When Everything Goes Wrong

Kelly Herron, Survivor and Warrior Woman

Kelly Herron was attacked by Gary Steiner on March 5, 2017. Kelly was on a training run and entered a restroom in a park. Steiner intended to rape and hurt Kelly. Kelly fought, screamed "Not Today Mother Fucker!" at her attacker and she survived.

We are glad tp have Kelly back on this show to tell us about her journey through this past year and about her experience of seeing her assailant locked up behind bars.

If you didn't get to listen to Kelly's first interview on When Everything Goes Wrong, you can listen by clicking here. It is par three in our series on Predation, and a very powerful story of survival and perseverance.

Todays interview is a year removed from that event. We have had the privilege of staying in touch with Kelly during that time. She has had quite the personal journey, filled with triumphs, struggles, ups and downs. Through it all, Kelly has shown the same tenacity and fight that she showed the day of her attack.

Not Today Mother Fucker!

Kelly joins us fresh from her court date where she was a witness against her attacker and had a direct hand in putting him behind bars. We get to catch up with her about what she has had to deal with since the attack.

* Physical and emotional struggles and healing

* Finding her place in her life

* Her message to other women who have been victims of attack

* Warrior/survivor mindset

* What she is looking to do going forward

Kelly is the best example we can think of when surviving a potentially terrible situation comes to mind. This is why we were happy to have her back on this show for a follow up interview. Listen in to hear her story in her own words.

Also,

How to find Kelly

As promised, here are the links to the different places to connect with Kelly:

Here are my links:

website: www.NotTodayMF.com

Facebook @NTMFofficial

Instagram: run_kiwi_run

twitter: run_kiwi_run

Not Today podcast: stay tuned! 

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The Pain of Predation Is Too Much For Us

This series has not been easy. Or really even that fun. No one like to think about the subject and victims.

Neither do I.

That said, one of my biggest takeaways is that this is possibly the most untold story that exists. Regularly brushed under the table. While I suppose I understand the reasons why, it is a real failure on our part as a whole. The consequences that the victims carry and pass on are laid at our collective feet.

What do I mean? Just this, one is too many. I am a dad, so I carry a very specific burden of perspective on these types of crimes. Even the terminology gets under my skin. Tragedy - crime - whatever we choose to describe this is not sufficient. It does not hurt us enough. At least not enough to spurn us to unified action, does it?

I was all ready to record this with a few more recent news stories, but this turned in to the most important part of the conversation. What can we really take away from this series? It is not about what we learn, but what we decide to do.

Are You Responsible for this Pain of Predation

That is the crux of this conversation. These stories and interviews show us the all too regular commonalities that take place. Summing it up in one word?

Deception.

Secretive manipulation. Control and fear. They all are summed up in the deception. If the entire goal is to get away with these heinous and evil deeds, who is it against? The victims is the obvious answer, but what about you and I? Do you enjoy the notion of being lied to, manipulated, controlled, deceived? I know that I don't.

Ok, some push back, right? I can hear it know. But, I didn't know them! Wait, they weren't my kids.. It was just a stranger.

Even me saying it, these sound weaker by the second, right? If not, let's assume a little bit of self preservation thick headedness... These are people, not matter what. Just like the ones in your life who are important to you.

Even the strangers deserve a life unmolested.

They deserve better. If it were someone that I know, I surely hope that I could pay enough attention to the signs and situation to prevent or stop it. And if it were a stranger, like you or someone that is important to you, same thing. Right?

Preventing this Pain of Predation

What do do then?

Before you think I am on this high horse and arrogantly thinking that all can be saved, please don't. I know better. That is the power of deception. No one of us is immune to it. Not you or me. No one. Some of these individuals have perfected their craft to the point that they are the perfect appearance of whatever they want the world to see them as.

What to do then, chain the doors and bar the windows? That goes against everything this show is about, and you know it. We never want anyone to live in fear or allow fear to control their life. Not even you.

Decide. Decide to do something, if at all you can. Look, pay attention, allow your mind to go to the places that you would rather not think about. Consider that those dark things could exist. Look for them. Watch behavior. Ask questions when you can. Become an advocate for those who need it most.

