Whatever We Want with Jay & Kay

Jamal and Khalilah kick off  the Juneteenth holiday weekend discussing "culture vultures" and how NOT to appropriate the culture of marginalized groups when looking at Walmart's recent decision to release a Juneteenth-themed ice cream among other recent examples. 

The gang also discuss why the RENT IS TOO DAMN HIGH, people's obsession with Lori Harvey's love life and 

Key Takeaways:  

[00:06] 

Walmart's Juneteenth Ice Cream 

[07:18]

Lori Harvey and Michael B. Jordan Break Up

[14:40]

The Rent is Too Damn High 

[24:35]

Pooh! Is that You?

[28:55]

Lena Horne gets her flowers

[31:06]

Diddy Pays $2,000 a Day to Use Police Guitar Sample

 [41:06]

Activism 

Resources Mentioned

• Black Bodies for Black Power - 2 Days of Abortion Access Rally in D.C. (June 18 & 19) | More info at: blackbodiesforblackpower.com
• The Wire@20 Podcast hosted by Method Man on HBO Max & YouTube
• Michael Che "That Damn Michael Che" (Season 2) on HBO Max

Key Quote

“...I think everybody just demands authenticity. We just want to make sure that you're not a culture vulture just because you see something's about to be profitable, not just jumping in the gap and like, oh, we can sell this to him.” - Jamal Sterling

“There's an expectation of women to surrender their singlehood to surrender their independence...in spite of this narrative that we're taught that women mature faster than men...there's still so much self-discovery. I'm still discovering things about myself at 40 something years old."  - Khalilah Elliott

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In life, as in theater, there is comedy and there is tragedy. In this latest episode of Whatever We Want with Jay & Kay, the  duo discuss gun control in America and Jamal's experience as a teacher in Texas.

The pair then switch gears when delving deep into spoiler land and the latest season of the hit show Atlanta  along with other random musings from the past few weeks. 

Key Takeaways:

[00:05]
America is not better than this... 

[02:54]
Gun Control in Australia & around the globe: Within two weeks of a major shooting, all semiautomatic firearms were banned...

[09:46]
Petitions & other ways to get involved in gun reform

[12:47]
Ending gun violence: We can do it, but we won't?

[15:39]
Spoiler Alert: we're talking all things Atlanta!

[20:45]
Jay and Kay talk about the brilliance of Atlanta's writing, acting, and cinematography

[26:35]
Atlanta isn't just a show, it's commentary

[29:40]
A fear factor of emotions? Also, Comedian DL Hughley Rips Monique over billing dispute!

[33:08]
The Amber Heard  and Johnny Depp case... is it over yet? Plus, Jamal rants (or raves?) about 50 Cent, the Kardashians and the British monarchy

[38:08] 
Is Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness worth the price of admission?

[42:33]
Jamal reflects on leaving the classroom after decades of teaching children

[46:53]
For the Culture: Check out Lamorne Morris in Hulu's Woke

Resources Mentioned

• This is Where I Leave You

Key Quote

"Teachers are people, too." - Khalilah Elliott

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On this episode recorded on the Mondayest of Mondays. Jay and Kay share some interesting “events” including an unthinkable scenario that won’t ever be unseen. 

Besides this, they hop on the Netflix fallout issue and the intriguing shows like Rothaniel that can truly stir up emotions. As Kay stated, being able to unpack your emotions in a society where expressing emotions becomes uncomfortable allows us the empowerment to stand up and live in our own truth. And also, yes, we’re ignoring your messages. Listen in to find out why.

Key Takeaways:  

[00:22]

Being on duty over the weekend and hanging out with a seven-year-old…fun!

[02:53]

Being the only one seeing something unseeable - you won’t stop thinking of it

[06:17]

The fallout of Netflix - dropping stocks, hiring then laying off people, and canceling shows

[11:40]

Jay & Kay reacts to Jerrod Carmichael: Rothaniel

[15:43]

Standing up to live in your truth and not hiding from people - the freedom it entails

[20:20]

Having professionals taking their game to the next level to understand people

[24:23]

American Academy of Pediatrics’ announcement on moving away from flawed guidelines that link race to risk for pediatric challenges

[25:28]

Social media & texting etiquette  - text messages vs. calling…which is better? Also, do I have to like your post every time? We don’t want to be bothered with little things.

