In this episode, The "5 things you can do to get over a Breakup", you will learn ways to deal with the mixed and many emotions you are going through.  You learn the crazy things and lengths people will go to when they are hurt to get back at the person who hurt them.  It is never easy getting over someone, and the process and time needed to get past what it is you are feeling may seem like it is taking forever.  What you need is time and distractions to make you see that you are going to be okay.    Knowing and loving yourself makes it easier for you to love someone else and accept that you deserve to be loved by someone.  The stages you go through and allow are essential to go through to start the healing process.  Throughout the video, you will "learn" how to deal with the pain, how to deal with your anger, and how to get your healing process started.  It is not easy, but we must accept what we are feeling to get through it.    

Self-evaluation is key to getting past what you are going through-understanding what went wrong or having a sense of where you can improve will help you get through your emotions, what you may have done if anything can help you deal with and make it easier for you to correct yourself for your next relationship experience.  It is essential you "unpack" the old baggage to make room for whatever comes next to your way.  Do not worry, even though the future is unknown; what you do know is that your past mistakes will not be coming with you.  So, sit back, relax, grab your pen and pad and get ready to learn "How to" get through a breakup to be the best you can be for someone else.    

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In this episode, The 10 Things to consider before getting back with your Ex! I go through the "Pros & Cons" of things you need to consider before getting back with your ex or giving up and moving on.  It is a tricky situation to be in and one that many of us in the dating world today will encounter at some point in our lives "IF" we care for someone.  Depending on what broke you up in the first place will play a big part if you can try it again or not.  No one wants to get back with someone who hurt them, abused them, or wanted to control them, so if this is YOUR situation, call it quits and move on but if things were not that bad. You feel a "do-over" is possible, then move slowly and look for changes in the words and actions before considering moving forward.  Although that is the chance they can hurt us again, we're hoping that they have grown up and are willing to do what is needed to make what once was wrong right moving forward.    

The only way the do-over" can be successful is if you are willing and ready to forgive one another and leave the past where it belongs in the reboot--in the past.  You both must communicate and be on the same page for the past to be a distant memory to love freely, going forward. The person who caused this pain must be willing to make what was once wrong, right.  So if you are on the fence and are looking at a possible reunion, check out the tips I give, and then you will be able to make a conscious decision that you feel is best for you.    Go to www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net to schedule a "One-on-One" with me.  

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In this episode, The Language of Love: Explained! I talk to you about the language we speak, should you how it is received and why getting it right is something we all need to work on.  The Language of Love: Explained! It is an area many feel we got under control but in reality, most do not.  Our form of communicating these days seems to be more by text and emojis than actual talking.  To some talking face-to-face just is not so popular these days and the reason why so many of us suffer and fail in “communicating” what it is we are trying to express.  As you listen to the video, you will understand clearly why although texting sometimes is cool just to let someone know you’re thinking about them, how actually giving them a call and letting them hear your voice makes what you say and tells them what you feel is genuine.    

Many people today want to think that others will and should understand what they are trying to say through a text or an emoji they send and in some cases depending on where you are IN your relationship, they will get it and understand but without “content” many just will not get what you mean or trying to say.  This is not a “one shop answer” for all your communicating issues or problems but it is an incredibly good understanding of what we are really communicating when we talk and text to those we care about.  Love is more than just 4 letters in the alphabet, and love means and is different for each of us.  Understanding how we receive love from those we are involved with helps us open up to them in ways we could never imagine.   Taking the time to understand and clarifying what we are saying and mean when we send or communicate through a text is important to what others perceive we mean.  So, sit back, get your pen and pad ready for some note-taking and enjoy while you learn something new.  

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In this episode, I tell women about 5 types of Men Women should avoid at all costs! A lot of women believe that if love with someone is real, it wouldn't hurt but unfortunately and realistically it does.  We all would like to be spared from having our hearts broken by someone we care for but in love like in life, it is all part of our growth.  If we're able to we try and learn from our mistakes to not do something and be hurt all over again.  But the more we denied and believe we know better the more we overlook the red flags and get hurt again. With love comes pain, it is a "set" and something we must understand if we intend on chasing it. And even though love can sometimes be blind, we don't always have to shut our eyes to the reality of what we should do to prevent making the same mistakes over and over again with someone else.     

