Our earliest emotional bonds leave a lasting mark in our lives. Interested in uncovering your patterns of attachment in a romantic relationship? If you're single and on a dating App, can you spot a "Ghoster"? If you're in a committed relationships, have you pondered on the ways you and your partner interact and behave in your relationship? In this delightful conversation about Attachment Styles Theory, our schmoopie, aka resident LMTF (hope she doesn't mind the title) ELAINE ROMERO @shcounseling returns to us and lovingly breaks it all down for our learning pleasure. You might remember her as the other half of our previous episode (58) on Commuter Marriage. She's solo this time and wearing her counseling hat. Request  the quiz via email: [email protected]

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Elaine M. Romero, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and the owner and clinical director of Safe Harbor Counseling Center in beautiful Temecula, CA. She has practiced for over 25 years and is dedicated to equipping families to build healthy homes and leave lasting legacies.

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Our big world is getting smaller everyday. Finding 'The One" might just be one video call away. Meet Abe and Elaine Romero. They are the hosts of a newly launched podcast called  “Love Is In the Air”   https://www.instagram.com/commutermarriagesupport/ supporting long distance relationships and commuter marriages.

Abe is a marketing professional and graphic designer who lives is Fort Worth, Texas with his twin boys. Elaine is licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the clinical director of Safe Harbor Counseling Center in Temecula, California where she lives with her two children.

Together they have four kids, two homes, two careers, all in two separate states making life happen in a COMMUTER MARRIAGE!

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Imagine what it's like having to mute your identity in order to survive on a daily basis. Many have to do just that. Whether you are a member of a marginalized group, a BIPOC or not, you too may carry RACIAL TRAUMA. In this enlightening convo we begin to unpack what that is . Meet Dr. BRODERICK SAWYER https://www.brodericksawyer.com/ Dr. Broderick aka Dr. Bro, is a psychologist, activist, diversity consultant, workshop facilitator, meditation teacher, and aspiring author, with a specific focus on healing racial trauma in Black Americans using liberation psychology. He received his PhD from the University of Louisville, studying racial trauma and the healing effects of mindfulness and compassion-based intervention. Dr. Sawyer’s overall mission is to improve the psychological health of the Black community by ensuring that methods of healing meet the unique needs of the Black community."  

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Meet a fictional version of a cult leaders' enforcer, DIKHAN. Portrayed by actor Lenny D. Thomas @lennythomas on Tyler Perry's TV show RUTHLESS which airs on BET+ Why are we exploring this particular fockery? Well for one, your host @NadegeAugust loves a good cult and two, she has skin in this cult game. You'll hear all about it in this convo. Also, you might agree that the actor who portrays a sang-froid villain is nothing short of the opposite. See him and other guests in our  Instagram & Twitter @whatthefockery

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"I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired AND FAT..." What The Fockery is FUNCTIONAL MEDICINE? Meet Dr. PAT Boulogne, https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatboulogne/DC, CCSP,AP, CFMP. That "catchy" (IMO) title is borrowed from her book "Why Are You Sick, Fat And Tired". I've dubbed her our new resident wellness goddess. In this episode, we discover a hidden gem in the medical world. The treatment of you, just you, not your family's  history but your individual make-up. Hop over to our patreon page https://www.patreon.com/whatthefockery to see the interview and our insta where you will meet Jack. Dr. Pat's furry zen companion. 

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Zozobra: An ordinary Spanish word but with connotations that call to mind the wobbling of a ship that's about to capsize, the sense of having no stable ground and feeling out of place in the world" Meet Dr. Carlos Alberto Sànchez, @locoprof our guest for this episode. The article he and a colleague wrote got picked up in various pockets of the world as this feeling, this Zozobra describes perfectly what many residents of The United States , have been experiencing during 2020.

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Dr. Carlos Sanchez & Francisco Gallegos article on ZOZOBRA https://www.mic.com/p/theres-a-word-for-your-overwhelming-anxiety-its-zozobra-41352462?ref=thefuturist

Swingers, sex clubs, nudist beaches? Meet Nikki a  self-described exhibitionist, unicorn, writer, musician, very straight leaning bisexual, cisgender woman who has been exploring sex clubs for about four years now. In this delightful convo we uncover worlds where sexual freedom can be explored in consensual ways. From nudist beaches to lifestyle clubs, Nikki generously shares her experiences with us. 

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Do you know what turns you on sexually? Some find conforming to the will of another titillating, arousing and downright sexy. WHAT THE FOCKERY is a SUBMISSIVE?  This convo with  "Okua" , a SUBMISSIVE, will expand what you thought you knew about sexuality. What's your kink? Let us know by sending a voice memo to [email protected]

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This week's Fockery is: ASEXUALITY. Also known as ACE, asexuality is the "A" in the LGBTQIA+. Our convo is with the human bulldozer, BRI CASTELLINI. A multi-hyphenate, award winning filmmaker and podcaster, Bri identifies as Asexual. We look forward to your reviews and comments on this topic anywhere you listen to podcasts. As a Patreon supporter, you have early access to every episode AND bonus materials . Join here

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What the Fockery is SEX WORK? In this episode, our guest is Maha Chielo's @spookybadbxtch Maha is a sex worker, writer and activist. She lives in New Orleans and survived the devastation of Hurricane Katrina. Join her & other NOLA entertainers online today 9/10/20  for a fundraiser for the survivors of Hurricane Laura https://remberingkatrina.eventbrite.com In this convo, we discuss how she got started in the industry, the various forms of sex work, what sex workers are doing during the pandemic (COVID) for income, her activism, decriminalization  and more. She's written an exciting TV pilot about a sex worker, Blacklight. Watch & retweet here @blacklightontv 

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