Also, count the cost. It is no small thing to put yourself out for another human being. Whether it is a loved one, or not, there can be consequences. You could become a target yourself. Possibly you could be involved legally, or with a child's school or family. Social blowback is a real risk.

At the end of the day though, you can save a life.

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Dr. Anna Salter received her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and Public Practice from Harvard University and obtained a Masters Degree in Child Study from Tufts. She was a Teaching Fellow at both Universities. She is an accomplished author, lecturer and consultant.

* keynoted conferences on sexual abuse

* testifies as an expert witness in sexual abuse civil and criminal cases.

* evaluates sex offenders for civil commitment proceedings and other purposes.

She is the author of the Predators, Pedophiles, rapists & other sex offenders that is the inspiration for this series on predation.

We are honored for this opportunity to interview you Dr. Salter!

This is the last interview in our series on predation. We saved the best for last. Dr. Anna Salter is the expert of experts on this very important topic.

* Dr. Anna Salter tells us how far reaching the sexual predation problem is in our culture and society.

* Predators and deception: This is possibly the most important part of this issue. We must all understand what the practices are and what we should be doing to look for them.

* how we can protect out loved ones and others

* your thoughts on the Hollywood predation exposure that is currently taling place publically

* Anna Salter on her personal account of a possible predation experience on her  own family.

* Finally, leaving those listening with a sense of hope. What you can do to possibly prevent predation. Also understanding that there is help for victims.

Dr. Salter, we thank you so much!! It was an honor to do this interview with you!

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If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us by clicking here. Also, you can call us toll free at 1-877-474-6050. Don't let another day go by without a good plan in place and trained people. We are here to serve you.

The Problem of Human Trafficking and Slavery

Human trafficking and slavery are not a problem of history. They are a modern day epidemic. Men, women and children are targets every day allover the world, even in your community, no matter where you live. This is your problem as well as mine.

This is the fourth installment of our Predation Series.Although most people listening to this have a historical understanding or slavery, most don't realize its current state. In this episode we meet Elizabeth K. Elizabeth is an RN who dedicates her free time to educating herself and others on the epidemic of human trafficking and slavery. This interview takes us through an astonishing and subversive world of abuse and violence that leads to control, manipulation and slavery. Elizabeth shares her story to help others become educated and empowered.

Human Trafficking and Slavery: In the Shadows

First of all speaking with Elizabeth, she tells us of a conference she attended. The Second Annual Symposium Presented by the San Diego Commission on the Status of Women and Girls: Combating Domestic Violence, Homelessness, and Human Trafficking. As a result, the conference lit her passion to help those trapped in this destructive world. As a healthcare provider she was shocked to realize that possibly 50% or more of these victims encounter a health care worker at some point. Since the probability of encounter is high in health care, Elizabeth is taking action to help educate her peers.

The process with human trafficking and slavery is all too familiar.

* Physical abuse which leads to

* Homelessness as the victim desires escape

* Bad choices of drugs and environment to transition to a better direction

* Control and deception by predators actively looking for someone is this predicament

* Manipulation and enslavement once they are under their control

Not in My Neighborhood, Right?

While many will shake their heads at the tragedy of these situation, too many think it can't happen to anyone they know. If this is you, you are wrong. These situations cross all income and demographic boundaries. Human trafficking and slavery have no favorites or boundaries. Abuse, control and runaways happen where you live. Also, technology, social media and the internet make this kind of control easier.

So then, what can we do?

Stay alert. Pay attention to the people in your life. Even the "adults" that may be out of the home already. How does this or that person sound? Has something changed in their demeanor? Will a normally open person change and become quiet? Has hiding things and whispering become a norm? Don't simply brush off these signs. Talk to them. Find out what is really going on. Let them know that there is help.

Most of all, know that there are resources. Many agencies exist that deal with these situations. We have included some important links for you here.

Available Resources

* www.FightHumanTraffickingSD.com

* www.