We have to get out of our "comfort zone" and do things differently because we have seen and felt the pain of doing the "same" thing over and over again. And this can be scary, difficult, and hard to do if we aren't ready to face the fact, "We don't know everything about love and loving someone."  Not all love is good when the person you love doesn't love you back.  There are many women who feel currently in their relationship that at times they are wasting their time and love on the "wrong person."  Many do not realize this until years with the guy they are with until he does something that hurts them.  Years and kids later they figure out that who he said he was, he never was-at least not with them.    So in the video, women will learn "WHO" not to waste your time with and "HOW" to protect yourself and your heart BEFORE you waste years only to learn painfully later that in this game we call love, some people if you are not on the same team always, you are the competition and you're in a game you have no idea of the rules trying to win.  "When you play games, you have to know once it starts-someone is going to win and some are going to lose.  The question then you have to ask yourself, Are you the winner or loser.    

Over time women need to understand that dating the "same" type of men and hoping for different results is heartbreaking.  No one wants to purposely be hurt, so this information will help you recognize the wrong guy if you pay attention!  Go to www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net to schedule a "One-on-One" with me.  Click on my STORE tab and select "One-on-One" consultation and let's talk.    Get you a copy of my new relationship book, Why does love hurt so good? TODAY! at www.ondraypearson.com.  Are you looking to write and publish your book?   Need help go to www.whudoeslovehurtsogood.net and view our writing, ghostwriting, business services.

In this episode, I tell you 5 Types of Women Men Should Avoid! I explain "those" kinds of women who target men seeking companionship.  Many of them before going in they know the "game" but most of them get played and used without seeing it come.  Because so many women use what they were giving between their legs to get what they what, it makes it hard for guys trying to do right to do it.  Not all men are players, cheaters, users--they are some who want to "invest" in a good woman and treat her as the queen they feel they are.  Treating them like queens when they get treated like their personal servants, ATM machines make it hard for them to be seen as a loving man trying to love what they believe is a good woman and it is the reason so many get tricked, used, and played by "THESE" kinds of women I talk about.    

Don't all men want to be buttered up like a piece of toast and seen as a woman's personal ATM, just as women believe men do also believe love is more than just something to do, it's about becoming one and living a life that screenwriters are looking for to script for a movie for the world to see what true love and loving someone "feel" and "look" like.    When good men meet, date, and grow in love with good women who is READY to love and be loved, she as will he will experience the love many readers and movies goers have read and seen on television and at the movie theater but unlike the books, movies and love stories on television,  their love story ending has yet to be written and nor does what they develop together end in two hours!      So sit back and relax and learn what the "kinds" of women who are not trying to LOVE you but use you.    

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In this episode, "5 Reasons Smart Women intimidate Men," I break down the things that intimidate men with smart women.  I go over the reasons why intelligent, educated, and successful women are having a hard time dating and marrying men they are attracted to, and I explain the many reasons weak men are, not the best mates for them, why strong men are the best match.    Most men in these situations are not men who are ready to have an equal. They want someone they can control and feel the woman has to rely on and depend on them for their every want and need.  Because they can not longer in these times act or treat a woman any old kind of way, they forcing them to either step up or be moved aside to allow a real man to see them.  Listen and learn because there is so much more to be revealed.  Thumbnail designed by  Dezinee-  https://www.fiverr.com/dezinee/design-catchy-youtube-thumbnail  She does great work!  Go to www.whydoeslovehurtsogood.net to schedule a "One-on-One" with me.  Click on my STORE tab and select "One-on-One" consultation and let's talk.    Get you a copy of my new relationship book, Why does love hurt so good? TODAY! at www.ondraypearson.com.  Are you looking to write and publish your book?  Need help go to www.whudoeslovehurtsogood.net and view our writing, ghostwriting, business services.

In this episode, “How to Communicate Effectively in 15 minutes!" I go over the many ways we communicate today and how ineffectively it is.  I explain how changing the way "we" talk helps others understand us better.  I go over "tectonics" and "ways" to help you gain clarity to lesson the mistake many of us encounter just trying to communicate.  It’s not hard to do, but like anything worth having, you must put in the work and make a few "behavioral" changes.    We can not continue to blame one another for our own inability to make ourselves transparent and continue to assume that the people we're talking to are comprehending what we said is crazy.  We must not be afraid to ask questions for clarity of what we are being told or asked to do.   Too often, we take for granted that once we say something, our mates understand.  Women often get upset because many feel the men they are dating should "already know" how to treat them, how to love them, and how to make them feel loved.  But how would they know if the woman NEVER told them?  Men aren't good at guessing and figuring out something you could have simply communicate to them to ensure they get it right "the first time."   In the "beginning" in a discussion is where all the questions, standards, and expectations of what you require to love and be loved by your man or woman.    In a relationship, things are hard enough, and inadequate communication makes things worse.  I walk you through ways for women and men to correct their mindset and behavior to "see" how others receive them and what they heard when they speak.  By seeing things from another perspective, in other words, you seeing things from your mate's perspective, it helps them realize how they need to listen more. No more arguing misunderstands of mishaps, just open communicate that “keeps it simple.”  By the end of the video, I guarantee you will understand just a slight change in “how” and “what” we say can make things clear and clarify our relationships.      For this, to work, we all must understand and put in the work to communicate with our mates the way “we” do because everyone is different, and no one couple communicates the same.  It is essential and critical that we do not be afraid to ask a question for what we feel we need and want base if we don’t how they can give you what YOU think, know, and want in your relationship.  These tips can help and work with couples everywhere.  Contrary to what most people think, we all need a little kick in the butt as we navigate our ways through these things called love.

