LaShonti and Balinda will discuss The Lost of a Beautiful Mother Meshay Melendez 27years old And her Loving 7 year old Daughter Layla Stewart. They were seen Alive on March 12,2023. But on Wednesday 22,2023 Both Bodies We’re discovered by a Gentleman in a Rural area In Washougal,Wa. Domestic Violence is on the Rise since the Pandemic 2019. Women Have been living in Fear and Afraid to say something or Leave the mental and physical abuse. Women want to be safe to Live their Lives if they decide The Relationship must end for whatever reason. We have a Choice.We have a right to change our mind . We must mobilize Our communities to help change the Laws for safety of Women and Children.

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Dr.Pastor Sonya Privette will continue the discussion with Balinda and LaShonti. Sonya experienced A lot of mental abuse and Bullying from people that she less exp in ected. Sonya moved to the Northwest to get away from the abuse she was experiencing from others on the East Coast. Sonya was moved by God to come to Portland for a better Life. Sonya has found Serenity. And Peace while Living in Portland. Sonya will discuss what she is doing to continue the journey. Overcoming Obstacles. We must continue Believing in ourselves. Pray -Talk to God Have the uncomfortable conversations Dig Deep inside yourself Go to the Root of the ProblemContinue Loving yourself Continue being Kind to others Treat others the way you want to be treated. Continue to Spread Love to others. If everyone participates and Do their part .This World will be a much better Place .

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Balinda and LaShonti reminisce about the Mother and Grandmother. Martha Was an Amazing Mother,Grandmother Women, Aunt, and spiritual person. She was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2015. Alzheimer’s is a very debilitating illness.Relatives Isn’t recognized. She loved Her Grand Children. LaShonti Was her primary Care Giver. Her care was magnificent.My mother was loved by so many people. Martha was selfless. She would always give of herself with time ,money and home cooked meals.She believed in service.Her most amazing gift was the Gift of Life.Her son Bobby lost his Life on 12-4-85.He was brain dead. She prayed to Her Father for a decision.Because she was asked if she would donate her sons heart. The answer was Yes.Take whatever. You need to help another person live Longer . She just wanted to know who received her Sons Heart .Because she wanted a relationship with the Person. Her wish was Granted.

The rest is History. Balinda wrote a Book in Memory of Here Mother. My Mama Told Me. The book was shared on Podcast today. The book will Be available online 2023. coming soon. Balinda received a phone text en route to the Studio this morning .We lost a beloved Family Member -Sophie Weatherspoon 1-14-23 Saturday Morning.i decided not to give the sad news to my Daughter LaShonti until after the Show.I had a hard time keeping myself together.the Grief was so deep. Sophie was a very Special person.She never Spoke negative about anyone.She spoke Love and Kindness to everyone. She taught in the Portland Public Schools.Whitaker Middle School and other Schools.She taught the importance of education. Sophie will be missed.

Rest in Love and Peace My Sister Queen

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Balinda and Lewa will discuss Lewa motivation to write her book based on Curcumstantial Depression.

Lewa is the only person (Author) in the world to publish A book explaining what is Circumstantial Depression. Lewa is an amazing Young Woman that has overcome So many Obstacles. She continue to Strive to make a difference in Our World. She is willing to share her coping skills.

We talked about the Saving Grace. Her saving Grace is God. She Have a close Relationship with God. She was introduced to Spirituality by her Grandmother at a young Age. Lewa is so Thankful for Her Grandmothers Love. Her Grandmother passed in 1992. Lewa said loss was Devastating for years. Grandma was her Rock. We also discussed How to become an overcomer. Never Give up. Love yourself. .meditate.spend time for yourself. Do what keeps you happy. Find the Goodness inside of you. Share The Love You can purchase Caged and Locked .Author Lewa Ubunifu Amazon and all other Locations where books are sold. Audio e-book.

Book Summary Or Description What is Circumstantial Depression? What affect does it have on the eyes and how we see the rest of the world and ourselves? My name is Lẹwa Ubunifu. I have Circumstantial Depression. I have struggled with this type of depression for a very long time. I am writing this book solely based on my own personal experiences and knowledge and how this disease has affected me. I hope this book creates some awareness about this disease and lets other people out there who have it know, You Are Not Alone!

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Sonya discusses The Mental and physical abuse she suffered as a child, teenager, and Adult. She is a Doctor, Pastor, Author, and Healer. She is a Beautiful Woman, Mother, and Grandmother. Dr. Sonya Privette, one of three children, was born to Willie and Viola Privette. She was educated in the Philadelphia, Roman Catholic & the Sisters of Mercy School System. Dr. Sonya is a graduate of Anointed for Destiny Prophetic School, a graduate of the Mel Floyd School of Evangelism, a graduate of Christian Research and Development Training Institute, and a graduate of New Life Bible Institute Missionary Training School.

