Join us for a heartwarming conversation with Pastor Fleischmann's mother, Helen Fleischmann. When Helen married at 17 and became a mother at 18, she never questioned whether she was "ready." Now, at 87 years old, this remarkable woman reflects on raising four boys beginning in a converted train car, immigrating from the Netherlands without knowing English, and building a legacy that spans 16 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren.

The conversation weaves through Helen's extraordinary life – from meeting her husband at a dance and getting married after just six weeks, to managing three boys in diapers simultaneously while her husband worked 12-hour days. What emerges is a profound contrast between today's approach to motherhood and Helen's refreshingly straightforward philosophy: "I had what I wanted – my children – and that was our first priority when we got married."

Helen's story challenges our modern obsession with having perfect circumstances before embracing parenthood. Despite modest beginnings, she created a home centered on faith, love, and genuine connection. She took in babysitting, ironing, and laundry rather than pursuing outside employment because "I wanted to raise my own children and I never regretted it."

Beyond her biological family, Helen opened her heart to create an extended family network. Family photos include many "unofficial" grandparents who became integral parts of their lives. This expansive view of family continues today as she devotes herself to caring for her daughter-in-law facing health challenges, saying simply, "If my house suffers from not getting everything done, well, sooner or later it will."

Her early experiences during World War II – running to bomb shelters while her mother instructed her to "don't let go of my dress" – instilled a perspective that puts modern conveniences and challenges into sharp focus. For today's mothers feeling overwhelmed, Helen offers wisdom earned through nearly nine decades: "It isn't as difficult as people make it. It's not that difficult, but you gotta pick your priorities and if they're not in the right place it's not gonna work."

Listen in to this Mother's Day conversation that will leave you reflecting on what truly matters in building a meaningful family legacy. Share this episode with a mother who could use some encouragement or perspective from a woman who has lived a life rich with purpose, sacrifice, and abundant love.

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