This episode of Where Are We Podcast gets reckless fast. Andre X sits down with Solo D for an unfiltered conversation that jumps from jokes and wild stories straight into deep truths about addiction, self discipline, identity, and personal growth. They break down vices like weed, drinking, porn, coffee, and even prayer, plus what it really takes to quit bad habits when they’re woven into your everyday life.Solo opens up about moving city to city, lying as a survival tactic, reinventing himself, losing and finding purpose, and why honesty hits different when you finally stop performing for people. The episode touches on fitness, diet changes, mental health, creative struggles, and friendships that started messy but turned real. Funny, chaotic, and unexpectedly vulnerable, this is one of those episodes that starts wild and leaves you thinking.If you like raw conversations, uncomfortable honesty, and podcasts that don’t play it safe, press play.TIMESTAMP:00:00 Intro02:45 Rolling Up06:30 Vices11:20 Home Life16:05 Diet Fitness21:10 Visual Habits26:40 Free Speech32:15 Reinvention38:05 Music Journey44:10 Identity Lies50:30 Quitting Habits57:15 Yoga Retreat01:03:20 Creative Roots01:06:49 SDOT (Sex , Drugs & Other Things)01:08:40 Truth Growth01:14:30 Wrap Up❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

In this episode of Where Are We Podcast , Andre sits down with HAAWWS to talk about vices, creativity, discipline, and figuring out who you really are outside of expectations.

The episode starts with the usual WAW tone, relaxed, funny, and unfiltered, before getting into HAAWWS’ relationship with cannabis, first experiences smoking, and how those habits shaped his routines and mindset. From there, the conversation opens up into childhood, growing up in Grove Hall, and what it meant to come up around community, culture, and constant pressure to succeed in specific ways.

HAAWWS talks deeply about basketball, not just playing, but why he eventually fell out of love with the game. He breaks down the difference between mentorship and authority, how toxic coaching environments can push people away from what they’re actually meant to do, and how that discipline later transferred into his art instead of sports.

Music becomes the real centerpiece of the episode. HAAWWS shares how creativity runs through his family, from his father’s music background to his mother’s artistry and writing, and how that shaped his love for words, rap, and storytelling. He speaks on being a solo artist, collaboration versus groups, and finding people who align creatively without forcing anything.

The conversation also touches on moving to New York, struggling as an artist, navigating relationships, immigrant family expectations, and learning how to live your own life without carrying someone else’s dreams. It’s reflective, funny, and grounded, full of moments where the laughs slow down and the real thoughts come out.

This episode is about growth, identity, and learning to trust where your creativity is taking you without rushing the process.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Roll Up Segment / Vices

04:10 Cannabis Talk

07:05 Daily Routines

10:20 Childhood

13:05 Grove Hall

16:10 Expectations

19:30 Basketball

23:10 Coaching Impact

26:40 Leaving Sports

29:20 Creative Shift

32:10 Music Influence

35:20 Solo Artist

37:40 S.DOT (SEX , DRUGS & OTHER THINGS)