She currently attends Greater Commission Bible College. She also is a Chaplain, Certified Biblical Counselor, Pastoral Counselor, Professional Counselor, Professional PTSD Counselor, Life Coach, and Consultant. Dr. Sonya is a member of the Christian Authors on tour and volunteered as a co-host in which she interviewed Christian authors on their Blog Talk Radio Show, and a member of the African American Author’s Expo both based in Maryland. She also is a member of the Oregon Christian Writers. Dr. Sonya Privette is the founder and owner of Extreme Faith Kingdom Enterprises LLC., and Apostle, president, and founder of Walking on Water International Ministries, Inc.

Dr. Sonya is a speaker and an author currently of 15 books in which she travels throughout different states speaking about her books with a message about God’s Love and God has given her writing and teaching ministry. Dr. Sonya Privette is the proud mother of three beautiful children. She is a native of Philadelphia, Pa, but now resides in Portland, Oregon. She is a Force that is Here to Teach others how to become an overcomer. Sonya is a child of Abuse. The following is her Truth I am a child of abuse. When I was a little girl I was abused by my father. I went to church every Sunday, also attending Sunday School and Bible study but even though my family went to church it did not stop me and my sister from being abused. My older brother was about 1-year ½ and he died when he was a baby from walking pneumonia and neglect that is what I was told.

I grew up in a house full of secrets and we were not allowed to tell what was going on. I was in middle school and the nun would not let me go to the bathroom so I had an accident when my father came home, he beat me with his belt buckles and I had bruises all over my body my mother heard me scream and cry and she just listened and she has done nothing. My mom told me the next day that if I told anybody my father is going to punish me. I went to school and told my friends and they told the principal and I was examined by the nurse. The principal told my parents I could not come back to school until I saw a doctor. I went to the doctor and he saw my bruises and talked to my father and told him if he did it again he was going to jail. Now my father was a correctional officer. DHS was never notified and the system failed me and my sister.

There was no hope for us. I and my sister were abused for years. My father sang in the choir and we were under the word of God still nothing changed. I was molested several times even by a family member, boys, and men, some I did not know. There was an incident on the 15 trolleys, I was coming home from high school and was on the trolley with my friend at the time and a man approached me and I got up and went to tell the driver and the man followed me and held me and pressed, me into the money box in front of the driver and told everyone I was his wife and no one helped me and they watched him molest me. The driver stopped the trolley and called the cops and they came and took him off the trolley but never said anything to me.

I got pregnant at the age of 15, had my first child at 16, 19, and 21, and also had an abortion at 18. I was broken. The church failed me, the Baptist church that I grew up in one of the deacons asked when I had one son and was pregnant with the other son am I going to have any other kids, after that I left the church for 10 years.

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Rhonda Fought a Great Fight.

She lost the fight on 2-10-2010.

She won the heart and minds of so many that Love Rhonda.

LaShonti and Fiona was Fortunate to Visit Rhonda in Arizona during Her Treatment.

They were able to reminisce about growing up together during their younger years .

The visit was Marvelous.I understand never

Put off an opportunity to visit your Love

one during such a crucial time.

Never procrastinate and say I will do it tomorrow.

We only have today for sure.

But not Tomorrow.

If you wait for tomorrow.It could be too Late.

LaShonti and Fiona is so Happy they visited Rhonda before it was too Late.

A Foundation “Fight Like a Girl”

Was formed in memory of Rhonda.

Rhonda Leaves Her Mother Victoria, Father Ron, Four Children, and siblings.

She have a host of Family and Friends.

Balinda Olive -Beltran wrote a Poem in memory of Rhonda.

I met a girl Name Rhonda

she was so beautiful.

Teeth white as Snow.

She had a smile out of this world.

She had a glow like the

Sunrise.

She had freckles and deep dimples.

She would Giggle

And when she walk she would Wiggle.

She was an Angel .

She touched so many Hearts.

She is Missed.

She is Loved.

Shonti Remembers Rhonda every time she Drive Her Black Lexus SUV.

Rhonda Name and message was personally designed and painted on the Vehicle.

Pink is one of LaShonti favorite Colors since her sister Friend is gone .

Loosing Rhonda has Taught Us .

Fight Like a Girl.

Treat your Mind Body And Heart Good.

Be Kind. Love 

210 is So Significant in more ways than one.

Remember it is Okay to Cry like a Baby.

Water cleanse us

The tears cleanse us from the inside out.

