There are so many times in my past when I was told that I was just too much for someone, particularly in my dating relationships. I have an anxious-attachment style, and my love language is definitely quality time. When I’m with someone, I just want to be with them! But inevitably, it would be too much for whoever I was dating, and they would tell me that they needed space from me, leading me to feel shameful about my needs and needing to spend time with them.