Who Can Relate?

Ask and you shall receive! So many of you have asked to hear Shay's Ayahuasca experience, so here you go! She opens up about a childhood trauma experience that came up in her ceremony, that she thought she had blocked out after all these years. How she was able to go into multiple dimensions. Seeing herself from the outside in. And what our special moment during the ceremony was like for her. Oh, I almost forgot, she talks about how she saw FLYING SNAKES lol! I hope you all enjoy this one!

Topics:

00:00:00 Intro

00:07:16:09 Shay’s experience

00:12:48:15 Flying Snakes!

00:19:24:13 Shay's childhood trauma that she thought she blocked out

00:28:19:09 Our special moment from our ceremony from Shay’s perspective

00:38:51:00 Shay’s final takeaways

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/t_yz4mMO88o

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Whether it’s dating for potential, staying in a relationship in hopes your partner reaches their potential, or not knowing what to do if you’re dealing with either, this episode is for you! Keilani and I go over all things pre, during & post dating. How to get yourself prepared to give yourself the best chances of a successful relationship. How to not only spot Red Flags, but also not be distracted from them. What we know now vs back then and so much more! This one is loaded and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this conversation!

Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:22:04:13 Keilani’s experience with dating for potential 

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SQ6muYbZuFk

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Keilani’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mskeilanixo/

I offer a Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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When it comes to Men finally deciding to get married, the question I see the most from Women is, “Does he truly loves me or is it just the right time for him?” Well, you’re about to find out in this episode with my special guests Duke, Omar and Jalon from the Nice & Neat Podcast. We also go over other topics such as: Is the cliche saying, “Right Girl-Wrong Time” a real thing? How we as Men have had to unlearn some things when it comes to relationships. The Male ego and how it doesn’t fit in a relationship. Finances in relationships aka Financial Intimacy and so much more! This weeks episode is LOADED and I can’t wait for you to unpack it all!

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Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:06:49:09 “Men don’t marry the woman they love or loved the most, they marry the woman who’s around when they’re ready to marry”

00:11:50:23 Right girl- wrong time

00:34:21:02 Having the wrong people around you

00:34:48:23 When life forced us to unlearn something & specifically in a relationship

00:46:40:13 The Male ego in a relationship

01:09:15:05 Finances in relationships aka Financial Intimacy

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ktpnDAWtt7U

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Duke’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/duke/

Omar’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omar.bolden/

Jalon’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/just.jalon/

Nice & Neat YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/NiceNeatThePodcast/featured

Consultation-Mentorship service with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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We're all guilty of it. We all say we shouldn't, but we do. And in today's society, it's getting worse! But we really shouldn't judge a book by the cover. You never know what someone is going through and we need to work on getting to know the person first before passing judgement. This weeks episode is about all of the above plus what it looks, sounds and feels like when we say, "we're doing the work!" And I'm talking about the not-so-pretty part of "the work" by the way. My guest this week is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside and I can't wait for you all to watch this amazing conversation! Let me know your thoughts in a review below if you're listening on Apple.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5GBWGl-ChPY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Tyrie’s instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tyrierudolph/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Well, we're back! And this week is all about my 1st ever trip or journey with Plant Medicine. Ayahuasca is something I've been wanting to do for a few years now and I finally got the opportunity to do it. The timing was right for me in my life and I'm thankful for this wild experience. Ugh, the things I do while I'm on this healing/self-love/internal work journey that I'm on SMH! I hope you enjoy this story time moment with me!

If you're listening to this on Apple Podcast, please leave a review and a rating! Thank you in advance!

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bMUyhccbNiw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Have you been diagnosed with a Mental Health condition? Have you found yourself struggling to accept a new version of you? Do you find it difficult to gather the courage to confront an issue with your family partner or friends? Have you felt all alone when faced with a problem and don't know how to ask for help? Well, if you answered Yes to any of the above, than this episode is for you! My guest this week, Dailyn Santana, helps us all understand how to handle the above mentioned dilemmas most of us face in our lives. This was such a great learning moment for me as I can relate to some but not all of what was discussed. I love learning, unlearning and learning again, so this was as equally helpful for me as I'm sure it will be for you.