In this episode, "How to deal with a Jealous Woman!"  I explain to men who are dating or are in a relationship who may be experiencing these tendencies a few reasons "why" this may be happening.  Most men who are dealing with this think most women are crazy, unstable, and hard to deal with, and they have said they prefer to find someone with fewer problems.  These quick decisions made are because a lot of men don't understand her back story of what or how she became who she or why she acts and feels the way she does about men she dates.     A lot of men don't want to invest their time in fixing something in someone that someone else has broken.  Only a man who sees a future in with her will take this time because he recognizes her brokenness; he knows patience and empathic is what she needs from those men who have broken her trust.  He knows to restore her low self-esteem and to erase her insecurities; it will require patient and time for her to know and feel she deserves love and can love someone.    For the men willing to "invest" in a woman like this, I share the four things he "Should not do" IF your goal is to make her feel whole again with them.  The things I suggest "To do" are things you will need to repeat many times over and over.  It can only work if she is willing and open to your help.  Follow through, empathy, understanding are words you need to be familiar with for this to work.  Listen, "We are all broken by someone at some point in our lives.  But anytime we can find someone willing to help put us back together with something strong enough then what broken us, not because they had to but because they wanted to, is it not something you want in your life?"    Thumbnail designed by  Salmandesigner3  https://www.fiverr.com/share/D5LLmQ  He does great work! Logo designed by:   logo_pill-https://www.fiverr.com/logo_pill- Great work!  If you would like to talk to me one-on-one about your relationship situation feel free to contact me directly at 404-790-8714.  For more relationship advice, go to www.ondraypearson.com and purchase my book, "Why does love hurt so good?" by clicking the link below.  www.ondraypearson.com

In this episode, "3 reasons Men lie!" I explain "why" so many men feel they must lie to the women they want to be within a relationship.  It is not an excuse but a good understanding and reasons men feel they must lie to be with a woman.  Believe it or not, some lies are necessary to keep the peace in the relationship, but most men are lying use this reasoning well beyond them protecting their mate's feelings/looking out for their well-being.  I help women "see" "why" it is so hard for a man to tell the truth--it's about the benefits! If men cannot see the real true benefit of telling you the truth, they will always lie to you.  If you always forgive them when you catch them in a lie, they will always lie to you.    Women expect and claim to want the truth, even if it hurts them or not, but the truth is what they really want is whatever they suspect confirmed by their man regardless if it is true or not.  They need to BE right about EVERYTHING they THINK you did, have done, or will do!  So this ongoing battle continues, "To tell the truth or to lie"-it all comes down to the "benefits."    If you would like to talk to me one-on-one about your relationship situation feel free to contact me directly at 404-790-8714.  For more dating advice on related subjects like this, purchase my book, Why does love hurt so good?" on www.ondraypearson.com TODAY!

In this episode, "4 reasons why you can't find a good man!"  I explain why and go over the many reasons why women seeking a "good" man are having trouble finding them.  A lot of good women spend more time seeking out and are attracted to what we call "bad boys," thinking their behavior guarantees a good time and a good life.  It isn't until 10, 20, or 30 years later, three or more kids by them before they realize bad isn't as reliable as they had hoped.  It is at this time they seek out the "good guy," asking others, "where are all the good gone, or are there any left?"    The short answer is YES, there are good men available and single, but very few want to deal with the drama that many of this kind of women bring to a new relationship.  As you listen, you will learn why so many women are having issues finding "quality" men to date and marry.   If you would like to talk to me one-on-one about your relationship situation feel free to contact me directly at 404-790-8714.  For more dating advice on related subjects like this, purchase my book, Why does love hurt so good?" on www.ondraypearson.com TODAY!