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In this episode, Doug and Dr Talia talk to Susan Gold, endurance athlete, A-List Talent Agent, and Author of Toxic Family: Transforming Childhood Trauma into Adult Freedom. As Susan shares her journey through childhood abuse, navigating a marriage and divorce from a narcissist, as well as deep diving into her own healing work and leaning in to a brutally honest life, we offer a trigger warning. Listener discretion is advised. Her wisdom will astound you and her narrative will inspire.
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Why is talking about money so terrifying to most people? Emmy nominated TV journalist and President of Platinum Wealth Management, Jennifer Rogers Markwell, teaches us about the connection between our money memories and our unresolved issues around money as adults. She walks us through a mindset shift around facing our own finances and how to have these once fraught conversations with our partners with honesty and compassion. Jennifer replaces all of the shame and avoidance around our money mindset and replaces it with curiosity and reconnecting with your individual and couples’ money goals.
Show Notes: https://werenotfine.com/episode-54-2/
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In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug look at all angles of the theory that opposites attract but don't last. Some qualities need to be aligned, or at least complimentary, for a couple to thrive and not wear on each other’s last nerve. And they might not be what you think!
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Dr. Talia Jackson
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In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia take on a mail-bag from a young man who has found that the change to domestic life and adulting together has sucked all of the sexiness and spark from their three year relationship. We share the tricks of the trade to reigniting interest in each other, spicing up your conversations, turning up the spark in the bedroom and reconnecting to your initial reasons for falling in love.
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Ethical leadership coach and public speaker, Shana Francesca, shares her powerful story of growing up in an alt right Evangelical Christian cult, in an abusive family and an abusive community. She opens up about using her inner resources of curiosity and creativity to take ownership of her life and create an empowered narrative. Be amazed and inspired with us as Shana tells us about her lived experience, her discovery of her own neurodivergence, and how she has created a very unique path for herself. Trigger warning: honor your own trauma and tender spots by skipping as much of this episode as you need if the pain points hit too close to home.
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Show notes: https://werenotfine.com/episode-54/
In this week’s episode, Dr. Talia and Doug cut to the chase with a handful of mailbags from friends who know exactly why their friends are still single but don’t know how to break it to them. We can all learn from these cautionary tales and course correct before our best friend tells us their opinion of our toxic traits. There is nothing better than the type of self-awareness that comes from other peoples’ lack thereof! Enjoy!
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In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug talk to Dr. Henry Emmons, a Holistic Psychiatrist blending soul with science, about how to boost your resilience, become more disappointment proof and learn to sit with your internal chaos long enough to make a more mindful next step.
We're Not Fine
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Dr. Talia Jackson
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You hate your friend’s partner or even worse, your friends hate your partner!
In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia help a few listeners navigate this treacherous situation as the hater, the hated, or as the one in the middle. Tune in to weigh all of your options, ask yourself some challenging questions, and show up in ways that feel good to you regardless of the role you might be playing in this dilemma.
We're Not Fine
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In this episode, Dr. Talia and Doug talk to Lia Lamela, a spunky and incredibly resilient woman who shares with them her harrowing story of falling in love and having the illusion of a loving marriage chipped away day by day until it became a matter of life and death. Hear how she turned her fear into urgent action even when there seemed to be no way out. We’re Not Fine Family, we want you to be aware of the intensity of this episode and give you a trigger warning. If domestic violence is a trauma that hits too close to home, please take care of yourselves and listen only as you see fit. There are such hopeful, beautiful and useful words of wisdom in this episode, but we do not want anyone feeling triggered without having a safe place to process. Thank you all.
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Lia’s Resources & Recommendations
📚 Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, and Live Fearlessly by Evy Poumpouras
📞 The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
💻 OASH Office on Women’s Health https://tinyurl.com/3x49ttxp
⚡Free People Skills for the Skilled Trades: https://mailchi.mp/4e0b9492a43f/the-sparky-life-landingpage
In this episode Doug and Dr. Talia hear from two different people who have had opposite but equally miserable anniversaries. One is hurt by his girlfriend’s lack of effort, and the other is devastated that her boyfriend is disappointed in her gift. Who needs to step up? This episode tackles how to deal with disappointment, how to level set your expectations and clearly communicate them, and how to be a more thoughtful gift giver.
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Dr. Talia Jackson
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