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- What's Clear to Me About Life
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What does it mean to live a good life when nothing goes according to plan? In the premiere of What's Clear to Me, I share how academic setbacks, difficult relationships, and unexpected opportunities shaped my journey from struggling college student to psychologist and author. Dr. Konstantin Lukin joins me to discuss emotional resilience, making sense of painful experiences, and why effective therapy takes more than simply talking about feelings. Then I welcome my first guests: my parents, Nick and Brenda. Their marriage ended after my mother's infidelity with someone in my father's family, a betrayal that also fractured family relationships. After 13 years apart, they reunited together. Together, we talk candidly about loneliness, accountability, forgiveness, financial realities, motorcycles, and what life looks like when you choose to begin again. Finally, Konstantin and Lukin Center executive director Gabriele Milani join me for some fun and interesting audience questions. From football and family stories to personal growth and solo travel, this episode is about owning every chapter of your story, even the ones you'd never have written for yourself. There are laughs, hard truths, and surprises.
1 hr 5 min - What is this about????
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Brian speaks a bit about what to expect from this podcast. Premiering October 14, 2026.
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About What's Clear to Me
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What’s Clear to Me is a life podcast hosted by Dr. Brian Amorello, featuring Dr. Konstantin Lukin. NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! Brian is a psychologist, author, football fanatic, traveler, and gay…
dude who is often far more interested in what happens outside the therapy room than inside it. The show is about real life — relationships, emotions, travel, bad decisions, hard lessons, and the moments that somehow make more sense once you’ve survived them. Konstantin brings another perspective and isn’t afraid to challenge Brian along the way. Expect real stories, real opinions, humor, uncomfortable conversations, and very little pretending that anyone has life completely figured out. Brian is also the author of the forthcoming memoir, Passport Stamps and Red Flags: How I Failed Out of College, Earned a PhD, and Kept Dating the Wrong Men — so questionable decisions are not exactly in short supply. If the truth is awkward, funny, messy, or mildly incriminating, it’s probably fair game. At the end of every episode, Brian answers the question that gives the show its name: So… what’s clear to me? Perspective changes everything.
Interested in Therapy?
Dr. Amorello and Dr. Lukin are licensed psychologists in New Jersey and New York and are authorized to provide telepsychology through PSYPACT. Individuals interested in therapy may inquire about services if they are physically located in any U.S. state except California, Hawaii, Iowa, Louisiana, Massachusetts, New Mexico, or Oregon. Services are subject to applicable licensure and PSYPACT requirements, clinical appropriateness, and availability.
If you are interested in working with Dr. Amorello, Dr. Lukin, or the Lukin Center team please call 201-409-0393 or visit www.lukincenter.com to learn more or inquire about services.
What’s Clear to Me is intended for educational and informational purposes. Consistent with the American Psychological Association’s ethical standards regarding media presentations, listening to or interacting with the podcast does not establish a psychologist-patient relationship with Dr. Amorello or Dr. Lukin.