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When your teen suddenly “stops caring” — about school, sports, church, or even family — it can feel like everything’s falling apart.
 Maybe they used to try hard, follow rules, and keep you happy.
 Now, they’re unmotivated, moody, or even defiant.

Most parents panic at this point.
 But what if your teen’s “not caring” isn’t a breakdown… it’s actually a breakthrough?

In this episode, Ben and Cortni unpack why your teen pulling back might mean they’re finally learning to think for themselves — and why that’s a good thing. You’ll hear real stories from coaching teens and parents who went through this same shift, plus practical ways to stay calm, confident, and connected while your teen figures out who they are.

We’ll talk about:

• Why it’s healthy for your teen to stop pretending to care just to please you
• What “programming” really means — and how to update yours as a parent
• The difference between control and connection
• How to give your teen autonomy without losing influence
• What to do when your teen questions their faith, motivation, or direction
• And why your relationship will always matter more than being “right”

When your teen stops caring, it’s not the end of your influence — it’s the start of theirs.
 Learn how to support that growth with love, confidence, and perspective.

🎧 Tune in now and discover why letting go might be the best way to help your teen grow up.

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