Let the tears roll down your cheeks.

You will feel so much better

Love 

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Kashous is the Son of Cassie and Dashon. He has one 3 year old sister Named Baelynn. Cassie and Dashon is expecting another Baby Boy December 25-December 31 2022. Kashous and Baelynn is so Happy to become a Big brother and sister. Kashous is 5 year old. He was Born 8-22-17. He is a Total Sun Eclipse Baby. He is so intelligent Beyond His Years. He will sit down with you and talk about some interesting topics. He wants to know about his Great Great GrandParents. He asked where are they? Where did they go? He told his 210 Grandma Everyone has a Soul. Even ifYou are Dead or Alive. 210 Grandma was given that name by her grandchildren because her address is 210. They have 4 grandma’s. Each one have a unique Name. So no one will be confused when they are talking to one of their grandma’s. Another deep conversation. He Said “ Grandma what is your biggest Fear.” I had to think hard because no one has ever asked me That Question I said to loose my family is a big fear I would be very sad to not have a Family. Kashous has been awarded twice this year already. He received Star student awards. He helps and Cares about helping other people. He said he wants to be a teacher .He wants to teach others. Kashous loves to Read books. Right now he is reading at 2nd and 3rd Grade level.He  Loves Family time together. Thank you Kash for bringing so much Joy to the Family Balinda Great Grandma and LaShonti 210 Grandma.

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What is a little Girl Suppose to Do LaShonti and Balinda will discuss with their Guest Evangelist -Marsha Joslin Topic-The Family.Who is your Real Family?What has Happened to Our Families.WeAre living in a Time of the GreatDivide.Some much envious,Jealousy and Hatred.Sometimes people do not know what they had until they are Gone.Then it is too late.We must change our Hearts and Minds.Love each other More Balinda will share a poem that she wrote in 1994.God Created Families.The Family is Considered a wholeBody.Every inch of the body has a purpose and a function.We Must live on Earth together .So Why can’t we Live in Peace.It is time to start the Healing process.Forgiveness is theKey to Peace For our Heart ,Mind ,Body and Soul. Start today because tomorrow is not Promised.

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In memory of Erin Cowan August 17, 1971, to September 3, 2018. Gone too soon, Honoring Mother Shirley Cowan Shirley was born in Portland, Or in March 1950 She married Julius Cowan. Rip. Shirley's sons Mark, Erin Rip, and Julian Rip. Shirley is a grandmother and great Grandmother. Shirley is an accomplished beautician. She owned her own hair Salon for years. She is one of Portland's Best beauticians. She taught at the beauty school. Shirley is a Great cook. I can say she makes a great Banana pudding. She loved cooking Home cooked meals for her Family She has Always loved the finer things in life. She loves to dress up . Everything matches From head to Toe. Color coordinated. Shirley has been a role model for so many people in her life. Family Life has always been a priority in Shirley's Life Shirley is a very Strong intelligent loving no-nonsense Black woman. Shirley can help teach others by example how to overcome. She has dealt with so many life and death experiences. She loves the Lord. She is a member of #Sharon Seventh Day Adventist church. 

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John L.Olive born in Camden Mississippi July 28, 1950. John is the eldest of eight children .6 born to Martha VanArsdale Olive and Herbert H.Olive Sr. They moved to Portland Oregon to start a new life in 1952. John attended Boise Elliot and Highland grade school and graduated from from Jefferson high school in 1968.

John Loved Basketball. He continued his education and received his BS degree in History and a certificate in Urban Planning and Development from Portland State University. John received his Journey-mans card in the flooring business and Carpet layer in the 1980s. John has owned his Carpet and flooring business for over 30 years. John acquired his real estate license and his insurance license in 1980. John has always believed in doing for self .John is known in Portland Oregon for his great carpentry and flooring work .

John continues to educate at his training center located on North Lombard in Portland Oregon. John is an advocate for Black people advertising in the African American business directories. John helped the founder of the black directory for the last eight years of her life. John worked hard for years with the Black Dollar Day Task Force. Teaching the importance of working together John continues to teach how to make money while you sleep. He understands the dynamics of pooling resources and working together .

John is a family man he lost his Lovely wife Gloria Olive of 45 years on November 18, 2019. They have three sons and one Granddaughter. John is spiritual. He believe in God and he knows his purpose in this life .He is an Elder and Sabbath School Teacher. He want to help others reach their financial success, and to live a happy and prosperous life, enjoying your family and friends. We need to leave a legacy for our future generations. It is time to Unite.

Love each other more than we loved each other Before. The time is Ripe don’t wait.

We are Living in 2022.

What are we Going to Do?

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