In this video Real Talk TV welcomes to the roundtable Relationship Expert/Coach Ondray Pearson to the table to talk about "What it takes to make relationships last." This is a conversation that exposes the truth about the many things we all do, go through, put up with and deal with to have someone love us.  

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In this Podcast Episode, my guest is "We Dem  Sista's,"  and we talk about "What makes a Relationship work."    People dating today seem to have a different definition of what makes a relationship work.  "Relating" appears to be a foreign concept.  Hardly anyone takes time to get to know one another during their dating stage. When their relationships fail, many wonder if the relationship's failure is the other person's fault because there is no way it could be YOUR FAULT.    Get ready to understand that "finding" and maintaining a successful relationship starts with two people "relating" first in and through a conversation to see all they have in common BEFORE jumping in bed together.  Sex doesn't mean they love you, and love isn't going to save your relationship.  We get deep and go in on subjects relevant to making a relationship successful. 

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In this podcast episode, "Should Women have to pay "50/50" financially to keep a man?" I have a conversation with my guest Pat Renfro of P2P Relates, about all things relationship and the things we allow, go through, and put up with to have someone in our lives to love us. We talk and offer reasons why some "relationships" today operate the way they do-- why it is so hard for many people to actually "relate" and build a solid relationship and not just continue to "playhouse." Be sure to sit back, relax, and take notes because you will learn that all love you receive is not good love.

In this episode, “5 Signs He's in love with You"  I walk you through men's behaviors and show what sings a woman who thinks he is interested in her to look for.  I talk about the consistency and actions that men make what he says he would be like if she chose a life with him.  Men often say to women what they "think" they want to hear to win their hearts, but most of the time, they are playing games.  And it ends up hurting her.  Love advice and much more to help you KNOW something (99.9%).   

 It is no wonder why women look at most men sideways when they hear those words spoken, and it makes sense for them to demand proof.  They want actions and not just words for them to believe them.  I help you by showing women what to look for to get clarity before they get caught up in their feelings for a man that doesn't see a future with them.  These signs are critical points that help women develop trust with him and see him as a potential mate for them.     

 For men in this position to be taken seriously, they must be honest and open when they first meet on where they are in their life, let her know through their actions that they are willing to do whatever is needed to be in an exclusive relationship with them.  So get ready to learn all that men will do to be with you!  If you would like to talk to me one-on-one about your relationship situation feel free to contact me directly at 404-790-8714.  For more relationship advice, go to www.ondraypearson.com and purchase my book, "Why does love hurt so good?" by clicking the link below.  www.ondraypearson.com

In this video, “7 signs She's in love with you!  Men in situations like this with questions will know how to recognize if the woman they have fallen for loves them or is using them.  Because most men are afraid of being rejected or hurt by someone who doesn't feel the same way, they end up doing a lot of wondering and guessing, hoping they figure it out before its too late.     No man wants to love a woman unconditional, and she loves him with conditions.  They don't want a woman whos loves is based on how much she mans spend on her, how much money he gives them or the gifts he buys her-this not a woman who is seeking love, they are looking some fool, a sugar daddy or a desperate man to take care of them.  These signs will make it easier for them to know it is okay to fall for the woman who has fallen for them!  If you would like to talk to me one-on-one about your relationship situation feel free to contact me directly at 404-790-8714.  For more relationship advice, go to www.ondraypearson.com and purchase my book, "Why does love hurt so good?" by clicking the link below.  www.ondraypearson.com

In this episode, "6 Signs you're with the Wrong Person", I walk you through scenarios that we all go through, allow and put up with to have someone to love us.  Often, we know in our gut that the person we are with is not who we thought they were when we get with them. Because we met their representative before we met them and thought who the representative was, was who they were.    It isn't until after we have invested our love and time with them that we realize we didn't know them at all.  Sometimes what we know should leave but we don't. Many stay with people for their resources, not because they love them.  It is wrong to stay with someone to keep from being alone.  If you don't love them and they don't love you back, you will be trapped in a situation and still alone.  Not being able to grow in the relationship or not being who you are while you are with them isn't love, nor will you ever feel loved.  Nothing feels worse than to be with someone and still feel you are by yourself.    Get your pad and pen and be honest with yourself because if you find yourself in this video and want out, you have to prepare to walk away from a bad situation, even if it hurts you now.  Don't worry; over time, whoever God feels you should be with, we be presented to you, and they will restore your faith in loving someone and being loved again!