38:30 Reflection

40:55 Growth and Reflection

44:42 Outro

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In this episode of the Where Are We Podcast, we sit down with Erica Singer for an open, honest conversation that moves between music, performance, motherhood, survival, and self-growth. The episode starts light joking about routines before the studio or the stage but quickly settles into real talk about nerves, confidence, and learning how to perform without relying on substances to “take the edge off" .Erica shares her experience as a singer and performer, breaking down stage anxiety, muscle memory, and practical techniques she now teaches kids to help them feel confident on stage. We talk about performance fears, forgetting lyrics, cracking vocals, and why learning how to freestyle or recover in the moment is just as important as rehearsing.From there, the episode shifts into personal territory. Erica opens up about her background, growing up in different households, searching for a sense of family, and how those experiences shaped the way she parents today. She speaks candidly about motherhood, protection, projection, and learning how to break cycles while raising her daughter in a healthier environment.We also talk about survival mode, fear, boundaries, and how past trauma can quietly guide decisions without you realizing it. Erica reflects on her relationship with her mom, learning when to stop rescuing others, and how becoming a parent forced her to prioritize safety, stability, and emotional awareness.Toward the end of the episode, Erica talks about building her own business, Singer Beauty, working across different studios, traveling for shoots, and balancing creative independence with motherhood. The episode wraps with laughs, side stories, and a grounded sense of gratitude — not perfection, just progress.This episode is honest, raw, and conversational touching on performance, growth, parenting, creativity, and learning how to trust yourself through it all.TIMESTAMP:00:00 Intro00:42 Roll Up Segment 03:10 Erica’s Background and Creative Start07:25 Stage Nerves and Performance Anxiety11:50 Learning to Perform Without Substances16:30 Muscle Memory and Recovering On Stage21:05 Teaching Confidence to Young Performers26:00 Autotune Backing Tracks and Vocal Tools31:40 Finding Your Voice Through Practice36:10 Family Background and Searching for Stability41:20 Motherhood and Breaking Cycles46:10 Survival Mode Boundaries and Self Awareness50:55 Relationships Projection and Personal Growth55:40 Building Singer Beauty and Creative Independence57:00 S.DOT (sex, drugs & other things)​1:01:30 Balancing Work Motherhood and Art1:06:50 Outro FOLLOW OUR GUEST AT :IG - @singerbeautyllc @mutha_shmush @esingermusic❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

In this episode of the Where Are We Podcast, we sit down with Mike Scarfo for a grounded, open conversation about life, growth, and perspective. The talk moves naturally, touching on where Mike comes from, how his mindset has shifted over time, and the lessons that only come from experience.We get into discipline, consistency, and learning how to stay focused when distractions are everywhere. Mike reflects on mistakes, accountability, and how important it is to take responsibility for your own direction instead of waiting for things to fall into place. There’s a lot of honest reflection here — no preaching, just real conversation.The episode also touches on family, routines, and how time changes the way you see things. We talk about slowing down, being present, and checking in with yourself, especially during seasons when everything feels like it’s moving fast. It’s the kind of conversation that makes you think without feeling heavy.There are laughs throughout, moments of self-awareness, and plenty of back-and-forth that keeps the episode flowing naturally. Whether it’s talking work, personal growth, or just navigating life one step at a time, this episode keeps it real and relatable.This one’s about perspective, growth, and staying grounded in your own lane. Sit back, tap in, and enjoy the conversation with Mike Scarfo.TIMESTAMP:00:00 Intro00:40 Roll Up Segment03:15 Mike’s Background and Early Mindset07:30 Learning Through Experience12:05 Discipline and Consistency17:10 Mistakes Accountability and Growth22:45 Work Ethic and Long Term Focus28:20 Family Influence and Perspective34:10 Slowing Down and Being Present39:35 Navigating Life Without Shortcuts45:20 Staying Grounded as You Grow49:00 S.DOT Sex Drugs and Other Things56:40 Reflection and Looking Ahead01:02:35 Outro BeginsFOLLOW OUR GUEST AT :IG - @shotbyscarfo @mscarfo20 Turntable Teachers IG - @turntableteachersYoutube - @turntableteachers ❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

