The ACA (Adult Chrildren of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Famalies) Laundry List (Traits of adult children) seems touch alot of people and make them realize that they do have traumatic responses in their daily adult lives.  I go through the list here.  I am not ACA, I am just someone who works the program.  If you'd like to learn more about ACA after hearing this episode, find a meeting or some more literature at Adultchildren.org