fight Big Tech's Hype and Create the Future We Want by Emily M. Bender and Alex Hanna 
• This is Who I Am by Harper Bliss

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In this week’s episode, Tara talks about their experience at a local queer art market while Kris brainstorms ways to make money to finance her upcoming trip to Vegas. We learn about a pretty fullproof way to kidnap Kris and she shares more cat stories. 

Official Recommendations

From Kris: Incendiant by Virginia Black

Kris’s official recommendation this week is Incendiant by Virginia Black. A follow-up to Consecrated Ground (which you do not have to read to check out this book), it takes place in a world of vampires, witches and monsters lurking behind the scenes of our regular world. Kris loved it.

From Tara: Cosmic Love at the Multiverse Hair Salon by Annie Mare

Tara’s official recommendation this week is the hard-to-describe but utterly charming Cosmic Love at the Multiverse Hair Salon by Annie Mare. A hair stylist gets stood up on a spur-of-the-moment date only to discover that the woman she’s texting is from another point in the multiverse, five months in the past. With her friends behind her, she plots with her crush via text so that her multiversal version can get together with the girl of her dreams. 

Works/People Discussed

• SASS - Sapphic Action Support Squad Facebook Group
• Sapphics with the T merch
• The Handmaid’s Tale (Hulu)
• The Traitors (Peacock)
• 28 Days Later (2002)
• 28 Weeks Later (2007)
• 28 Years Later (2025)
• RuPaul's Drag Race: All Stars (Paramount+)
• Hades (Supergiant Games)
• Don't Want You Like a Best Friend by Emma R. Alban
• Consecrated Ground by Virginia Black
• The Vanquishers by Kalynn Bayron

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This week, Tara discovers that all the fanfiction she's been reading lately has completely thrown off her ability to determine what is and is not a long book. Kris talks about her first time interacting with AI. This turns out to be Tara’s activation phrase and leads to a longer conversation about AI, how it’s coming for our jobs, and what we need to keep in mind when using it.

And, of course, they bring recommendations.

Official Recommendations 

From Kris: On Swift Horses (2024)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is On Swift Horses, a romantic drama film that revolves around a woman and her relationship with her husband’s brother. Kris described their relationship as one of those "few times in a life" things that wake a person up to who they really are, challenging them to move past themselves. 

From Tara: Di-Curious by Erin Branch

Tara’s official recommendation this week is Di-Curious by Erin Branch, a book steeped in the TTRPG space (that’s table-top roleplaying games for all you cooler kids). It's about one woman’s journey to rebuild her career after a mishap puts her into the crosshairs of an old friend she'd unwittingly hurt. Sparks fly! Tara described this as a cozy, thoughtful, and lovely read.

Works/People Discussed

• SASS - Sapphic Action Support Squad Facebook Group
• Ed Zitron
• The AI Con: How to Fight Big Tech's Hype and Create the Future We Want by Emily M. Bender and Alex Hanna
• Queer Liberation Library
• The Walking Dead: Dead City (AMC)
• Sirens (Netflix)
• Jeopardy! (NBC)
• RuPaul's Drag Race: All Stars (Paramount+)
• Principle Decisions by Thea Belmont
• Boss of Her by Anna Stone

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This week, Kris catches Tara up on all the news. Book deadlines, a trip to Vegas, Tiki the rescue dog, and a whole summer dedicated to working on what? Check that episode title. 

Kris is super busy and Tara is a little scatterbrained (wait for the outtake at the end to hear why). But what’s nobody too busy for? You guessed it: recommendations.

Official Recommendations

From Kris: Younger (Netflix)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the TV series Younger (2015-2019). This is Kris’s second time watching it and she’s fallen in deep. It’s the story of a middle-aged woman who pretends to be in her 20s to work in a millennial media company. Kris describes it as queer-friendly, flirty, and fun, with characters you’d want to be friends with. She’s had a great time with it and thinks you will too.

From Tara: The Woman From the Waves by Roslyn Sinclair

Tara’s official recommendation this week is The Woman From the Waves by Roslyn Sinclair, which isn’t out yet, but will be on June 5 (here's the preorder link). It's a contemporary romantasy between a shapeshifting ocean-dwelling horse spirit off the coast of the Orkney Islands in Scotland and the nun who captures her attention. Tara loved this book, describing it as one she will return to again and again. She gives a caution for readers with religious trauma, particularly if it's rooted in Catholicism, as the nun in the book reconciles with a lot of internalized homophobia.

Works/People Discussed

• Tiki, the rescue dog
• SASS - Sapphic Action Support Squad Facebook Group
• Lambda Literary Statement on Book Bans
• The Last of Us (HBO)
• Survivor (CBS)
• Novocaine (2025)
• Death of a Unicorn (2025)
• RuPaul's Drag Race: All Stars (Paramount+)
• 90 Days to Wed by Yanana 
• Sapphic World Book Club Facebook Group
• Dream a Little Dream by Melissa Brayden

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Sometimes you just gotta get away, and that’s what Kris and Tara did during their unannounced break (sorry about that). But they’re back now, and ready to report on where they’ve been, what they’ve done and, perhaps most importantly, what they recommend.

Also, Tara cheats this week. Instead of one official recommendation (which is the entire point of this podcast) Tara comes back from vacation with two. Buckle up, folks. Chaos reigns!

Official Recommendations

From Kris: The Four Seasons (Netflix)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the Netflix series The Four Seasons. The show revolves around three couples who vacation together four times a year (each season) and what happens when one of the couples breaks up. Kris says this has it all, the funny moments and the sad, and once she started, she couldn’t put it down.