In this episode of the Where Are We Podcast, Andre X kicks it with Nim K — an artist and musician who’s been creating in her own lane since she was young. The convo starts off chill, talking about art, music, and how she first learned to express herself through drawing and painting. Nim breaks down why watercolor is her go-to, how she uses art to process her feelings, and what it’s been like growing up around a family full of creativity.We get into her experience with synesthesia, how she hears sounds as colors, and how that actually plays a big role in how she makes music and connects to visuals. She talks about painting versus songwriting, and why she feels certain people always respond faster to music than fine art.The conversation also touches on the realities of being a woman on stage — including a story about a time a guy overstepped at one of her performances and how she had to handle it. Nim keeps it honest about boundaries, respect, and safety while performing.She opens up about her background: running track, trying to live up to expectations as the “good kid,” balancing school and creativity, and learning how to stand on her own as she grew up. Then she breaks down the meaning behind one of her newer songs, “Only Lord Knows,” and how it came from navigating a lot of new changes in her life — new environments, new challenges, and people misunderstanding her journey. It's about growth, pressure, and figuring out who you are when everything around you is shifting.This episode is low-key, honest, and shows a different side of Nim — not just the music, but the person behind it. If you want to understand her story, how she thinks, and where she’s headed, this is the one to watch.TIMESTAMP:00:00 Intro​00:40 Introductions / roll up segment​05:00 Coping & creativity​10:00 Painting vs music​16:00 Family & expression​22:00 How people consume art​28:00 Synesthesia & energy​34:00 Handling emotions​40:00 Shows & boundaries​46:00 “Hood famous” & track​52:00 Golden child pressure​52:10 S.DOT (sex, drugs & other things)​58:00 Early hustles​1:04:00 Live music & voice​1:09:00 Recording style​1:12:00 “Only Lord Knows” & outro​ FOLLOW OUR GUEST AT :IG -  @nimboujee  YOUTUBE -  @nimboujee  STREAM HER MUSIC EVERYWHERE AT NIM K ❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

We are back with another ep and this Thanksgiving we are extra thankful for this next episode of the Where Are We Podcast because we are joined by the homies Jack and Owen from Boston Big Four. Right from the jump we switch their whole lane. No sports talk today. No stats. No highlights. Just pure vibes, late night creativity, and the kind of random Thanksgiving energy where the conversation jumps all over the place in the best way.We get into vices, weird morning routines, and those late night creative sparks that hit you out of nowhere. Then it turns into talk about astrology slander, shower thoughts, and how everyone’s most productive hour is just whenever the demons aren’t winning.We dive into their high school days, how long they’ve been boys, the chaos that shaped their friendship, and how Boston Big Four was built off roasting each other, arguing, and still showing up for one another every time. There are real lessons in there about creative partnerships, trust, communication, and letting your friends grow without losing the bond.Then the episode gets wild. We talk rugby injuries, sharks in Puerto Rico, CTE jokes, beach survival plans, witches in Salem, and why caffeine is basically legal sorcery. Thanksgiving energy means nothing stays on one topic for too long.And easily one of the funniest moments of the episode is Jack going full Red Sox play by play announcer out of nowhere. The crazy part is he actually sounds legit. NESN somebody come get this man.From sports stories to friendship, from survival strategies to creative discipline, from ocean danger to adulting trauma, this episode has everything. It is a full Thanksgiving plate. Laughs, chaos, storytelling, and real moments with real people.Pour a drink, grab a plate, roll up, and tap in with us and the Boston Big Four boys for a holiday episode you will definitely be thankful for.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro00:48 Boston Big Four02:10 Vices, Creativity & Late Night Ideas05:05 Astrology Talk & Creative Timing07:40 Shower Thoughts & Inspiration09:55 High School History & Day-One Friendship12:10 Challenging Each Other & Creative Growth15:22 Setting Up, Arguing & Team Dynamics18:30 Trust, Roles & Creative Partnership21:45 Marble Ave Films & Building a Team23:58 Salem Talk, Witches & Seances27:50 Coffee “Magic” & Vice Talk Returns30:32 Catholic School Stories & Learning Morality34:25 Religion vs Reality & Understanding the Message37:55 Sports in High School — Rugby, Basketball & Football40:48 Rugby Culture, Violence & Controlled Chaos44:20 Mixed Combat Sports & Slap Fighting Madness47:22 CTE, Payouts & The Pain Business49:35 Cauliflower Ear & Misconceptions51:10 Dream Jobs Growing Up52:44 Jake’s Red Sox Play-by-Play Moment55:42 Sharks in Puerto Rico & Ocean Fear57:21 S.DOT: Sex, Drugs & Other Things59:40 Blunt Safety, Sacrifice & Shark Survival Plans1:02:15 Catholic School Life & Cultural Lessons1:04:40 Philosophy Class & Questioning Everything1:06:55 Wild Sports Mashups & Slap-Fighting Reactions1:08:39 Outro MAKE SURE TO FOLLOW OUR GUESTS :IG : @bostonsbigfour_ @bostonsbigpodcastJack - @bb4jbardsOwen - @stainless116Youtube :  @bostonsbigfour  ❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

