Where Were We?

Most of us fall for the perfect Instagram glow-up - but what’s real and what’s just for the camera? 

In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, we expose the truths behind social media body illusions, the chaos of changing apps, and the exhausting pursuit of perfection. If you're tired of feeling inadequate or chasing after images that aren’t realistic, this episode is your wake-up call.

We break down how influencers and competitors subtly curate their images with lighting, angles, and filters — and why comparing yourself to that highlight reel is a fast track to frustration. 

In this episode, we discuss the complexities of Australia Day, exploring how it might be dividing us more than uniting us. We delve into the tension between pride and historical acknowledgment, sharing personal stories and insights on how public sentiments are shifting. 

Whether you celebrate or question Australia Day, this conversation offers new perspectives on fostering unity and understanding in a fractured society.

Join us as we recount our recent adventures and reflections. Ella takes you through her seven-week bucket list journey, from scuba diving in the Maldives to navigating unexpected challenges in Sri Lanka. Meanwhile, Ali shares insights from her competitive experiences in Dubai and Vegas. Together, we explore the highs and lows of travel, competition, and personal growth, setting the stage for our goals in the coming year.

Join us as we recount our recent adventures and reflections. Ella takes you through her seven-week bucket list journey, from scuba diving in the Maldives to navigating unexpected challenges in Sri Lanka. Meanwhile, Ali shares insights from her competitive experiences in Dubai and Vegas. Together, we explore the highs and lows of travel, competition, and personal growth, setting the stage for our goals in the coming year.

It's been a year and with quite a bit of travel happening in these last few months for us both, we're wrapping up Where Were We a little earlier this year.

Thank you for sticking with us and listening to us sh*t talk for another year and we're excited to be back in 2026 with lots to share.

Hope you all have a fantastic end to the year and you can always get in touch with us on Instagram @wherewerewe.podcast. If there's anything you'd like us to chat about in the new year also please let us know :)

This one got everyone by surprise, including Ali. Was not on the 2025 bingo card to compete but here we are competing this weekend at the FMG Dubai show.

Hear all about her prep, how it came about and how it's going.

After what was an absolutely EPIC first FMG World Championships show, we discuss the top 3 in the pro categories and chat about the weekend and the events that occurred throughout.

Join us as we chat about Ella's whirlwind FMG competition season in Thailand and New Zealand. From the intense prep to the thrill of stepping on stage, we share the ups and downs, the amazing support from prep buddies, and what it really takes to compete at this level. Not only that, but hear about the incredible results Ella's clients got in New Zealand.

Whether you're into fitness or just curious about the behind-the-scenes action, this episode is packed with insights and stories from the heart of the competing world. 

We're taking a break from fitness once again in this episode and diving into our latest binge-watching adventures. We share our thoughts on the shows that have captured our attention in case you're looking for some recommendations or just love a good TV chat, tune in for a fun and casual conversation. 

Oh and let us know if you have anything that is a must-see. We're always looking.

In this episode we take you on a journey through our favourite travel experiences and share our personal stories and insights on exploring new cultures, the excitement of scuba diving, and finding hidden gems off the beaten path. 

Between us we've covered quite a bit of the globe but there are still some places we really want to visit. If you've got any you highly recommend then please let us know so we can add it to our list.