From Tara: The Princess Match by Clare Lydon

Tara’s first recommendation this week is The Princess Match by Clare Lydon. It’s a slow burn(ish), high romantic tension story between an out-and-proud athlete and an in-the-closet princess who wants to risk it all for her first chance at true happiness. Tara loved this so much she read it twice and she says it's her favourite of Lydon's books.

From Tara: Discovering Nicola by Clare Ashton

Tara’s second recommendation this week is Discovering Nicola by Clare Ashton, an enemies-to-lovers, ice queen romance, with two women in their 50s embracing a same-sex relationship for the first time. Tara said the chemistry between the leads is incredible and this book ruined her in the best way. Go get it!

Works/People Discussed

• SASS - Sapphic Action Support Squad Facebook Group
• The Last of Us (HBO)
• Survivor (CBS)
• Jeopardy! (NBC)
• Ransom Canyon (Netflix)
• Strongmen: Mussolini to the Present by Ruth Ben-Ghiat
• Closing The Distance by BelladonnaInBloom and Yanana
• The House of Black and its follow-up Cutting the Pattern by Calliopeia419
• Extinction by rubikanon

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Kris is selling football cards at a retirement home, hoping to get The Golden Girls in on the grift. Tara is happily boring and middle-aged with her triple-paned windows and kids who keep teasing her that her new glasses make her look like a Pokemon bug researcher. 

Official Recommendations 

From Kris: Straight Up (2019)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the romantic comedy Straight Up. This movie has the dubious honour of coming out at the exact right moment to get obliterated by the onset of the covid pandemic. Thankfully, Kris is running the revival efforts and getting the news out there to the people.

Straight Up is a movie for the younger set, with a closeted gay man and woman getting into a lavenderish relationship that changes them both for the better. Kris says it’s a solid, feel-good movie that you should check out.

From Tara: Orlando, My Political Biography (2023)

Tara’s official recommendation this week is the documentary Orlando, My Political Biography. Using Virginia Woolf’s Orlando as a primary text, this documentary explores the contemporary trans experience through 26 performers, all of which play the titular Orlando. Tara found this an incredibly thought-provoking and cerebral experience.

Works/People Discussed

• 1923 (Paramount+)
• Survivor, season 48 (CBS)
• The End of Us (2021)
• The Last of Us (HBO)
• The Sunrise of the Reaping by Suzanne Collins
• Balatro by LocalThunk
• Dimension 20: Neverafter (DropoutTV)
• RuPaul’s Drag Race, season 17 (MTV)
• The Vanquishers by Kalynn Bayron
• Overtime by Tracey Richardson

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Kris has been writing and is stuck in a wild limbo where the days to her next book's deadline get smaller as the story keeps growing. Tara suggests a new trend to solve Kris’s problem, before our hosts wade bravely into the epilogue debate. They're deep, dangerous waters, but they have the nerve to say their piece. And to top it off, Tara bores the class by gushing about her upcoming triple-paned windows. You know, real adulting stuff.

Official Recommendations 

From Kris: Chasing Chasing Amy (2023)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the documentary, Chasing Chasing Amy. It tracks director Sav Rodgers' experience with the 1997 film Chasing Amy and how important that movie was to his queer identity growing up, including that it saved his life. Filmed over five years, Chasing Chasing Amy details Sav’s exploration of the cult hit and his changing opinions of it when new information comes to light. 

From Tara: Sweet Home Alabarden Park by TJ O’Shea

Tara’s official recommendation this week is the newly released sapphic romance Sweet Home Alabarden Park by TJ O’Shea. It's a "sort of one night to forever set in the UK," which features recently cheated on and divorced Fiona and the soft butch gentlewoman Alice, who ends up being nobility. Tara loved this book and it’s already her best book of the year.

Works/People Discussed

• Survivor, season 48 (CBS)
• Paradise (Hulu)
• 1923 (Paramount+)
• RuPaul’s Drag Race, season 17 (MTV)
• The Vanquishers by Kalynn Bayron
• Scarlet Love by Gun Brooke
• Sav Rodgers: The rom-com that saved my life (TED Talk)
• Chasing Amy (1997)
• Go Fish (1994)
• All That Matters by Susan X. Meagher

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Important kitty update: the angel and the devil have switched roles and now no one is safe. Kris and Tara discuss the correct nomenclature around being a friend to cats. Labels are bandied around and a suitable title is found. In other news, Tara’s youngest turns ten and there’s some talk about milestones before, you guessed it, this week’s recommendations!

Official Recommendations 

From Kris: Fanatical: The Catfishing of Tegan and Sara (2024)

Kris’s official recommendation this week is the 2024 documentary, Fanatical: The Catfishing of Tegan and Sara. 15 years ago, Tegan's identity was stolen. This began an unending ordeal of someone pretending to be them to have secret relationships with people in and outside their lives. Kris warns that this is a rough watch, but there’s a lot to learn and it’s important to spread the message.

From Tara: The Unlikely Pursuit of Mary Bennet by Lindz McLeod

Tara’s official recommendation this week is The Unlikely Pursuit of Mary Bennet by Lindz McLeod. This sapphic historical romance takes place a few years after the events of Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice. After Mr. Collins dies, Lizzie sends her sister Mary to console Charlotte, and Mary is nothing like Charlotte (or anyone who's read the book) remembers. Tara thoroughly enjoyed it and will be reading it again.

Works/People Discussed

• Love is Blind, season 8 (Netflix)
• Survivor, season 48 (CBS)
• 1923 (Paramount+)
• RuPaul’s Drag Race: season 17 (MTV)
• Dimension 20: Dungeons and Drag Queens, season 2 (Dropout TV)
• Our Secret Summer by Harper Bliss

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