Weaver & Loom

Sexism and the Objectification of Women Across Cultures

Ahd is the founder of Jahanamiya: https://jahanamiya.com/

Ahd is the founder of the first Saudi Feminist Literary Magazine, Jahanamiya. Jahanamiya publishes written work exclusively by Saudi women, as well as accompanying artwork created by regional artists. They publish English and Arabic pieces of poetry, fiction, and non-fiction writing revolving around elements of Saudi culture. Empowering women to loudly be the women that they are. Ahd is currently getting her PhD from the University of Michigan in Middle Eastern Gender Studies, unravels the complex narrative of women in the Middle East, and the West.

Here is a snapshot of what we covered

6:20 - What was it growing up in the world and Saudi Arabia as a young woman is like?

18:00 - Finding joy in shaping culture.

28:10 - Burkas and Bikinis 

32:07 - How and why you should complicate narratives.

43:12 - You already have a voice.

44:55 - Who is your Guide?

50:11 - One Question to Ask.

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And as always. . . you can find me, your host, Lucas Skrobot, on Instagram and at my website. 

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Most of all, thank you for owning your story, and owning your future.

Today, I share with you ONE story and TWO secrets to being a social influencer.

This isn't my typical episode... in this episode I share a story that I have never shared before, not publicaly. . . not privately. While in pre production for this show I asked my wife for feedback and in shock she said, "Did this really happen?!? You never told me this!"

Come to think about it . . . I've never told anyone this story from 1994.

Not only will you hear a story that is very close to who I am as a person . . . but you will learn about what influencers TRULY are . . . and how to become an influencer for the better.

If you don't already, please subscribe to this podcast and follow me on Instagram, linkedin, or my website . . . just please don't follow me around town (that would be called stalking).

UFC fight 229 Khabib Vs Conor. Conor taps out in the forth round. Khabib . . . after getting pulled off Connor hears an insult from Connor’s Team mate. Khabib Leaps over the fence and assaulting Conor’s teammate--a brawl between the two teams break out. And half the world says, “Conor and co. deserved it.”

Today we explore the cultural frame work and worldview explaining why Khabib assaulted Conor , and why some in the world (who on every other day of the week talk about love and peace) are defending & justifying the assault.

But this episode isn't just about fighting... it is about beliefs, worldview, and cultural underpinning that shape the way the we live. 

There is a sea of people out there who promote peace, love, and tolerance--yet cheer on actions that promote fear and intimidation (like Khabib). 

If you or I cheer Khabib for standing up for himself, through violence when, mocked--then we are cheering the ideology of an insult-aggression cycle that fuels violence in the Southern United States, and terrorism alike.

Listen to find out if your view this situation carries the seeds of love and peace, or seeds of hate and violence. 

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Below are the links and sources for this episode.

Khabib's interview

Joe Rogan's Interview

Seppuku - Wikipedia

Homicides in USA

Insult, aggression, and the southern culture of honor: An "experimental ethnography", Cohen, Dov; Nisbett, Richard; Bowdle, Brian; Schwarz, Norbert. - Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1996 Vol. 70 no. 5 945-960, copyright 1996 by the American Psychological association Inc. 0022-3514/96

Charlie Hebdo has had more legal run-ins with Christians than with Muslims (WARNING CRUDE AND GRAPHIC)

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Mohammed Kazim is a gifted Emirati who is a master at extrapolating meaning from ancient Arab culture and applying it in a contextual way within the culture of our day and age.  

 Mohammed travels the Arabian Peninsula, exploring the rich heritage of lost villages and tribes in Saudi Arabia . . . all for the purpose of reconnecting the neo-Arab-generation with their cultural heritage in a meaningful way.

As Mohammed will tell you . . . art, fashion, and creativity is all about the context of which you are communicating in, and if we can understand the context of the past . . . we can gain insight and apply power principles to shape the future for a better tomorrow for ourselves, our children, and all those who come after us. 