It finally happened. A terrorist attack using a vehicle to injure and kill people happened here in the United States. This Manhattan terrorist vehicle attack is the first of its kind here. I hate being right about these kinds of things. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all affected by this evil event. If you want to read the latest news analysis of this event please click here now.

I just watched the NYPD Briefing from yesterday afternoon 2 hours after the event. NYPD dealt swiftly with this incident, and CONTINUED business as usual for the Halloween Parade. They emphasized heightened security, heavy weapons teams and resources to guard the parade. Let's be very clear. This is a warning to anyone who is thinking to exploit a situation. The reporters asked the Commissioner many questions. As expected, these questions were handled quickly with most being too soon to answer or know.

The most important part of this message came at the end. The NYPD told New York to continue business as usual. New Yorkers will not be deterred is the clear message. As a result, we agree completely.

Our Analysis and Feedback

Terrorism is a constant danger in the world. Like I already said, I do not enjoy being right about these types of things. We have already covered other vehicle attacks on this show. If you want the latest information on the individual and circumstances surrounding this, feel free to turn on the news. Covering those aspects is not what this show is about. We may look at it later for a case study of terrorism, just not today. So then, what are we going to look at with this?

Probably what you are thinking about anyway. How could you deal with a situation like this.

How to Prepare for an Event like the Manhattan Vehicle Terrorist Attack

What could and should you think about and prepare yourself for?

* This type of terrorist attack will happen again.

* Do not let the terrorists win. Go about your business as usually, just more aware and ready.

* Be aware and ready.

* Have honest discussions with your family, friends and coworkers. Don't be sheeple.

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Interview With The Survivor

Survivor. It is only one way to describe her. It is our absolute honor to include this interview with this survivor. This is part three in our series on predation. This interview with Kelly Herron will show the reality that a violent attack puts a person in.

Let me be very clear. Kelly Herron is not lucky. She is a survivor and a fighter. Luck is when you look down and see a quarter on the ground. If not lucky, what then? She is a woman who has taken responsibility for her awareness and preparation.

On Sunday March 5th, Kelly Herron was on a training run for an upcoming marathon. This was a Sunday afternoon, around 1 PM. A typical day in the park. Around mile four she stopped in a public restroom to use it and then wash her hands.

When she turned around, she was face to face with convicted sex offender Gary Steiner.

Steiner, 40, is classified by the Clark County Sheriff’s office as a Transient Level III Sex Offender, or the level most likely to reoffend

Steiner immediately shoved Kelly to the ground and got behind her. The fight for her life was on.

From Momentary Confusion to Not Today Mother Fucker!

As you listen to this interview, Kelly's fight will hit you hard. The reality of it and the incredible reaction to her situation. I do not need to rehash all of the details here in print. Her personal account is one of the most powerful stories that you will hear. Some of the things we cover in this interview:

* The absolute importance of awareness and being prepared

* Training what you know make a huge difference

* Your mindset goes a long way in keeping you alive

* Never give up

* Continuing the journey

* What does the future look like today

I hope you enjoy this interview at least half as much as I enjoyed interviewing Kelly! Please let us know what you think ofd this episode by leaving us a review on iTunes, Google Play, Stitcher Radio or wherever you listen to this podcast. Also, please follow and connect with Kelly here:

* Her official Facebook Page

* This is her GoFundMe account for supporting her Marathon

Please support Kelly and let her know that you listened to her interview here!

And, you can listen to the beginning of this important series on predation by clicking here.

Also, to hear the original episode where we tell Kelly's story, please listen here.

We are Full Circle Systems Security & Defense

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us by clicking here. Also, you can call us toll free at 1-877-474-6050. Don't let another day go by without a good plan in place and trained people. We are here to serve you.

Barbie VS Walking Dead

In this latest episode in the predation series we hit it hard. I interview DJ Phalen. We discuss the importance of putting out real information and not sugar coating things. Far too often we see people avoiding or glossing over difficult topics and situations. This does such a great disservice to the people who may need this information the most.

What in the world do we mean by this contrast? Barbie VS the Walking Dead is the story DJ uses to convey what is important compared to things that are possibly detrimental. Hard discussions must take place. How you speak to the people in your life can save theirs. Although not easy, these talks become the most important.

