What Has My Attention

Today I'm talking with Karen Berzanski who can be found at TheLuckySoul.com, a Certified Life Coach, Pro EFT Tapping Coach, Mindset enthusiast, and trauma thriver. We're joined by Stephanie Murphy from MesaVistaWellness.com, MA, RN, MEd, LPCC, ATR-BC, and Art Therapy Supervisor.

All three of us have wanted to have a conversation about "misogyny." Here it is. By the end of this episode, it was apparent there was more to talk about - in upcoming episodes.

What Is Misogyny?

Misogyny: hatred of women - ref. Random House Unabridged Edition of the entire English language (print).

Misogyny: Dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. 'she felt she was struggling against thinly disguised misogyny' - ref. The Oxford Dictionary (online).

Misogyny manifests in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, disenfranchisement of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification - ref. Wikipedia

I produced a podcast episode in 2007 with Stephanie interviewing Craig S. Barnes, the author of "In Search of the Lost Feminine." That interview is included at the end of this episode. A notable definition from Stephanie and the book: "Marriage - an institute created by men to harness the power of the next generation."

This episode started out when I asked Karen if she had heard Stephanie's interview with Craig. What follows in the conversation unfolds from that question.

Books

In Search of the Lost Feminine: Decoding the Myths That Radically Reshaped Civilization by Craig S. Barnes

Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray.

Mentions

"Trust is earned in the smallest of moments." ~ Brene Brown

"A powerful woman is the same wherever she goes." ~ Yama Vanzany

Marianne Williamson 2020 presidential campaign - Wikipedia

Kali, the great creator, and the terrifying destroyer - Ancient History Encyclopedia

Contact Karen and Stephanie

Karen BerzanskiTheLuckySoul.com

Stephanie MurphyMesa Vista Wellness

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Music Credits

Dope Digging by Martijn de Boer (NiGiD) (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial (3.0) license.

This episode was recorded on October 16, 2019, before the pandemic while Tracy and Laurie were visiting me here in San Diego. This is the 2nd of two recordings we did while they were here. Go back to episode 2 and listen to "Medical Tourism" to find out how you can get all your medical needs met at a fraction of the cost you'd spend here in the states while traveling the world having fabulous vacations - all expenses included for twenty-five dollars a day, $750 a month!

Laurie has a background in biofeedback and using TENS units. TENS stands for transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation.

Tracy loves the expression "Same Same but Different" and describes himself "today" as someone who's been on his "soul tour" for the last 15 years.

We then pick up the conversation from episode 2 on "Medical Tourism" and talk about how to travel the world cheaply and,

Notable Quotes

• We exist within our conversations. We live there.
• If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
• Courage doesn't exist in the absence of fear.
• When you're talking about your success, people don't want to hear it was easy. They want to hear it was hard. They want to know what you pressed through. They want to know what were your obstacles. Because that's what's relatable. If you did it. Maybe I can do it too.
• Success leaves clues.
• Using stop-overs is a lost art.
• As we travel outside the US, we become better people.
• Don't be a tourist. Be a traveler.
• Don't be afraid to accept help.
• Be respectful when you travel. Respect people's model of the world.
• Those that walk out of their door, is half-way of getting there.
• Travel now. There are windows in life.
• When you travel, it breaks up the trance of life. You go from mindless to mindful.

All The Links

• Google Flights
• Scotts Cheap Flights
• Matrix - ITA Software by Google
• Matrix Flights: Find Great Flight Deals
• The Flight Deal
• Workaway
• Pub Street Spider Man on YouTube
• Rick Steves's Europe
• Rick Steves on PBS

Contact Tracy and Laurie

A Trance To Travel website

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Music Credits

Dope Digging by Martijn de Boer (NiGiD) (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial (3.0) license.

Topics

• Tracy and Laurie introduce each other.
• How Tracy and Laurie met: best friends first.
• Engaged before the first kiss.
• Back-packing around the world for four-years in 23 countries.
• Low airfares and traveling on $25 a day each. $50 a day.
• Couch surfing is about relationship first and also saving money.
• Workaway.org
• What is Medical Tourism?
• JCI accreditation.
• The best places to go for medical attention.
• Getting to your destination cheaply.
• The problem with healthcare in the United States.
• Commercials, advertising, and the "trance of normalcy."
• Whitecoat hypnosis.
• The best example of hypnosis: context and intent.
• George Burns, he had a future to live into.
• Tracy's mindful quote: "Whatever I do, I'm trading a day of my life for it. Look for fun. Look for play. If we can elevate our mood, we can lengthen our life."

Contact Tracy and Laurie Krauthamer

ATranceToTravel.com

MyQuantumConnections.com

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Music Credits

Dope Digging by Martijn de Boer (NiGiD) (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial (3.0) license.

John Victorino's company BeaconSEO.com offers Carlsbad, California businesses organic SEO consulting and Facebook Advertising services that will increase the visibility of a website across all major search engines by utilizing proven strategies that drive qualified customers to your website and increase sales.

Beyond his business, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is his passion.

Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

• Eye contact.
• What is Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu? A grappling sport. With Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, when you get your opponent on the ground, you have the advantage. It doesn't really matter how big or strong you are. There are certain physical laws that just work.
• Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu humbles you. It's difficult. It humbles you.
• How to defend yourself threatened by a gun.
• Repetition is the mother of skill.
• The history of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Hélio Gracie. Victorino is a part of the Gracie Academy.
• The Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu path of the belts for adults: white, blue, purple, brown, and black belt.
• There's nothing more dangerous than someone who thinks they know everything.

SEO

• SEO is all about putting your business, your website and your properties on the most trafficked place on the internet.
• Which local businesses are difficult to rank high for?
• Which local businesses are easier to rank high for?
• If you're an attorney that helps startups get going, consider spending time at MakerSpace.com or other co-working spaces where startups start.
• A chiropractor's success story. A landscaper's success story both using BeaconSEO.com.
• How Victorino approaches working with a new client.
• How long it takes to get SEO traction.
• Brick and motor are moving to the web. You need digital real estate.
• Finally, we equate with a metaphor of how SEO is like Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

Guest information

John VictorinoGet a free SEO report at BeaconSEO.com

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Music Credits

Dope Digging by Martijn de Boer (NiGiD) (c) copyright 2020 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial (3.0) license.