The Sit Down Talk with Kier & Noémie Gaines

What Would You Say If I Asked You Today?


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Sometimes the best conversations don’t start with a plan—they start with a question.

In this episode, we play a game to test how well we really know each other. But what starts as a lighthearted back-and-forth turns into something deeper. We ended up talking about how much we’ve changed, what we still love, and the quiet ways we’ve grown up beside one another.

We reflected on who we thought we’d be in marriage, who we’ve actually become, and the things we still don’t say out loud until someone asks directly. There’s laughter, vulnerability, and a whole lot of “Wait… you still feel that way?”

This isn’t a deep dive into conflict—it’s a check-in from the middle. The part where love still lives, but assumptions need adjusting. The part where you realize you’re not loving a memory, you’re loving a person who keeps evolving.

If you’ve ever looked at your partner and wondered, “Do I still really know you?”—this one’s for you.

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