I’m willing to bet that most of you have gone above and beyond for love, and sometimes, to your own detriment. Maybe you compromised on your core values, or you diminished yourself for someone else who ultimately, wasn’t worth it. I definitely have gone over and beyond in relationships, and with people who were not deserving. And at the same time, I am now in my ideal relationship with the man of my dreams, and there are decisions I have made and things I have done that I never thought I would have done. And yet, here I am, about to celebrate three years of being with the love of my life. In this episode, let’s examine your negotiables, your nonnegotiables, and your reasons why, so that you can be clear on them and be able to find your perfect love, too.