Protect them from Predation

Two phrases come to my mind.

When you speak the truth, have one foot in the stirrup - Old Cowboy Saying

The second is this

Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie - Unknown

While speaking the truth may not be popular, keeping this you care about alive and unharmed should be. Predation by its very nature is devious. Deception can only be overcome with the truth. The damage that a sexual deviant predator inflicts is far worse than any conversation you can have. Do not leave people in the dark. Some of the things covered in this episode:

* Why to chuck Barbie movies in the trash

* The importance of watching the Walking Dead to raising young women (and men)

* How to deal with the neighborhood class three sexual predator

* Discussions to have when going to public places

* And more

This is hands down one of our best episodes. So happy to have interviewed my business partner and friend DJ. We surely hope this information is helpful. More than that, we hope it gives you the ability to step past your dread of the tough talk. Let us know what you think, and how we can help.

We are Full Circle Systems Security & Defense

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us by clicking here. Also, you can call us toll free at 1-877-474-6050. Don't let another day go by without a good plan in place and trained people. We are here to serve you.

Sexual Predators and Pediphiles

We begin or series on Sexual Predators and Pediphiles today. This series has been in the works for some time now. We switch gears from focusing on physical danger to a much more intimate and even dangerous kind. Sexual violence and long lasting mental trauma of children.

We are going to thank Facebook for giving us the lauchpad for this episode. Last week I saw a Facebook re-post from a mother in Colorado. She was shopping in a Ross clothing store and claimed that three men were following her and her children around the store. She gave the store clerk a message about it, called 911 and was escorted out of the store with store security.

The story according to store employees and sherif has been blown out of proportion.  They claim that the woman and her children were never in danger and the men were simply shopping.

Within two days this story has been shared over 50,000 time.

This tells us so much about parents state of fear

This also tells us how absolutely uninformed most people are about real predation. Fifty thousand plus shares in two days. While this is an obvious hot button topic, parents deserve to know what the truth is about sexual predators and pediphiles. By the way, I know that pediphiles should be spelled pedophiles. The internet shows that most people misspell the word. I just want you to find this.

We all want the best for our children. Since this is true, all are responsible to know the truth. The real threat to our children is much closer than most of us realize. When we perpetuate our ignorance willingly, be ready to shoulder the responsibility.

Let us be clear, do not sacrifice your children to your "better judgement" or the possibility of stirring the proverbial pot. They do not deserve this and regret is a real bitch. No one wants them or you to live with the effects of missing the signs.

Where does the real threat come from?

Although many parents shared the Facebook story most likely your kiddos will not be snatched up by strangers. Especially not in public with you present. Kidnappers prey upon the fringes. Runaways and homeless children are the preferred targets for these evil and sick individuals. The real threat is much closer to home than many parents want to consider.

* The majority of child sexual predation come from a well known neighbor, family friend or a family member

* One in three girls as well as one in six boys will be subject to sexual contact from an adult

* Heterosexual men are by far the number one sexual predators and pediphiles

* The most common age sexual abuse begins is age three

* The Department of Justice estimates there is one child molester per square mile in the US

* On average a child molester has fifty to one hundred fifty victims before they are arrested

What can you do? If you are a parent, pay attention to your children. Listen to them and watch for changes in their behavior. We have chosen to use the book Predators, Pedophiles, Rapists and other Sex Offenders by Anna C. Salter, Ph.D as our cornerstone source for this series. Doctor Salter is the absolute expert in this area, and we hope to provide an interview her as the finale of this series.

Furthermore if you are interested in this subject or know someone who is, please pass this episode along. We will be giving away ten copies of Doctor Salter's book to the first ten people who submit a question for the interview. Finally, stay tuned for the second installment in this series.

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The Reality of Freedom

Freedom. Let's define terms. Freedom is the ability to move or respond as well as the capacity to not only understand what options are available but to also act on them if needed.

