Whiskey Bent & Spellbound

This week, Jaki and Rachael are fully in their Adult Beginner Era… and it's humbling.

From Rachael's adult beginner ballet class (aka her "weekly humiliation ritual") to both of them learning chess and attempting French on Duolingo, they're unpacking why starting something new — even something you want to do — can feel so uncomfortable.

Why does being a beginner bruise the ego? Why are we more afraid of looking bad than actually being bad? And why do so many of us quit in the awkward middle?

In this episode, the girls talk identity, embarrassment, the "valley of disappointment," and how to stay long enough to surprise yourself.

Because maybe the ick isn't failure. Maybe it's growth.

We're not bad. We're early. ♟️🩰🇫🇷

Resolutions are cancelled in 2026. This week, besties Jaki and Rachael are doing things differently—ditching outdated "new year, new me" rules and stepping fully into intention. They each reveal their Word of the Year, what it means, and how they're setting themselves up for real success (not just January motivation). From mindset shifts to bold moves and long-game planning, this episode is all about clarity, confidence, and dreaming way bigger than before. Hint: the plans are BIG, the energy is aligned, and the bar has officially been raised.

It's time for Jaki and Rachael's annual Besties Year in Review—drinks poured, last year's episode reviewed, and honesty fully unlocked. The girls revisit their December 2024 selves to see how they actually did: what they accomplished, what they forgot they even wanted, and which goals quietly fell by the wayside. They reflect on how they've changed emotionally and mentally over the past year, what they tolerate less of, and how their priorities look different now. With equal parts humor, growth, and grace, this episode is about honoring where you were, celebrating how far you've come, and stepping into the next chapter—together.

What happens when men are taught that feelings equal weakness and competition equals worth? This week, Jaki and Rachael dive into how the patriarchy boxes men in—limiting emotional expression, discouraging mental health support, and rewarding dominance over connection.

We talk about how these expectations impact men's relationships, their inner lives, and society as a whole—and why healing this system isn't about finger-pointing, but about liberation. If you've ever wondered why everyone seems exhausted by gender roles… this one's for you.

This week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound, besties Jaki & Rachael are pouring a glass and stepping into their Soft Girl Self-Focused Era — intentionally, unapologetically, and with receipts.

Jaki opens up about her decision to decenter men completely, sharing the moment she realized that dating was draining her magic instead of adding to it (and yes, she's sticking to it!). Meanwhile, Rachael reflects on the months since her breakup and what it's been like to choose herself first, every single day.

Together, the girls ask the big question: What can we accomplish when we stop giving our energy away and pour it fully into ourselves?

They talk confidence, clarity, creativity, peace, purpose — and how delicious life feels when you remember you're the prize and the priority.

Whether you're in your healing era, your hermit era, or your "I don't even want to look at a man right now" era, this episode will make you feel seen, supported, and spellbound.

Grab your whiskey and settle in, babe — we're focusing on us. 🥃✨

Besties Jaki and Rachael are back, and Jaki's fresh from her unforgettable trip across the pond! From exploring London and cozy English pubs to wandering the streets of Paris, Jaki shares how this adventure turned into something deeper — a trip of sisterhood, self-discovery, and falling in love with herself. Pour a glass and join the girls for a heart-filled catch-up full of laughs, reflection, and a little European magic. 💕✨

We're back for part two, besties, and it's getting real. Jaki, Rachael, and our friend Madeline pick up where we left off, diving deeper into life after heartbreak, redefining what you want in a partner, and embracing your single era unapologetically. 💅

This episode is all about choosing you first—whether that means jumping back on the apps, dating intentionally, or saying "nah, I'm good" and focusing on self-love instead. We share personal stories, hard-learned lessons, and a few juicy dating confessions along the way.

Grab your whiskey, settle in, and let's navigate this next chapter of dating together. 🥃✨

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Besties Jaki & Rachael are back, and we're diving headfirst into the wild world of dating! 💔➡️❤️ After a breakup, deciding whether to date—or intentionally not date—can feel like a whole journey. We're joined by our friend Madeline, who's back on the apps after three years of being happily single, while Rachael debates whether it's time to jump back in or stay out of the game entirely. Meanwhile, Jaki… well, let's just say she's on a very specific app for a very specific purpose. 👀

In this candid and hilarious chat, we unpack:

• Setting healthy boundaries while dating 🛑

• Spotting the red flags before it's too late 🚩

• Celebrating your single era without shame 🥂

• How to set intentions and date with clarity ✨

If you're dating, considering dating, or just love the messy chaos of it all, this episode is for you!

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It's Part 3 of the You're Dead to Me series and this one's from the vault, baby! 📦 Jaki & Rachael unearthed a never-before-released episode recorded after Rachael's first breakup with Deadpool—and whew, the red flags were waving in HD. Why didn't we release it then? Because we were still in our "maybe he'll change" era. But now? No more protecting dumbass men. We're reading receipts, roasting behaviors, and reminding you to trust your gut the first time. 💅 Buckle up—this one's a time capsule of 🚩 chaos.

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Welcome back to the You're Dead to Me series, where Jaki & Rachael stop protecting men who absolutely don't deserve it. In Part 2, Rachael officially ends things with Deadpool—for the final time. What finally pushed her over the edge? Oh, just the small matter of her paying for an amazing vacation… only for him to ask her to make his car payment when they got home. 🚩 Baby, no. Grab your whiskey and get ready for the takedown—we've got receipts, rants, and a whole lot of clarity.

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