In this episode, "What is the Man's Role in the Relationship," I explain, define, and break down a "MANS" role in the relationship.  In our society today, many of I so-called MEN have either lose their way, given up, or have no idea what being a Provider means in a relationship.  They are so desperate to have equality in the relationship that they are asking their woman to help them do THEIR job in the relationship and thinking that splitting bills with their woman 50/50 is the best way to obtain this, and it is not.    

Men asking this are doing it because they do not want to be responsible for anyone in the relationship other than themselves.  God says the men are the foundation of the relationship and family.  It is sad to see so many men running from what God said they were created to be, Leaders of the family.  How can you "lead" if your woman is doing your job?    This is why so many men have switched sides; they are running from their responsibilities and looking for someone else to lead them.  Calling out women because they have had to do the job you refused is not what real men do.  How will you lead a family and gain your family's respect if you are playing her role?    Real men, not boys, stand up and take on their responsibilities.  They lead, and their woman will follow willingly.  God created Man first, not the woman; He gave you the skills to lead and expects you to do so. If you don't want the job or feel you cannot do it properly, do something else.   

This is the reason why so many women HAVE to do "your" job because men don't want it.  Then they catch an attitude when the woman decides NOT to relay or depend on surviving and providing for their family.    It is a shame how our men are not taught these days what their role is and their obligations to a woman when they tell her they love her.  I, in this video, help men understand what God says they are supposed to do and how it is supposed to look with a woman.  Now the truth hurts, but if you really want to know as a man your role, this is a teaching moment so learn!  It is more to a relationship and more to your duties than just financial.

In this episode, "5 Signs you're a Beta Male",  I walk men (and women) through the signs that indicate if they are an Alpha or Beta male in the eyes of the women you meet and are interested in getting to know.  The sad part about this is that if you ask most men which description best fits them best,  most will answer what they feel women want or are into, an Alpha male.   Every man feels they are an alpha male; rather, they are not.  Until they know which one they are or qualities that most beta men have, in this video, I break down what beta men look and sound like so those listening can understand tell which they are. If it fits you, then own it and stop pretending and lying to yourself.  By the end of the video, you will know.  Get your popcorn, pad, and pen because you are about to learn something today.

In this episode, 5 Reasons, Why Nice Guys Finish Last, you will see and understand why men calling themselves "good men" finish last to Alpha males when dealing with attracting a woman they are interested in.  Before I can explain "why" good men finish last I explain that it isn't that good men are not attractive but women have their own reasons of why they are attracted to the men they are and I make this clear for those men wondering, "Why she didn't pick me?" I go over the do and don't s and give tips on what those in this position can do to get those women they are interested in them.   

So, sit back, relax, and take notes and understand "why" good men finish last so you can come in first and get the woman you are attracted to today!  (1)  Visit my website at www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net and experience what loving someone is all about!  (2)  For your business and promotional needs visit www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net--search STORE and click on business services.   (3)  Here you can get promotion through, my radio show, website, and advertising services.  (4)  Check out my radio show on Sound-cloud.com -- https://soundcloud.com/ondray-pearson  (5)  Click to get your copy of my new book "Why does love hurt so good" at www.ondraypearson.com

In this episode, The "7 Signs you know she's lying!" you will learn the signs your woman is lying to you.  The video goes over the behavior a woman displays when hiding something, lying, playing games, or cheating.  The funny thing about it is, many of the lies and skills to tell them "well" was something they picked up from the men they dated.  Nowadays, the student has become the teacher, and men cannot handle it because they cannot tell when women are telling the truth or playing them.     Get ready to laugh and learn because who knows I could be talking about YOU!  Go to www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net to schedule a "One-on-One" with me. Click on my STORE tab and select "One-on-One" consultation and let's talk.   Get you a copy of my new relationship book. Why does love hurt so good? TODAY! At www.ondraypearson.com.   Are you looking to write and publish your book?   Need help go to www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net and view our writing, ghostwriting, business services.