WE Survive Abuse/Tonya GJ Prince

WE Survive Abuse/Tonya GJ Prince

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WE Survive Abuse/Tonya GJ Prince episodes

  • The Fable of the Little Bell at Carver School
    In this episode, we explore a pattern many girls learn before they ever have the words to name it: being expected to keep the peace, soothe discomfort, make things easier, and carry responsibility for behavior that was never theirs to manage.

    Through The Fable of the Little Bell at Carver School, we are invited to reflect on how girls are often treated as the calming force in classrooms, families, churches, communities, institutions, society, and throughout history.

    How their calm and patience becomes a public resource. Their silence becomes useful. Their ability to endure. But usefulness is not the same as safety.

    This episode speaks to the quiet ways adults ask girls to become emotional cushions for boys, systems, policies, injustice, change, and public image. It also asks a deeper question: What happens when a girl finally refuses to ring for peace that is not real?



    This episode is for the far too many girls who refused this role, who refused to soothe, and who were then labeled as "having an attitude" -or some other "defect."
    15 min
  • The Fable of the Flame that Would Not Bow
    Discouragement is part of the battle. It always has been.
    In this fable devotional, Tonya GJ Prince reflects on why phrases like "we are cooked" may sound casual, but can quietly train the spirit toward surrender of the ultimate nature. Through the story of Mother Lottie, a weary young one, and a flame burning in the window, this episode speaks to the warrior wisdom of those who came before us.

    This episode is for anyone feeling worn down by the times, cruelty, by injustice, by personal struggle, or by the heavy work of telling the truth in a world that often rewards denial. Discouragement may visit, but it does not get to rule. Exhaustion may speak but it is not prophecy. Fear may warn us, but it is not our master. 

    The flame in the window reminds us: we are still here. We are still watching. We are still called to gather, sharpen, protect, pray, strategize, and move with wisdom.

    Good for listeners seeking: faith-rooted encouragement, Black American ancestral wisdom, spiritual resilience, courage during hard times, and language that strengthens rather than defeats the soul.


    19 min
  • When the Drum Stopped Begging to Be Heard: A Short Neighborhood Fable
    Betrayal has a way of making you question yourself.
    You showed up with your whole heart.
    You believed in the people beside you.
    You thought everybody was carrying the dream together.

    Then one day, you realize that that isn't the truth.
    In this fable, "The Drum, the Flute, and the Crow," we meet three friends with one shared dream and one painful lesson. 
    When betrayal comes, Drum must rely on the words of his ancestors and his community to help him through.

    This story is for anyone who has had to rebuild.
    Sometimes betrayal steals the moment, but it can't steal your becoming. 

    Your rhythm belongs to you.
    7 min
  • Privacy is a Critical Safety Boundary-What Forced Access Teaches Us About Abuse
    In this episode, we talk about women's privacy as a safety boundary, not a preference. From surveillance cameras in the home to girls being watched in private spaces, we examine how control often begins before the violence becomes undeniable. This episode asks a hard but necessary question: when women and girls say, "This does not feel safe," why are so many families and institutions trained to explain the warning sign away?

    Content note: This episode discusses intimate partner violence, stalking, child privacy violations, and family minimization. Please listen with care.
    20 min
  • Affirmations for Survivors Watching Public Defenses of Harm
    Anybody who has ever kept a yard knows this: weeds do not disappear because you refuse to name them. They spread. The same is true of harm.

    When Survivors of violence and abuse speak, it is not to attack the people, the circle, or the garden. They are warning us about the weeds. The behavior that threatens the garden. If we care about the health of the family, the church, the school, or the community, we listen before the roots are choked. 

    35 Powerful affirmations to help Survivors through hard moments.
    10 min
  • Black Girls Are Not Collateral Damage: Reputation Protection Culture Harms Victims
    When powerful men are accused of harming Black girls and women, there are too many who rush to protect the man's name, career, music, legacy, and public image. But who protects the girl?

    This post examines reputation protection culture, the pattern of defending beloved or powerful men while treating harmed Black girls as collateral damage. It also looks at the unfair burden placed on Black women journalists who are criticized for asking hard questions that others would rather avoid. 

    At the center is a deeper truth: protecting "the culture"-any culture- cannot mean abandoning Black girls. Their pain is not bad publicity, harmful to the community, or just a footnote. Their safety matters too. In this episode we speak that into being. 

    We also honor the courage of author Reshona Landfair, who has written a memoir about her experience of being Jane Doe-a child victim of celebrity R. Kelly—to now reclaiming her name publicly.
    33 min
  • That Feeling Was Information: Why Silence Serves Predators
    Have you ever had a feeling about someone and talked yourself out of it? Not because nothing happened. But because you could not explain it cleanly yet. Maybe they were charming.
    Maybe everyone else liked them. 

    Maybe they had a title, a platform, a collar, a badge, a family name, a reputation, or a room full of people ready to defend them. So you stayed quiet. 

    In this episode, Tonya GJ Prince speaks to the sacred importance of listening to your inner voice before fear, politeness, social pressure, or other people’s opinions train you to silence yourself. Predators do not always need everyone to believe them. Sometimes, they only need good people to doubt themselves.

    This episode explores how silence can protect the wrong person, how danger often announces itself through patterns before proof, and why your discomfort deserves attention even when you do not yet have the perfect words. This is not about paranoia. It is about pattern literacy. 

    It is about honoring the pause, the hesitation, the body signal, the uneasy feeling, the quiet “something is not right here” that many Survivors later recognize as wisdom trying to rise. Your inner voice is not an inconvenience. It is part of your protection.
    17 min
  • The Post-Racial Veil Is Gone: What Black Survivors Are Being Forced to Notice Now
    The illusion of a “post-racial” America is gone. In this episode, Tonya GJ Prince explores what becomes visible when anti-Blackness steps out from behind polite language, institutional denial, and political performance.

    She reflects on why this moment requires clear noticing, grounded speech, and refusal to be defined by those who benefit most from our silence.
    8 min

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