[33:07]

This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• Jerrod Carmichael: Rothaniel
• Taylor Tomlinson: Look at You
• Black-ish

May is Mental Health Awareness Month
For support or help, contact the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)Call the NAMI Helpline at 800-950-NAMI
Or, if in you are a crisis, text "NAMI" to 741741

Key Quote

“Maybe part of our problem as a society is that we have taught ourselves survival...but we have taught ourselves to suppress our emotions, so much so that not only do our emotions make us uncomfortable, but other people's emotions make us uncomfortable. And I think maybe we need to sit in there uncomfortable.” - Khalilah Elliott 

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Serious question - considering the fact that the life expectancy in the US has decreased recently, what are you planning to do for the rest of your life to feel fulfilled? Jay and Kay discuss insights about what it is to grind and the level of pride one can have in doing the work.

On another note, Jeff Bezos shouldn't forget to reach out to Jamal and settle some damages. Also, how's it going for The Weeknd vs. Coachella and Lee Daniels vs. Mo'Nique? Oh, and we have to talk about those other three slaps this week.

Key Takeaways:  

[00:51]

Begging for money... Well, aren't we all?

[01:18]

Jamal gets things off his chest about Jeff Bezos and the damages inflicted to his mailbox

[04:04]

Three republicans for Ketanji Brown Jackson... hmmm...

[05:40]

SPOILER ALERT: 
Jay and Kay look back on ATLANTA's Season 3, Episode 1 ("Three Slaps")

[13:57]

Did you know that the US life expectancy has fallen for the second year in a row? What are you going to do for the rest of your life?

[18:06]

Jamal's journey and moving to the next phase

[23:38]

The grind is hard, but it' s part of the process 

[25:49]

News on  Coachella - The Weeknd says "put some respect on his name" after stepping up to replace Kanye West... 

[28:21]

Comedian Louis C.K. bounces back from cancellation with his recent Grammy win; Jay's plan for Joe Biden to secure the Black vote

[37:12]
Lee Daniels and Mo'Nique end their feud

[40:18]

This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• Luminary Podcast Platform
• Jerrod Carmichael: Rothaniel

Key Quotes

“I don't believe that any of us were just put here to exist. I believe every single person on this earth has a divine purpose and mission in life. ..whatever it may be.” - Khalilah Elliott

"Just because your life isn't going exactly how that plan goes doesn't mean that your life is wrong. It just means your life is different."  - Jamal Sterling

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It was the slap heard 'round the world and it seems impossible to escape the ongoing discussions about it. Who was right? Who was wrong? What happens now?

Jay and Kay give their insights and reflect on what should have been remembered as a groundbreaking and historical night that has instead turned into fodder for gossip rags and memes on social media.  

The duo explore how context triggers a deeper understanding and compassion towards everyone involved while emphasizing the need to keep our collective humanity in the spotlight despite all these crazy events. They also discuss masculinity, the concept of toxic sensitivity, and how at the end of the day, one must lead with kindness. 

Key Takeaways:  

[00:42]
Happy birthday, Khalilah!

[01:23]
Watching the Oscars and some interesting things that happen…

[06:28]
A deeper look into Will Smith’s life and how his actions contradict his efforts to escape his father’s legacy of violence 

[08:31]
Misdirected frustration and reestablishing masculinity through violence - this moment potentially destroyed other moments

[13:38]
When a black man has his masculinity tested publicly and the accountability it entails

[19:40]
A career ender for Will Smith? 

[21:38]
Jamal breaks down toxic sensitivity and Khalilah emphasizes it's easier to judge the actions of others when you're not in their shoes

[27:31]
Can Will Smith’s award possibly be taken away? How does this story end?

[30:08]
Jamal’s issue with Will Packer… church choir, really? 

