Michael and I get a lot of "you guys get along so well. why don't you just get back together?" And yes, we get along very well, but after 11 years we knew that we weren't a good fit for one another.

This episode dives a little deeper into why we in fact are not good together. I talk about how I used to think that I was "too hard to love," but I realized that this was far from the truth. The feeling of being "too hard to love," just actually comes down to changing your mindset around it and realizing that maybe you're just choosing the wrong people to love you.

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I'm a week late, but I'm here! That just hopefully means there will be two episodes this week instead of one. Life has been a little chaotic and busy, but in all the best ways.

Today's episode I talk about my recent adventures to Dallas and how the men are just made differently out there, but I still came home single as can be. I did shoot my shot though.... because why not.

I've also come to the realization that I have so much more of myself that I want to rediscover and dating just isn't high on my priority list right now. The dating apps aren't bad for everyone, but I just feel like I'm an option when I'm in them and I'm to a point in my life that I refuse to be an option to anyone (you should also feel this way if you're dating).

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Tonight's episode is another one from the comfort and safety of my bedroom. I get asked a lot, "when did you know?" or "how did you know you wanted out of the marriage?" It's a lot deeper than just all of sudden deciding one day that you're done. I'll give you my answer (and more) in this episode.

But I also talk about intimacy, free falling into dating, and really wanting to fall in love again. Is it scary? Sure. But am I ready? Absolutely. I also talk about the funnier side of dating.....like knowing that eventually mom underwear and sports bras are no longer sexy when you start getting real intimate. At least I'm honest and I'm truly here to help y'all out.

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Tonight was a late-night recording, but I had so many thoughts and couldn't get my mind to settle, so I knew recording an episode would be the therapy that I needed.

Tonight I talked about not self-abandoning (something I'm learning to not do), matching someone's energy, and reminding you that what one man won't give you.....another man will. What you put up with in the beginning of dating is exactly what you'll be putting up with weeks, months, and years from that point. So, girl do yourself a favor and do better because you deserve it.

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Welcome to another episode of me just living life and figuring things out as I go. This episode is juicy and filled with some real, raw, emotional, but always fun moments. I got to have my best friend on with me, and we take a deep dive into my new(ish) single life, how much I've changed, and what dating has been like.

She knows everything about me in this season of life and has seen the breakdowns, watched me rebuild the life I've created, and she's been my therapist and tough love specialist as I navigate the dating world....including the make out session that recently happened and had me feeling like a giddy schoolgirl (insert the emoji covering its eyes here). Life is always so interesting, and it honestly just keeps getting better!

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Don't worry, after a day of breaking down on my kitchen floor, I'm now doing great! In today's episode you'll get the real, raw, vulnerable side of what it looks like to date again when you have an anxious attachment style. You'll get an inside look of what breaking down looks like after you spent a long time in survival mode.

Trust me, I have not had my proudest moments lately, but everything is truly a lesson. I might hate the lessons, but I'm so grateful for them because without them there is no growth. Some days I think I'm ready to date and other days feel like everything's on fire and I'd rather be single forever than catch feelings for someone. I'm here to teach you guys all the things and hopefully work through our breakdowns together.

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Today I talk about the things you shouldn't do when you start dating again. I have a much longer list, but unfortunately, I fell back into some old patterns over the past few weeks and really had to catch myself and call myself out real hard.

I'm learning some of the really hard lessons and I'm thankful for that because I think it helps me to be and do better, but it also helps me to teach you what not to do. I've sat really high standards for myself, and I caught myself lowering those for someone I didn't know. Thankfully I realized what I was doing and turned that ship around real quick. Dating doesn't have to be hard, but it does need to be something that you're truly ready for.

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Here we are, single at 38 and navigating the dating world after 11 years with someone. On today's episode of "why I'm still single" I'll talk all about the highs and lows of dating and what it's like getting back out there. Spoiler alert.... it's horrible.

The dating apps are trash when your standards are high and you know your worth. I've tried them all (multiple times) and it was the same disaster every single time. Thankfully I'm perfectly fine being alone and I'm truly loving my life. This journey into rediscovery and dating has brought be SO many lessons and I can't wait to share all the chaos with you.

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The biggest plot twist yet!

I'm so happy to be back in this space. Obviously, a lot has changed and that's really what this episode is about. I dive a little into my separation/divorce, becoming a single mom, and all the little (but amazing moments) that have happened since the split. Things are just getting exciting and I can't wait to take you all of you on this journey with me.

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