When A Guy Has

This week, Jolene is joined by Cody to discuss some art they made, centering around masculine performances of misogyny. Watch Rabbithole here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zYEJQ1kqv8&t=1s (Content notes: Contains a lot of misogyny, obviously, as well as footage of someone masturbating).

Some stuff Cody referenced:

Angry White Men: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/michael-kimmel/angry-white-men/9781568589626/?lens=bold-type-books

Contrapoints on Incels: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD2briZ6fB0

On Microfascism: https://www.commonnotions.org/on-microfascism

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠

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Here's Talia's twitter account: https://twitter.com/commewnism666

And Talia's lesbian public sex archive: http://scalar.cdla.oxycreates.org/lesbian-sexual-venues/index

Here's some references:

The Elizabeth Grosz piece mentioned: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0969725X.2012.701049

The scholar whose name Jolene couldn't remember who works on animal agriculture and GSWS: https://scholars.duke.edu/person/gabriel.rosenberg

The article Jolene read on why there's a large gamete and a small gamete: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25323972/

The most evil Star Trek episode ever: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Cogenitor_(episode)

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/⁠

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Listen to jolene and ichor talk about: creatures, goblins, ghouls, self-cest, addiction, cucking yourself with yourself, how 'it' is actually the first pronoun used for most people, the "dead wife experience," clowning, and more.

Check out all of Ichor's links here: https://linktr.ee/duckykw

Project LETS is the organization Ichor mentions towards the end of the episode. Learn more about them here: https://projectlets.org/

I realized after the fact that the "dead wife experience" is basically one of the plot points in Michelle Perez and Remy Boydell's "The Pervert," which is a really good comic you should read.

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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The RSS Feed: https://anchor.fm/s/9877d600/podcast/rss

Donate to our Kofi, if you're so inclined: https://ko-fi.com/whenaguyhas

Here's Talia's twitter account: https://twitter.com/commewnism666

And Talia's lesbian public sex archive: http://scalar.cdla.oxycreates.org/lesbian-sexual-venues/index

Here's some references:

The Elizabeth Grosz piece mentioned: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0969725X.2012.701049

The scholar whose name Jolene couldn't remember who works on animal agriculture and GSWS: https://scholars.duke.edu/person/gabriel.rosenberg

The article Jolene read on why there's a large gamete and a small gamete: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25323972/

The most evil Star Trek episode ever: https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Cogenitor_(episode)

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun"

This is basically that. Have fun. Part 1 of 2. Check out t4t Caregiving: https://www.t4tcaregiving.org/donate.html

And GALAP: https://www.thegalap.org/

And Peach on socials: https://twitter.com/gey_sax ; https://www.instagram.com/gey_sax/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D

And then the usual stuff:

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun"

This is basically that. Have fun. Part 1 of 2.

And GALAP: https://www.thegalap.org/

And Peach on socials: https://twitter.com/gey_sax ; https://www.instagram.com/gey_sax/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D

And then the usual stuff:

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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Jolene is joined by Amelie to talk about dissociative identity disorder, autophilias/paraphilias, erotic investments in transition, and more!

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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Content Note: This episode includes a brief mention of a suicide attempt and subsequent hospitalization.

Jolene is joined by Luca for a conversation about a lot of things, including: trans children and trans childhood, the continuity between trans childhood and the rest of the community, ballet and gender norms within it, movement, playful and silly genders, how trans people are really the same across ages and generations, playing gender tag, and more!

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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Jolene's streak of "trans women whose lives were touched by evangelical Christianity" continues, as she's joined by Aurora for a conversation about: "Did you know they make bikinis for boys?" (they don't), joining a cult, leaving a cult, being a surfer boy as an attempt at femininity, and finally, a long meandering meta conversation about narrativizing trans lives, inspired by Aurora's wonderful book The Fifth Wound, which you can order below.

Buy Aurora's book: https://nightboat.org/book/the-fifth-wound/

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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Jolene is joined by her friend Livvy to talk about her transition, Michael Savage, importing hormones from Malaysia, crashing on so many different couches, living with a terminal illness, and more.

The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/

Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas

Check out our website: https://whenaguyhas.neocities.org/ (IN PROGRESS)

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