Mohammed is one of three founders of Tamashee, a Dubai-based Arabian Gulf footwear brand with social values. Tamashee focuses on preserving Identity, representing culture, and coloring lives. Visit Tamashee.com to learn more.

Also Follow Tamashee, Mohammed and their team on Instagram.

• Tamashee
• Mohammed Kazim
• Ali Al Youha
• Muneera Al-Tamimi

Also here is the article referenced from Gulf News on the negative impact of domestic helpers

And as always. . . you can find me on Instagram and at my website. 

Thank you for you time and attention.

Most of all, that you for owning your story, and owning your future.

Dr. Majid Al Qassimi shares critical insights into culture and how counter maneuver harmful trends of the day. 

Dr. Majid hits on the importance of the Family Unit in childhood education (HINT the education system is in there is help and ADD to children's learning at home not replace it)

We also speak on perseverance through failure and ONE element crucial to pressing on in the face of repeated failure, road blocks, and disappointment. 

Finally . . . Dr. Majid begins to unpack the culture crunch and our symbiotic relationship with nature, and what is required of all of us to preserve both our heritage and culture, and our environment.

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You can find Dr. Majid Al Qassimi at the following places:

Instagram

Medium

LinkedIn

Twitter

Website

Youtube

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Joseph turns everything about being a successful professional and amazing artist on it's head with his unique perspective on life.

We talk about how he went from a small town in Oklahoma to the Royal Palaces of the Middle East. 

What stands out in the midsts of Joseph's incredible journey is his selflessness, and perspective on humility, growth, and serving others.

The episode got deep as we spoke about greatness, and what we want to be remembered for. *SPOILER* it won't be about the money you made, places you went, or incredible projects you complete.  *SPOILER* it won't be about the money you made, places you went, or incredible projects you complete. 

You can find Joseph on Instagram here.

And if you want to grow--here is the link to Master Class (affiliate link)

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Omani storyteller Abdullah Al Maawali shares on story, the power of story, the power of audio and oral cultures, and the power of creating platforms for people to share their personal stories. (Wow, that is a lot of "power")

But stories are powerful. They are impactful. As we find our in this episode understanding YOUR story is not only impactful for others around you, but through telling your story you are able understand who you are in a new light.

Abdullah is the founder of True Story Tent, an in event out of Muscat, Oman that finds it's inspiration from The Moth. 

You can find Abdullah on Instagram

You can find True Story Tent here on Instagram as well.

And, the Ramadan youtube episodes from Oman TV can be found here.

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What does your worldview, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Game theory have in common? 

As it turns out quite a lot . . .

Last week while talking with Ghazi, Zero Sum and Infinite Sum games came up . . . I thought I would unpack that idea for even though it is quite simple at face value, they way you view the world surrounding these two ideas will define and shape your entire life and all of your actions.

How you view the world (game theory) impacts your thoughts (CBT) . . . and your thoughts will end up defining your emotional life and your actions (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy).

So, do you believe life is a zero sum game or an infinite sum game? 

Find out how this simple idea has cascading effects on your life and wellbeing. 

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Helpful links:

Game Theory

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

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Ghazi al Balushi joins us this week on Own the Future.

Ghazi al Balushi is a creative & entrepreneur who started Just Jam creative community. Just Jam is a community of young Arab creatives in Muscat, Oman. They also book events in the community and the region, showcasing and supporting local musicians.

A personal note about Ghazi . . . Ghazi Balucci is one of the most releasing and generous individuals I've met. In all my interactions with him I've found him to be extremely generous, kind, giving, and supportive to all those around him. 

Ghazi is already winning. But watch out for him over the next 10-20 years. He is gonna make new waves of music and give space to creatives all across the Arab Gulf and the Middle East.

Find and Follow Ghazi here: Instagram | Twitter | Soundcloud

Just Jam: Twitter | Instagram

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