Your wedding is a celebration, not a contest. But also, we don’t want to say not to look at other people’s weddings and compare. We are all human, and it does happen.
We scroll on social media, see someone’s wedding, and now we also “somewhat” want something like that. But for whatever reason, it might not work for you. But then you still wish for it somehow. We all go through this phase.
Avoiding comparison requires a lot of effort. Instead of forcing ourselves to avoid comparison, we always say that to give compliments.
Compliment that wedding and be generous with praises. This releases all this “comparison” feeling and replaces it with admiration.
You can then tell yourself: “That wedding is beautiful, and my wedding will be beautiful too!”
Then you can add, “I’ll plan a beautiful wedding that is best for me, my partner, and our circumstance.”
This will take a lot of practice. But you will have a lot of chances to practice because weddings will all over be social media. You search “wedding decor” once, and you will see “wedding decor” pop up every time you go online!
Replacing comparison with admiration and gratitude will help you feel joy. It will also let you also admire and appreciate your journey. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy.
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