Episode Time Stamps:

00:00:25 Intro, Quote of the day + Intentions

00:04:27 Meet Dailyn Santana

00:06:24 Being diagnosed with Bipolar 1

00:15:07 The difference between Shame & Guilt

00:28:00 When Dailyn told her boyfriend about her Bipolar Disorder

00:31:11 Dailyn’s advice to anyone feeling alone with their mental health disorder

00:42:44 Conquering social anxiety

00:48:27 The story of how Dailyn & I met

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dm8ZTFzmnyw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Dailyn’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dailynsantana/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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3rd times a charm... Shay is back again! This week we talk about something that I know WE can all relate to! We go over our own individual battle with it and how we manage to work through it. Here's a hint, it's a hell of a lot of accountability! I hope this episodes helps those in need and that you enjoy the conversation.

Topics:

When we struggled with complacency individually

When we struggled with complacency in our relationship

24:47:19 The most vulnerable I’ve ever been

Tips/tools that can help with this issue

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fgGExC0-GqY

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Referenced articles about Complacency in Love:

https://practicalintimacy.com/avoid-complacency-in-a-relationship/

https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2018/02/scientists-find-a-few-surprises-in-their-study-of-love/

https://www.bustle.com/p/20-unexpected-activities-that-help-couples-from-becoming-complacent-in-their-relationship-8665688

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Shay's Back... again! This week we keep it light by playing a question card game, that goes over our individual lives, relationship and more! Thanks to my friend and former "Who Can Relate?" guest, Danielle Robay for gifting us with this card game "Question Everything" which you can purchase here:

https://prettysmartshop.com

Be sure to check out Danielle's podcast "Pretty Smart" available on all Podcast platforms as well.

Also, don't forget to like, subscribe & turn on your notifications so you don't miss out on an episode! Thank you to everyone who has already!

Topics:

00:00:00 Intro

00:09:49:17 What parts of yourself do you feel most proud of?

00:11:32:13 What is the smartest decision you’ve ever made?

00:12:51:11 One thing you really dislike that most other people love?

00:14:23:11 Choose a photo on your IG that best describes you and why?

00:17:27:07 Which temptation do you try the hardest to resist?

00:19:08:02 What do you want to be known for?

00:20:43:13 What did you need help with the most?

00:24:58:00 Do plants thrive or die in your care?

00:25:42:00 What lesson has taken you the longest to learn?

00:26:43:00 One thing you are trying to or need to let go of?

00:28:53:00 What’s the best thing you’ve ever quit?

00:29:26:00 Do you fall in love easily & what is your Love Language?

00:30:56:00 What would younger you, not believe about your life today?

00:31:44:00 Which personality trait has gotten you most in trouble?

00:32:38:00 Who has left the largest impact in your life?

00:34:28:00 What is the coolest/most unique thing you’ve learned from your job?

00:35:53:00 What’s the most challenging part of what you do for a living?

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ENsyY13DpMw

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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Who Can Relate Community... your girl is back! Shay returns to the show to talk about a heavily requested topic: How is Shay... Shay! We also go over some of our breakthroughs as a couple, what's worked for us recently as well as the past. This one was really fun to do so I hope you enjoy it and find it helpful!

If you’re listening to this on Apple podcast, feel free to leave a review on this episode, as well as a rating. I’d love to hear from you!

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Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/z84FzSqsAyc

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Shay's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xoshaydavis/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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This video is sponsored by Better Help.

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The last installment of my Capetown, South Africa trip concludes with, who I consider the Mayor of the Mother City! Loyd is a dear friend who reminds me so much of myself. He's generous, kind, thoughtful & an amazing tour guide! We go over some really great topics during our sit down and I can't wait to hear what you think of them!

Topics:

Survivors Guilt

Knowing what I know now vs what I thought back then

Losing a Mother at the age of 16

Is the entrepreneur ready for love?

Recognizing your trauma vs projecting it onto others

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mYT1roJSwGQ

My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjustdavis/

Lloyd’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djloyd/

Consultations with JD: https://mrjustdavis.as.me/schedule.php

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