Sign up to save your podcasts
Or
Share What's Happening with Men?
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
Or
What's Happening with Men?
Deesha Philyaw and Kiese Laymon discuss the “manosphere,” — specifically how Black men show up in the space of it, and how Black women respond to it. Deesha talks about a “de-centering of romance” and recognition that women have come to see that their lives are full and beautiful without being partnered with a man who does not listen to or respect them.
They are interested in the deconstruction of the notions of masculinity, of repair and accountability, and of the homosociality/eroticism of the manosphere, as well as the pulling away of intimacy between cishet men. And they discuss what the work might look like. Therapy, radical change, deconstructing notions of masculinity, and possibly even retiring the terms “masculinity” and “femininity” altogether.
Reading List: Authors, Stories, and Books Mentioned
“My Brush with the Black Manosphere” (Nicole Young, Elle 2022)
Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man (Steve Harvey)
“Men are lost. Here’s a map out of the wilderness.” (Christine Emba, The Washington Post 2023)
“How To Be A Better Man Right Now” (Jeff Gordinier, Esquire 2024)
Listening List:
Jokes On You (podcast hosted by Mel Mitchell and Talle)
“The disappearance of men” (Christine Emba, YouTube 2024)
More from Deesha Philyaw and Kiese Laymon:
The Secret Lives of Church Ladies (Deesha Philyaw)
Heavy (Kiese Laymon)
Long Division (Kiese Laymon)
How to Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America: Essays (Kiese Laymon)
Ursa Short Fiction podcast (Deesha Philyaw & Dawnie Walton)
Produced by Ursa Story Company in partnership with Reckon.
Hosted by Deesha Philyaw & Kiese Laymon
Show Producers: Dawnie Walton & Mark Armstrong
Associate Producer: Marina Leigh
Episode Editor: Kelly Araja
Reckon Editor In Chief: R.L. Nave
Reckon Deputy Editor: Michelle Zenarosa
Audience Director: Katie Johnston
Creative Strategist: Abbey Crain
Sr. Social Producer: Sid Espinosa
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
View all episodes
By Ursa Story Company
4.9
115115 ratings
Deesha Philyaw and Kiese Laymon discuss the “manosphere,” — specifically how Black men show up in the space of it, and how Black women respond to it. Deesha talks about a “de-centering of romance” and recognition that women have come to see that their lives are full and beautiful without being partnered with a man who does not listen to or respect them.
They are interested in the deconstruction of the notions of masculinity, of repair and accountability, and of the homosociality/eroticism of the manosphere, as well as the pulling away of intimacy between cishet men. And they discuss what the work might look like. Therapy, radical change, deconstructing notions of masculinity, and possibly even retiring the terms “masculinity” and “femininity” altogether.
Reading List: Authors, Stories, and Books Mentioned
“My Brush with the Black Manosphere” (Nicole Young, Elle 2022)
Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man (Steve Harvey)
“Men are lost. Here’s a map out of the wilderness.” (Christine Emba, The Washington Post 2023)
“How To Be A Better Man Right Now” (Jeff Gordinier, Esquire 2024)
Listening List:
Jokes On You (podcast hosted by Mel Mitchell and Talle)
“The disappearance of men” (Christine Emba, YouTube 2024)
More from Deesha Philyaw and Kiese Laymon:
The Secret Lives of Church Ladies (Deesha Philyaw)
Heavy (Kiese Laymon)
Long Division (Kiese Laymon)
How to Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America: Essays (Kiese Laymon)
Ursa Short Fiction podcast (Deesha Philyaw & Dawnie Walton)
Produced by Ursa Story Company in partnership with Reckon.
Hosted by Deesha Philyaw & Kiese Laymon
Show Producers: Dawnie Walton & Mark Armstrong
Associate Producer: Marina Leigh
Episode Editor: Kelly Araja
Reckon Editor In Chief: R.L. Nave
Reckon Deputy Editor: Michelle Zenarosa
Audience Director: Katie Johnston
Creative Strategist: Abbey Crain
Sr. Social Producer: Sid Espinosa
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
More shows like Reckon True Stories
View all
This American Life
90,966 Listeners
Pop Culture Happy Hour
11,536 Listeners
The Read
27,358 Listeners
The Book Review
3,997 Listeners
Up First from NPR
56,537 Listeners
Love Letters
1,324 Listeners
IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson
13,044 Listeners
We Can Do Hard Things
41,538 Listeners
Ursa Short Fiction
219 Listeners
Your Mama’s Kitchen
2,322 Listeners
The Business of Publishing
0 Listeners