In this episode of Whiskey and Ry, host Ryan engages in a deep conversation with philosopher and author Peter Rollins about masculinity. They explore Peter's personal experiences growing up in Belfast, the impact of his childhood on his understanding of masculinity, and the societal pressures surrounding male identity. The discussion delves into themes of death, mental health, and the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, ultimately questioning the limitations of labeling masculinity as an identity. This conversation delves into the complexities of masculinity and femininity, exploring how societal expectations shape male identity and desire. The speakers discuss the challenges men face in modern society, including the need for positive role models, the impact of despair and isolation, and the importance of male friendships. They emphasize the necessity of risk-taking and emotional engagement in overcoming feelings of worthlessness and despair, ultimately advocating for a deeper understanding of male experiences and the need for connection. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of dating, relationships, and desire in contemporary society, particularly in the context of Los Angeles. They explore how societal changes have affected dating dynamics, the evolving grammar of relationships, and the role of desire in human experience. The discussion also touches on masculinity, the importance of sacrifice, and the need for rituals in navigating life's challenges. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the intricate interplay between desire, identity, and the human condition.

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We have reached the end of the new season! I have had such an amazing time getting back into the flow of doing this show regularly. And I am so excited to share with you my amazing conversations with Jono Hendricks!

Jono and I met through this group we are a part of called The Brotherhood. Jono is also an amazing men's coach and has a plethora of resources available for men on their journey of self-discovery. I had such an amazing time talking with Jono and hope you enjoy tuning into this episode! 

We will be back with all new episodes in Season 5. Stay Tuned! 

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Grab your tissues because this one is another lovefest! In this extra special episode, I get to interview one of the men who helped shape my view of healthy masculinity, my cousin, Jeremy Sampson. 

Jeremy spent 18 years working in Television and made the difficult, but necessary, choice to change careers and be more available for his kids. Hear all about this and more in one of my all-time favorite episodes. 

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5 years ago, I was driving for Uber having conversations with perfect strangers about the journey into manhood. In this episode, I got to re-live that indescribable experience and I am so happy I get to bring you all along with me! 

Joining me for this episode is the amazingly talented, Matt Munn. We talk about Matt's journey into manhood as well as his solo music project, Unity Jar. We even discuss the possibility of a future collaboration on a music project. How fun that would be! 

Thank you for tuning into this episode and make sure to follow Matt on social media and be sure to stream his new EP, "Evaporate" under the name Unity Jar on all streaming platforms.

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Have you ever wondered what two men who love and admire one another sound like when they have a conversation? If you have, then this is the conversation you have been waiting for! 

Javier is a world-class educator and a top-notch human. We talked about his work with an organization he started called the Human Values Collective. We hear the in-depth insights into their work and also why Javier has earned the nickname, "Self Care Javier."

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Apple Music, Apple Records, Apple...Sauce? David and I discuss two of the three in this episode. I'll let you pick which ones they are!

David is such an incredible musician and I am so thankful he came on the show to promote his new single, "Shelby." And believe it or not, he isn't the last musician of the season! I am so grateful to connect with so many amazing guests and David is one of a kind! Did you know he is also a dog sitter? The guy can do it all...

Make sure to check out his new single and his entire catalog of music on Apple Music. NOT on Spotify. (j/k you can listen there but David works for Apple Music so naturally they get all his love!)

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What a treat it was to interview the amazingly talented, Aaron Kellim. I am fortunate enough to call Aaron my friend and throughout this episode, I found myself mesmerized by his humility and kindness. We chat all about his new music and share a great conversation between two good friends. 

I hope you enjoyed our chat. Make sure to check out Aaron's work and stream his music on all major streaming platforms. 

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You might be wondering why there was such a long break between this season and the last. Good news, I get into all of that in this episode and also share more about what you can expect from the show this season. 

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We heard from Christy in Episode 1. Then we heard from Alex in Episode 2. Now we get them both for Episode 3! AND! This is a Whiskey & Ry first as we have never had two guests before. This conversation was such a DELIGHT!

I finally got to ask them how they told my nieces about this process and the girls even came on the show to say a quick, "Hi!" This was such a fun experience for me, I feel like I got to know two people I love and admire very much and that is such a gift! 

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