We back again with another one this time, we’re joined by the one and only Nicole Da Silva. If you know her, you know , and if you don’t, it’s time you do. Nicole’s the moving wheel in the SoundLab cog that makes that whole studio go ‘round. She’s a multi-faceted creative who really does it all videography, studio management, content, community, and keeping the whole operation flowing.From the jump, the conversation’s a mix of laughs, honesty, and real life. We talk about vices, finding calm in the morning, and learning to protect your peace when life gets loud. Nicole opens up about growing up Cape Verdean, being the youngest of four sisters, and how her family and culture shaped the way she sees the world.She shares her journey from early creative curiosity to finding purpose through storytelling and how that eventually led her into SoundLab Recording Studios in Brockton. What started as helping out and connecting with local artists turned into something much bigger: a chance to build community through music, visuals, and creativity.Nicole talks about what SoundLab means to her , not just as a studio, but as a movement for local talent. It’s a place where artists come together, create, and grow. And the work’s paying off , Nicole and the SoundLab team have been nominated for multiple Boston Music Awards. Nicole herself is up for Music Videographer of the Year, while SoundLab is nominated for Studio of the Year, and one of her videos is even in the running for Video of the Year.But Nicole’s artistry doesn’t stop at the camera . She’s also getting back into something she’s always loved: drawing. Art’s always been part of her story, and now she’s bringing that passion full circle, selling her original drawings and connecting with people through another side of her creativity. It’s just another layer to who she is a true artist through and through.This one’s got everything laughter, honesty, creativity, and community. Tap in, roll up, and vibe out with us.Timestamps00:00 Intro00:46 Meet the one and only Nicole Da Silva3:00 Morning peace, vices & slowing life down6:40 Relationships, balance & emotional awareness10:20 Growing up Cape Verdean in a house of four sisters14:50 Family lessons, culture & finding independence19:10 Raising daughters & protecting your energy23:45 Communication, love, and accountability28:20 The creative spark & storytelling33:00 Finding her lane behind the lens37:10 Journey to SoundLab Recording Studios41:20 Building a creative hub in Brockton45:15 What SoundLab means to the community49:00 Nicole’s growth and leadership behind the scenes52:30 Selling her drawings & returning to her first love — art1:01:00 SDOT ( Sex , Drugs & Other Things)1:03:10 Brockton’s creative wave & giving back1:07:00 Advice for women in creative spaces1:10:40 Vision, purpose & the road ahead1:14:50 Gratitude, growth & final gemsMAKE SURE TO FOLLOW OUR GUEST :IG -  @Nicolerds  ART PAGE - @NicolerdartSOUNDLAB RECORDING STUDIOIG - @thesoundlabma @themedialabmaWEBSITEwww.soundlabma.com❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

We are back with another 1 ( Dj Khalid Voice )

In this episode, Andre X sits down with Vic Sosa a talented tattoo artist, athlete, and all-around creative force from Lawrence, Massachusetts. This one’s packed with laughs, memories, and real talk about art, life, and legacy.

Vic opens up about his journey from the Market Street Projects to becoming one of the city’s most recognized tattoo artists. He shares how drawing started as a childhood coping skill for dealing with alopecia and became his lifelong passion and therapy. From sketching in basements to winning first, second, and third place at tattoo conventions, Vic’s story shows what happens when hard work meets purpose.

We talk about growing up in Lawrence, the power of family and fatherhood, and the lessons learned from sports, community, and competition. Vic also reflects on how his father’s guidance and his brothers’ bond built a foundation of discipline, humility, and drive that shaped who he is today.

Along the way, Andre and Vic trade stories about old times, wild nights, and the grind of chasing goals while staying true to your roots. From wrestling and football championships to tattoo artistry and mentorship, this episode is all about turning struggle into strength and creating a legacy that lasts longer than ink.

So roll up, sit back, and tune in to another real, unfiltered conversation on the Where Are We Podcast.

