When Everything Goes Wrong

Kelly Herron, Survivor and Warrior Woman

Kelly Herron was attacked by Gary Steiner on March 5, 2017. Kelly was on a training run and entered a restroom in a park. Steiner intended to rape and hurt Kelly. Kelly fought, screamed “Not Today Mother Fucker!” at her attacker and she survived.

We are glad tp have Kelly back on this show to tell us about her journey through this past year and about her experience of seeing her assailant locked up behind bars.

If you didn’t get to listen to Kelly’s first interview on When Everything Goes Wrong, you can listen by clicking here. It is par three in our series on Predation, and a very powerful story of survival and perseverance.

Todays interview is a year removed from that event. We have had the privilege of staying in touch with Kelly during that time. She has had quite the personal journey, filled with triumphs, struggles, ups and downs. Through it all, Kelly has shown the same tenacity and fight that she showed the day of her attack.

Not Today Mother Fucker!

Kelly joins us fresh from her court date where she was a witness against her attacker and had a direct hand in putting him behind bars. We get to catch up with her about what she has had to deal with since the attack.

* Physical and emotional struggles and healing

* Finding her place in her life

* Her message to other women who have been victims of attack

* Warrior/survivor mindset

* What she is looking to do going forward

Kelly is the best example we can think of when surviving a potentially terrible situation comes to mind. This is why we were happy to have her back on this show for a follow up interview. Listen in to hear her story in her own words.

Also,

How to find Kelly

As promised, here are the links to the different places to connect with Kelly:

Here are my links:

website: www.NotTodayMF.com

Facebook @NTMFofficial

Instagram: run_kiwi_run

twitter: run_kiwi_run

Not Today podcast: stay tuned! 

We are Full Circle Systems Security & Defense

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us by clicking here. Also, you can call us toll free at 1-877-474-6050. Don’t let another day go by without a good plan in place and trained people. We are here to serve you.

Movement Equals Life

This episode is probably not for you. But it could be.

So, who is it for then?

For the person, the man or woman who has sat on the sidelines, for too long.

For the one who feels in their bones that life has more to offer than you have experienced so far.

The one who doesn’t want regret to creep up on you like a thief at the end of your life, pointy that hard, cold finger and asking you why? Why didn’t you do more? Why weren’t you ready for what life gave you? Why did you let yourself and others down?

Is that you? If so, listen on..

First, a question, what do you want?

What do people want?

 

According to HuffPo

Happiness

Money

Freedom

Peace

Joy

Fulfillment

Balance

Confidence

Stability

Passion

 

Most people expect good things to happen

And rightly so, no one expects or looks forward to hardship or discomfort

So, why are the things on the list above seemingly unachievable for most people?

And, since they are seemingly unachievable, what does this do to you as a person? To your outlook and mindset?

Here is the difficulty. Life happens. A certain level of discomfort is necessary to be able to handle certain issues that life throws us. Whether we like it or not.

* You can stumble and fall.

* Get in an argument.

* Lose your keys.

* Break a nail.

* Get a cold.

* Forget your lunch.

* Rip your pants.

* Be lied about.

* Have something of yours taken or stolen.

* Spill a drink.

* Get in a car wreck.

* Need to take a test.

* Get a ticket.

* Dog ate your homework.

* Experience the death of someone you are close to.

* Need someone to believe you.

* Get sick.

* Run out of money

* Get a migraine.

* Lose a friendship.

* Have to weather a storm (real or proverbial)

* May have to run for your life.

* Could be faced with defending someone.

* Be in a real no win situation.

As you can already tell, this list could go on forever. In no way is it exhaustive. Some of these things are common. Some are not as common. The thing that ties them all together is that all are possible. So, looking at these things, some of these you are ready for dealing with immediately.

Child Sexual Trafficking and Predation

What can You Do about any of this? My wife brought up the topic with me this week. She is on a Facebook group for moms that has been posting relentlessly on the topics. When she brought it up to me, she asked about a point of reference about teaching people about something without making them feel totally overwhelmed. When I asked her about it, she said the admins basically posted all the tragic and bad news, but never put out any information about what a family could d or give any direction of hope.

Right. So, my next question was, " so what is your takeaway from all this?" My wife elaborated very simply. She felt completely helpless. None of the information being put out gave any hope. Nothing was said about what a mom, dad or family could do to protect their family from this very evil threat.