I like this definition because

* I came up with it

* It works across almost all rationales for the function of freedom

Freedom is an important aspect of the country you and I live in, if you are in the USA as I am. Said freedom is also the cornerstone of what my company protects in training safety and security. This episode is one we have mulled about for a while. The importance of putting this out is fundamental in grasping what freedom means for you.

It is your freedom to figure out. So, here we go.

The Physical

Personal freedom is where we have to begin. Everything else is affected by how we view this in our personal life. Let's get to the gist of this. Today is July 4, 2017. I am recording this with my family well fed, a bit sunburned and relatively happy in the next room. We walked down and watched our small town parade and enjoyed a day with neighbors and friends. In America, this is the day most of us celebrate our freedom and this nations inception. No matter where you land on the political and idealogical spectrum, America is the bastion of freedom in the world.

This dialed in my thought process for this episode. Allow me to explain. We began our thought process like this.

What does it really take to survive? Having options. What does having options look tike?

* Movement equals life

* movement is freedom

* freedom allows movement

* Life is freedom

* If you are not free, you are either dead or in the process of dying

See?

Big concept for such a simple podcast on safety and security. What am I getting at? Let's look at your physical self. If you sit there and do nothing, your body will begin to stop working the way it should. Recent studies even show that sitting is worse for you than smoking. We are made to move. If you inhibit movement then you will stop functioning the way you are supposed to. If you sop moving your ability to react when you need to will suffer. When you can't react when you really need to, you'll probably die.

If to live means to move, and movement equals life then you have to move.

Perception and Psyche

The same with how you think and what you do with it. What we spend our time, energy and effort on becomes our focus. A lot of people look at phones and our connectivity in a bad light. As in, people are more disconnected and unaware. Disconnected from reality so to speak.

Put simply, focused on mostly time wasting and the unimportant.

Move your mind and take back your focus, your energy and your effort.

A life of Freedom

Here is what got this proverbial ball rolling. Most people are checked out in some way or another. We protect people and teach because, well, we love people. If this is a truth for us, then not attempting to do what we can to effect the status quo is unacceptable. Too many of us are asleep at our own wheel. If we love people and want to do our best teaching real awareness and effective response, then we must do more.

Let's look at this a different way. We humans are so amazingly capable. We can rise to incredible heights in our abilities, if choose to. If you are not aware and moving, you are dying. We want you to live, and live abundantly!

Purpose

To be truly free is to have a purpose. A life of avoidance and escape is the opposite of this.

The Manchester Bombing, Terrorism and You

First let us define terms.

terrorism

[ter-uh-riz-uh m]

See more synonyms on Thesaurus.com

noun1.  the use of violence and threats to intimidate or coerce, especially for political purposes.

2. the state of fear and submission produced by terrorism or terrorization.

3. a terroristic method of governing or of resisting a government.

Here is what we know so far. The individual responsible for the Manchester bombing, Salman Abedi, is the son of Libyan immigrants, had been on Englands terror watch list for some time.

Mr. Abedi is an associate of a larger terrorism network in England

At this point eight other individuals have been arrested

The improvised explosive devise shows a sophistication of planning and design capabilities

ISIS claims responsibility for this attack

The current body count is at 22 with many others wounded.

This attack is the most recent for England. Calling it strait as we like to, we must say prepare for many more. It is only a matter of time before it happens here. The level of terrorist violence is on the rise. Let's focus on what we can do as a result.

Learning from the Manchester Bombing

As we always say, we never want anyone to cower in fear as a result of terrorism. When we do this as a people, the terrorists win. This latest incident lets us raise our awareness and ability to respond. Let's look at these things.

* Awareness and communication are the cornerstones of a readiness plan

* A personal plan is very important. Understanding the larger picture of this terrorist threat is just as important

* Get serious about how things affect you and yours

* Understand Memorial Day and the sacrifice made

Words are useless without action. Our life is a reflection of what we do with it. Don't be a victim. Sheeple never actually do anything but follow the crowd.

 Source: The Latest on the Manchester Bombing Investigation - The New York Times

We are Full Circle Systems Security & Defense

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us by clicking here. Also, you can call us toll free at 1-877-474-6050. Don't let another day go by without a good plan in place and trained people. We are here to serve you.