When A Guy Has

When A Guy Has

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When A Guy Has episodes

  • dude cults are so effed up

    Jolene is joined by her third ever Audrey to discuss: Growing up in the 80s; growing up in a cult in the 80s; the crossdresser-to-trans woman pipeline, raising your child in a 'genderful' way, and more.

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

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    2 hr 57 min
  • jolene found ANOTHER testo junkie

    Jolene is joined by Rowan to talk about their life! Listen in for stories of: recreational testosterone use, teen tinder in Maine, lesbianism as a gender, serially favorite personing girls, and more. Jolene made Rowan read Testo Junkie, and then goes on a tangent about plasticity as a concept + academic bullshit. Apologies in advance.


    Rowan is putting out music in a few weeks! It'll be here, I assume: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1zurhHibZPPXm6YnLMY1Xg?si=4T6KLlVBTnO11yk6cTw5og

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas


    2 hr 5 min
  • Gender Actors

    Jolene is joined by Henny, to discuss their life! Featuring: erotic roleplay on deviantart, Loveless discussion (yes, the BL with the cat ears thing), lots of theater metaphors, some poker metaphors, a lot of fun theorizing about gender and relationships and reflexive genders and so on. It's a classic episode set up. Enjoy.


    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas


    2 hr 22 min
  • leathermen keep telling me they'd be trans women if they were younger

    Jolene is joined by Ariel to discuss her transition. Included are: gender in between Anglo-American, Latina, and Jewish spaces, transitioning to non-binary leatherman, transitioning to a trans woman who is still sort of a leatherman, capoiera, a frankly weird amount of bisexual erasure, the pansexual kink scene, Japanese rope bondage, getting really theoretical about Japanese rope bondage, and more.

    Check out Ariel's bookclub here: https://karada-house.de/deviations/

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

    2 hr 8 min
  • Chilling on discord, making dozens of pride flags at a time

    Jolene is joined by Georgie to talk about his life, which winds around a lot of different vertices, including: chilling on discord making dozens of pride flags a night, being closeted and out at the same time, bats, French immersion camp, correcting adults on your gender, the f-slur to creature continuum, and more.

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

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    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

    2 hr 8 min
  • we made testo junkie in real life

    Jolene is joined by another anonymous guest to discuss, primarily, doing sex work as a cis4pay trans guy. Other topics covered include: bisexuality, coming out to your dad who comes out right back at you, being accused of addiction to testosterone (s/o to paul, we love you), men who think you're a girl calling you "good boy," and more. Content warning for some light discussion of IV drug use and sexual harrassment/bullying.

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas


    1 hr 33 min
  • "When your friend won't stop talking about lesbian age-gap media, you can kind of infer some things..."

    Jolene is joined by a nameless guest to discuss what it means to have a butch soul, crying to Jim and Pam fancams, being so monogamous you're unable to conceptualize attraction to someone besides your partner, borrowing moves men have used on you to use on women, and convincing your mom to read Allison Bechdel when you're 12, and then being confused when she asks if you're gay. Also: Jolene debuts a new theory of sexual attraction, and speculates about her mother. Pertinent character information: immediately after recording this episode, the guest spent 3 hours making an edit of the movie Carol (2015).


    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas


    1 hr 23 min
  • A Punk Home Where We Do Tumblr Discourse In Real Life

    Jolene is joined by Noah for a classic tale of intellectualizing your transition to death. Strap in for a tale that takes us through: the Social Network Fandom; junior college; convincing a now cancelled alt-lit poet to disavow manhood; Jolene realizing in real time the effect that adderall usage had on her thought patterns; and most importantly: the radical feminist to trans guy pipeline.

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas



    1 hr 40 min
  • A Thesis Statement

    Jolene is joined by Cordelia Belton (@cozyunoist) to talk about Mary Beth Mader's Sleights of Reason, and some more stuff. This is a rough attempt at a thesis statement for the show. Sort of. Listen in to figure out what Jolene Actually Believes.

    The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

    Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

    Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

    Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

    The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

    Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas


    2 hr 14 min
  • UNLOCKED: SCI-FI

    Tomorrow is my birthday, and I want the week off! So I'm giving myself and you a present by unlocking the most recent patreon episode, my discussion of sci-fi with James Hudson! Enjoy and subscribe to the patreon for more like this, and to support the show! And if you want to give me a birthday present, share the show with a friend!

    Sci fi is one of my favorite things and I'm so happy I got to record this with James! Discussed stories include: 

    • The World Well Lost by Theodore Sturgeon
    • Coming of Age in Karhide by Ursula K Le Guin
    • Aye, and Gomorrah by Samuel Delany
    • Imago by Tristan Alice Neito
    • The Gift by Ryka Aoki
    • The first three are available online as PDFs pretty easily. The last two are from the short story collection Meanwhile Elsewhere by Littlepuss Press. There is an eBook of this collection available at Pay If You Can from Littlepuss! Just enter the code "PIYC" at the checkout to get it for free (if you cannot afford the $10).

      Here are some links to things we mention throughout this conversation: 

      “Passage” by Carmilla Mary Morrell - https://draculavoice.com/art/passage

      “My Adventures with Omegle” by Hal Schrieve - https://twitter.com/hal_schrieve/status/1506723473988722691

      “Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones” by Torrey Peters - https://transreads.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/2020-05-05_5eb19256d9754_IFYFALO-Website-PDF.pdf

      “The Election in Babylon” by June Martin - https://junefacts.gumroad.com/l/ZqPOa

      Trans Panic Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/trans-panic/id1670348356

      Christine in the Cutting Room - https://youtu.be/erNy3Mh41gQ

      Check out James' twitter: https://twitter.com/townmice 

      And/or James' website: https://townmice.com/

      And as always: 

      The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

      Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

      Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

      Subscribe to the patreon for more like this!!! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146

      The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

      Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas


      2 hr 33 min

    About When A Guy Has

    From the publisher's feed

    When A Guy Has A Really F***ed Gender: the lovechild of Magnus Hirschfield and Joe Rogan. Each week, Jolene (she) talks to a guest about their gender, using their personal experience and interests as…