What Makes the Difference

By Ali and Rich

Join Ali and Rich in their no-nonsense podcast that caters to military veterans, serving personnel, blue light first responders, and individuals who are struggling with trauma or life transitions. In ... more

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May 09, 2024 EP 54: BEYOND the WIRE (Military Bereavement)
We are talking with Jilly Carrell, who goes by ”The Accidental activist for the bereaved military community”. We are privileged to be able to share Jilly’s story.
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www.beyondthewire.org.uk

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Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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00:00 Introduction and overview
04:40 Grey Space
09:13 Purple Pack
11:40 All-encompassing community
16:10 Retention and support the military family
22:00 What do we do with the families
24:40 Statistics, Statistics, Statistics
32:20 Recognising bereavement
35:40 Last words of a dying man
40:00 starting over again
44:20 Beyond the Wire
49:30 Takeaways

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51min
May 02, 2024 Ep 53: WOODLAND XPERIENCES
We are talking with Ady Martin from Woodland Xperiences and what you can expect from a camp.
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Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠
00:00 Introduction
02:30 Culture Shock
06:52 Typical weekend
11:10 Side by Side
18:05 Vicarious Trauma
22: 45 Power of Community
31:07 You give them the Woodland Xperience
36:00 Key messages and outro

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39min
April 25, 2024 EP 52: SHOWING up
We are talking about how do you show up and how do others show up for you.
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Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠
00:00 Introduction
02:00 Outrage
04:15 How to show up
07:40 Chicken or the egg
10:20 Two-way street
16:58 Bataris Box
19:30 Broken Trust
21:20 Maslow hierarchy
26:44 Guide
27:30 Questions for you and takeaways
29:00 Outro

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30min
April 18, 2024 Ep 51: Psychological SAFETY
We are talking about how do others make you feel in the workplace. What are the perceptions of psychological safety and how do you fit in with the team.

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Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠

00:00 Introduction
05:40 The boss wants a word
10:20 Never employing ex-forces
16:00 Flight, flight, and freeze
20:20 Drowning
25:00 Treat them mean, keep them keen!
32:20 Risk Assessments
36:00 Team Charter
39:40 Takeaways
42:20 Outro

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44min
April 11, 2024 EP 50: The DANDELION, The VETERAN, and the WIFE
We are talking to Karen, about the challenges of being a child of a sailor, veteran and wife and how the challenges were met, and the difficulties faced in service life.
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Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk
⁠⁠⁠⁠00:00 Introduction
02:46 Isolated and Pregnant
11:15 Family Separation
16:35 Beruit
18:50 Education
21:10 Put it in a box, and send it to sea.
23:33 Moving home
27:20 Gran saves the day
30:50 Biggest impact
36:15 Hospital
37:20 Cultural changes
39:00 Takeaway and outro
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41min
April 04, 2024 EP49: Part 2 The ongoing SEIGE of JADOTVILLE. The CHILD
Warning, we cover some sensitive topics.
We are talking to Marty from https://moralinjuryinternational.com and his experiences as a son of one of the soldiers who returned from Jadotville.

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Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠
00:00 Introduction
04:19 Wrong man returns home
09:20 War Comes home
16:10 No Judgement
23:27 Understanding
30:00 Forgiveness
36:00 Security Blanket
38:55 Corsion
45:20 Guilt and parentification
52:15 Journey of understanding
56:14 Speakout
1:01:00 Takeaways

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1h 5min
March 28, 2024 EP48: NOT so HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
We are talking about anniversaries and how we anticipate them which can either be filled with happiness, sadness or dread.
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Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠
00:00 Introduction
02:00 Advent Calendar
04:00 Expectations
06:00 It’s another normal day
07:50 Layering experiences
11:37 Moving on
15:00 Picking your calendar
17:00 Hindsight’s a bitch
19:25 What if…
21:40 Call to action
23:00 Summary and outro

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26min
March 21, 2024 EP 47: PATTERN recognition
We are talking about patterns and how they can affect our perception of things such as assuming what someone is going to say otherwise known as mind reading.

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Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠
00:00 Introduction
02:10 Creating our experiences
03:35 Cake
05:20 Mind Reading
07:00 Inferences
09:32 Patterns of stress
11:19 Milk
14:09 Firefighters
17:29 Must try harder
20:52 Drama
22:35 Pet hates
24:48 Takeaways
25:47 Outro

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27min
March 14, 2024 EP 46: IDENTITY and REFERENCE points
We are talking about pronouns, traversing new territories and building a new map for yourself.
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Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
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00:00 Introduction
01:20 Common Phrases
04:16 Belief structures
06:48 Algorithm change
09:25 Golden Retrevier
11:46 Pronouns
15:30 Perspectives
20:08 Patterns and assumptions
26:06 Waypoints
28:40 Educating Rita
30:30 Work with us
31:20 Takeaways
36:30 Outro

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37min
March 07, 2024 EP 45: The ongoing SIEGE of Jadotville. MORAL INJURY
We are talking with Leo Quinlan about Moral Injury and how that has affected not only the men who served and fought at Jadotville. It affected the families and communities around them.
You can find Leo here:
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Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
You can buy Rich’s books here:
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠

00:00 Introduction
01:48 Collective Moral Injury
03:14 Moral Injury International
05:19 Background to Jadotville
07:48 Duty of Care
09:40 Injury to the soul
12:00 Silent Fathers
15:40 The wrong man returns
18:31 Operation Hurricane
22:38 We came to help
23:34 Double Whammy
25:50 Community
29:48 Gift of Service
30:50 75,000 Suicides
34:42 Generational Suffering
39:18 Boots in the Mud
41:30 He was a Victim
42:00 Art of Being Present
44:58 Reason to get up
46:46 Key takeaway

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50min

FAQs about What Makes the Difference:

How many episodes does What Makes the Difference have?

The podcast currently has 107 episodes available.