[37:21]
New Edition...at long last, taking care of yourself, and a reminder to be kind

[40:17]
This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• Alcoholic Anonymous 
• Narcotics Anonymous 
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

Key Quote

“Social media can feel all like…fun and games…it does hurt people… These are real people. They may not be real to you, but they are real… Just be kind.” - Khalilah Elliott 

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Ralph Lauren has a new HBCU-inspired fashion line representing Black culture and customers…is it a good idea? Jay and Kay weigh in.  Speaking of the culture, get caught up on how the CROWN Act aims to protect Black people just trying to live and showcase their natural beauty. Jay and Kay rev up the conversation as they discuss the death of artists and the conflict between appreciating one's art while also acknowledging any ugly truths. Get all this and more in today’s episode.

Key Takeaways:  

[01:02]
Fitting in a desk and a chair in a small SUV calls for an Uber

[06:01]
Khalilah’s birthday week - claiming your space on this earth

[11:24]
CROWN Act: Creating a Respectful and Open World for Natural hair

[14:10]
Ralph Lauren's HBCU line… is it a  good idea?

[20:45]
The passing of William Hurt, Kobe Bryant, Michael Jackson, Miles Davis, and the controversies that follow deaths of talented but controversial figures

[28:26]
Marvel’s Anthony Mackie’s land purchase for building a new film studio

[31:09]
Jamal’s experience on playing basketball and wearing a Captain America shirt and his dream of the world not talking about Kanye West

[33:20]
The black driver in Grey’s Anatomy who was wrongfully arrested at gunpoint

[34:52]
The headline that would have shocked the world in 1994

[37:13]
Men versus women on what is recognized as a big deal

[38:22]
This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• Alabama Jackson Show

Key Quote

“As you get older, and you learn yourself, and you start claiming your space in this earth… you hopefully start being honest about the things that you need, and start expressing those things to the people that you care about.” - Khalilah Elliott 

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Jay and Kay are back at it again - bringing the heat and the latest news: Ryan Coogler’s ridiculous police encounter, Jussie Smollett's been sentenced, Nas is being sued over a post, and Kim Kardashian’s disastrous advice… Come on, no advice about working hard and hustling from the privileged, please. Well, with the many things happening around here, Kay points out the virtue of taking a step back, acting responsibly, and staying quiet for a while.

Key Takeaways:  

[01:23]
Getting paid for what teachers are telling you to stop doing - talking

[03:44]
Before and after pandemic - how’s life? Drinking, housework, and now the dog’s going crazy

[05:33]
The lamest story of how Ryan Coogler, the director of Black Panther, almost got detained in Atlanta… a classic example of racism

[09:13]
Kim Kardashian’s disastrous quote for Women’s Day: “Get off your a** and fu**ing work.”

[12:25]
The grind for attention and relevance - sex tapes, “look at me” mindset, pre-meditated controversies

[15:24]
Jussie Smollett’s acting roles and now being sentenced to 150 days

[18:36]
Taking responsibility and staying quiet because being self-righteous pushes people away

[21:35]
New York City's Child Protection Agency’s move in avoiding foster families taking advantage of funding

[28:10]
Getting called out about Wordle and how listeners listen to this podcast… is oversharing possible?

[31:08]
Jamal shares his audion experience - when the brain goes blank

[34:18]
What’s going with Nas? Getting sued over a photo?

[36:06]
Let’s talk NFTs - the beanie babies without anything physical

[37:26]
Bomb threats, #racism, HBCUs on being cheated out of billions of dollars, Stacey Abrams on her candidacy, and the passing of William Hurt

[45:55]
This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• Bastards of Soul

Key Quote

“Anytime you see a black person…we have this conversation all the time about respectability, politics, this idea that you have to be dressed a certain way” - Khalilah Elliott 

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So many crazes, changes, and showbiz criticisms to discuss! Jay and Kay are back to go over hot topics in the arts industry, the practices that have to go away, ridiculous happenings in the government, and mental health. We all have our own ways to feel okay and for some, maybe it’s watching teenage rom coms... even in our 40s.  On a more serious note, the pair highlight the importance of reaching out to people when the blues or depression hit us and why we have to take it easy on ourselves sometimes.  A talk about everything under the sun is the perfect way to spice up this easy Sunday morning.