This is very similar to other security situations we have dealt with in our consulting and classroom portions. When people are only presented the "problem", they have no where to go in their mind. An overload of bad situation/bad news basically turns the audience to helplessness. At that point, they tune out. They want nothing to do with getting any further information about whatever the "problem" is. They feel completely helpless, so all they have is the hope that it never happens to them.

Because in their mind, they probably won't survive anyway...

So, in this podcast episode we talk about your question: What can you do? It is a very valid question, and we will give you a good baseline understanding of the issue and some real steps to take. I hate leaving people without hope, a plan or even basic understanding of what to do. So, what can you do? This.

Understand the issues.

* What is the difference between child sexual trafficking and childhood sexual predation

* Trafficking is where the potential for a true stranger is more possible

* Predation is almost always men, and almost always someone you and your family know very well

* What is grooming, who is the focus on, and what can it look like

* Legal recourse, and why these cases are usually not convicted

After a basic understanding, we cover:

* Speaking to your children

* Start earlier than you think

* Use age appropriate concepts

* Don't treat your kids like they are dumb

* Create the space where your own children feel comfortable talking to you. Earn and keep their trust

* Don't fall in to the faith "bubble" trap

* Do not pretend that if you don't talk about something, it isn't real

* You need to be highly involved with your kids

* Be present in activities, like sports, classes, events and such

* NO sleepovers, ever are allowed

* Pay attention to the people in your children's lives

Talk to your kids regularly. Make this a habit and they will truly learn to trust you. Let them know that they can tell you anything. And, if something has ALREADY happened to them? Make sure they know it is not their fault.

We are Full Circle Systems Security & Defense

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us by clicking here. Also, you can call us toll free at 1-877-474-6050. Don’t let another day go by without a good plan in place and trained people. We are here to serve you.

Economic downturn, fears of recession and huge amounts of people out of work are causing serious problems. What can you do about it? And has it already affected you?

I say, you can do much, and yes. It has already affected you.

Coronavirus is still a thing. As a result, we are seeing real economic downturn in the U.S. and the World right now. It has already taken its toll on people out of work with those numbers looking like 40 million right now. Economists are saying we are already in the beginning of a recession.

Have you been effected personally? If you haven't, I bet you know someone who has. And this economic downturn is not finished. Fears of a full blown recession are rumbling.

In this episode we talk about the cascading effects of this recession.

What can you and others do? Do you have options available to you? Can you do anything before job loss hits you?

Also, the Seattle City Council has taken away Police Officers less than lethal options during the protests. I did a video yesterday that you can watch by clicking here.

Related to this is the defunding and threat of abolishing police departments. How can this effect other areas of life during the economic downturn and recession? How about the truck drivers threatening to not deliver to cities and towns that have defunded their police? We play the if this___ then___ game! It is a handy dandy practice that you can adopt.

With all this going on, we end on a high note. We look at Mr. Hutchison, the Black Lives Matter(BLM) protester in London England. He say another man (white man opposing side) get hit and knocked down. Mr. Hutchison's actions surely saved this mans life as well as diffused worse violence.

An active shooter was also avoided. Sargent Major Royer did what he says anyone would have done. He saw a man shooting other people. Sargent Major Royer hit him with his truck! Listen in for this story and all the rest! We want you to survive. I hope you learn something from this. Thank you for listening!

Manipulation  really  does  suck...

For you, for me, and right now for us all. As a nation, we are being divided and controlled by politics and the media. I really do not care which side of the spectrum you are on, this is true. Honestly, this should just piss you off.

In this episode:

* Does being manipulated make you mad?

* What are you being led to think?

* What is really going on around you?

* Are there question you should ask yourself?

* What can you do?

Get away from the noise, and learn to disconnect from the manipulation. Find out where the noise is coming from, what is the primary agenda behind it? What are the possibilities that you could see coming?

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Welcome back,

Yes, I know we've been gone a really long time... A year and a half I believe. Apologies, but, life happens. Let's consider this a brand new beginning for this podcast. So, jumping right in!

As the title says, welcome to this crazy world! Wow, how things have changed in three months, huh? Perplexing and worrisome to many people, including you most likely.

Which brings us to the topic of conversation today.

You.

You, and how you might choose to deal with this crazy world we see ourselves in. We are going to talk about Mindset. What mindset is, what it is to you, and how you figure out what your mindset can be.

It is a lot to think about.. (pun intended).

So, welcome back, and thanks for being here.

Let me know what you think and how things have affected you. Is there something you are facing that you just never thought of before? Real challenges that you are unsure how to face or deal with? Let me know in the comments,