Timestamps:

00:46 Meet Vic Sosa

03:20 Creative Routine & Gym Flow

06:50 Drawing Roots & Family Influence

10:00 Commercial Break

10:30 Art as Therapy & Living with Alopecia

15:40 Fatherhood, Family, and Growing Up in Lawrence

20:55 Sports, Brotherhood & Championships

25:00 Commercial Break

26:02 From Basement Tattoos to Building a Brand

30:30 Winning Awards & Staying Humble

34:50 Culture Talk: Puerto Rican x Dominican

40:00 Commercial Break

40:28 Legacy, Community, and Giving Back to Lawrence

45:50 Reflections, Growth, and Gratitude

51:26 Outro

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In this episode, we sit down with Coach Bri for an empowering and insightful conversation about solitude, self-advocacy, and the power of communication. From childhood memories in Boston and Georgia to lessons learned through public speaking, leadership, and personal growth, Bri shares how finding peace within can translate into resilience, advocacy, and inspiration for others.We explore how solitude helps her reconnect with herself, why self-love must come first before you can truly show up for others, and how public speaking became her way of transforming a natural voice into a tool for advocacy. Bri opens up about family, identity, and navigating life transitions, while also breaking down how trauma bonding, communication styles, and constructive feedback shape relationships.This episode is about more than speaking, it’s about learning to listen to yourself, build resilience, and create new paths of growth. Coach Bri’s journey shows that real strength comes from solitude, self-awareness, and the courage to speak truth into the world.Tune in, get inspired, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations that matter.Timestamps:00:00 Intro 01:40 Solitude & Inner Peace04:00 Self-Love & Putting Yourself First07:00 Public speaking & advocacy09:30 Student Government & Early Advocacy12:00 Boston 2 Georgia16:30 Public Speaking20:00 Family & Siblings25:00 Culture Differences30:00 Relationships & Trauma Bonding34:00 Silence & Solitude38:00 Feedback Vs Criticism42:00 Love Languages46:00 S.DOT ( Sex, Drugs Or Other Things)52:00 Representation & History56:00 Learn S.H.I.T. Framework & Resilience❤️ FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS - Coach Bri IG -  @coachbrinichols  Youtube -  @coachbrinichols  Website - www.Coachbrinichols.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/wherearewepodFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Where-Are-We-PodcastPodcast #podcast #mentalhealth #interviews

We are back wit another episode !!!!! In this episode, we sit down with our homie Reef for a raw and inspiring conversation about music, growth, and finding purpose. From his roots in Wilmington, Delaware to building his life and artistry in Brockton, MA, Reef opens up about how his background shaped his journey and the stories he tells through music.

We dive into the routines and habits that keep him creative, from listening to jazz and instrumentals to soaking in podcasts and documentaries that expand his perspective. Reef also talks about his academic journey from math to psychology, and how understanding mental health gave him a deeper connection to the experiences around him and influenced the way he writes his music.

This conversation goes beyond the surface of rap ,it’s about resilience, community, and turning struggle into strength. Reef shares his experiences growing up around challenges like violence and survival, and how he’s transformed them into authentic storytelling that resonates without glorifying the pain. We explore the influence of culture and family, including his Costa Rican and Ethiopian roots, and how being part of a strong community helped shape who he is today.

Along the way, we connect basketball, teamwork, and competitiveness to the world of music collaboration, and talk about why being “coachable” and embracing constructive criticism is key to growth both on the court and in the studio. This episode is all about creativity, brotherhood, and the power of staying true to yourself while pushing forward with purpose.

Tune in, vibe with us, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations that matter.

Timestamps:

0:00 Introduction

2:30 Vices

6:45 Music & Inspiration

11:20 From Math To Psychology

17:30 Delaware to Boston

23:15 Family Roots

29:40 Resilience & Storytelling

36:10 Basketball / Teamwork

42:00 Brotherhood & Collaboration

49:00 Energy & Growth

56:20 S.Dot (Sex, Drugs & Other Things) / Closing Thoughts

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