Key Takeaways:  

[02:47]
Khalilah and Jamal call out the arts industry and the questionable recognition of black people 

[05:41]
The crazy Wordle craze: fifteen minutes of torture, when the paywall is built, and apparently, H-E-A-R-D-L-E

[09:48]
The comfort of re-watching shows, being in your 40s enjoying teenage rom coms

[17:26]
Questioning ourselves - Have we had COVID-19? Maybe, probably? 

[18:21]
The government on gender-affirming care and the "don’t say gay” bill in Florida

[24:50]
The Music Man on Broadway criticisms & Broadway shows that maybe shouldn’t happen;  James Earl Jones has a theater named in his honor

[35:34]
Mental health and tragic ends - Miss USA 2019 Cheslie Kryst and more significant individuals; creating a system with your circle to help support you through tough times

[39:35]
What "making it" really means!

[41:13]
The detainment of Brittney Griner in Russia and the dangers of operating in ambiguity

[45:50]
Prince's Estate + Morris Day controversy

[47:58]
This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• Abbott Elementary by Quinta Brunson
• Fannie Lou Hamer’s America
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline | 1-800-273-8255

Key Quote

“Create a system so people will know what your boundaries are, what you're comfortable with so they know how best to help you. Because a lot of times, the issue is people don't know what to do.” - Khalilah Elliott

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Whatever We Want with Jay & Kay co-hosts Jamal Sterling and Khalilah Elliot are back in the place to be, discussing the latest news and events happening in Black life + pop culture. 

Jay and Kay get caught up this week on everything that's gone down so far in 2022 - discussing the historic news of the nomination of Ketanji Brown Jackson to the Supreme Court, the controversial casting for a Bob Marley biopic, and debating whether ethnicity should be a deciding factor in casting. The pair also get caught up on Joe Rogan, the ongoing war in Ukraine, the NFL, Kanye West and so much more.

Key Takeaways:  

[01:11]
Wrapping up Our Town and Jamal’s experience doing a theatrical performance in a pandemic

[03:09]
Khalilah’s experience promoting On Sugarland, running until March 20 in New York Theatre Workshop

[03:50] 
Supreme Court prospect Ketanji Brown Jackson and why that’s a HUGE win 

[06:39]
The controversy on Kingsley Ben-Adir being cast as Bob Marley in new biopic

[14:34]
How abusive partners are using Apple Airtags for stalking 

[16:43]
An update on the Joe Rogan Podcast and Spotify; With more artists boycotting, will Spotify do anything?  

[24:53]
Russia’s unprovoked invasion of Ukraine

[26:11]
What’s going on in the Winter Olympics?

[30:19]
Our thoughts on the controversy around Brian Flores suing the NFL 

[36:02]
Khalilah’s thoughts on Mary J. Blige’s Super Bowl Halftime Show  

[40:06]
Kanye West; Mental health and why people need to stop sensationalizing his controversy

 [44:54]
This week’s For the Culture Shout Out!

Resources Mentioned

• On Sugarland By Aleshea Harris
• Supreme Court Prospect Ketanji Brown Jackson Confirmed
• Brian Flores Files Federal Lawsuit and the NFL Contending with Racism During Super Bowl

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Christmas has come early this year for co-host (and megafan of Zoey's Extraordinary Playlist) Khalilah Elliott as she recently sat down with Samantha McIntyre one of the writers and co-executive producers of the tv series and a consulting producer for the soon-to-be-released Zoey's Extraordinary Christmas movie. 

Listen in as Samantha shares details of her journey as a comedy writer in Hollywood developing uniquely weird and wonderful works like Unicorn Store starring Brie Larson and Samuel L. Jackson and writing for tv shows like Married and People of Earth.  

The pair also delve into the behind-the-scenes magic that brings this gem of a show to life, re-living their favorite Zoey musical moments, and uncovering what surprises fans can expect from the upcoming movie.

Zoey's Extraordinary Christmas premieres on the Roku Channel on Dec 1.

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