Whore Rapport

We’re getting whorganized! We’ve restructured, and added a number of perks to Patreon including access to a virtual W***e Rapport community via Discord, quarterly Zoom calls, and more. We’re very excited to keep connecting with you all, and to keep building this community from the inside out. 

Song featured: Thank You (Falettinme Be Mice Elf Agin) by Sly and the Family Stone

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Welcome to part one of our first ever series, dedicated to the topic of ethical non-monogamy. In this installment we are joined by Dr. Christopher Ryan, co-author of Sex at Dawn. We discuss the difference between relationship “work” and “effort,” as well as the parallels between traveling, and cultivating aligned relationship structures. We also address some listener questions including: How do I know if non-monogamy is truly right for me? And, how do I approach non-monogamy with my partner when we’re going through a rough patch? This may be the first, but it will not be the last.

Song featured: MANGO (feat. Adeline) by KAMAUU

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Welcome to the cold water podcast! In this episode we dissect and deconstruct longing. Specifically, we get into how longing looks, what it stands in for, and what it often represents. We also discuss the average lifespan of the feeling, the cycle it can perpetuate, and what it does to our perceptions of the objects of our longing as well as the types of relationships that exist around it. Brought to you from two, separate, undisclosed locations.

Song we tried to feature: Shape of You - Acoustic by Ed Sheeran

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This is an episode about the various ways in which we come out, and the closets from which we emerge.

Song featured: Take Your Mama by Scissor Sisters

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This was an incredibly synchronistic Q&A that begins with a conversation about orgasm shame/pressure, and ends with a discussion of the kinds of stories we embody. In between these topics we break down the relationship between body image and healthy weight loss, as well as the, “capitalist patriarchal media representation and expression of what we want or assume men want… gaze.” As usual, you all know how to ask questions.

Song featured: Get It On... Tonite by Montell Jordan

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We’ve broken the ice and had our very first guest! Cecily is extremely thoughtful, articulate, and she does something that was entirely new to us. She takes clients, over the phone, and collaborates with them to build and play out their erotic fantasies. In this conversation we break down, from multiple angles, the motivations and curiosities that go into this sort of work. Cecily's stories and reflections are not to be missed. 

Song featured: Hypnotize by The Notorious B.I.G.

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In this episode we take a look at guilt in its varied forms. Specifically we explore: implied guilt; perceived guilt; what it’s like to operate from unacknowledged guilt; and the areas at which guilt, shame, and remorse intersect. (Are you sick of reading the word ‘guilt’ yet?) We also dissect a teen movie with the help of Melissa Febos. 

Song featured: Guilty by Lady Wray

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Welcome to our first orgasm episode. In this exploration of “The Orgasm Gap,” we discuss the dangers of keeping score when it comes to sexual pleasure; the ways in which sexual compatibility shows up and exists outside of committed relationships; what our environment teaches us about orgasms; and more! We wrap up with a request for your thoughts.

Song we tried to feature: Side to Side (feat. Nicki Minaj) by Ariana Grande

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What are we afraid of that also turns us on? What is the relationship between these things? What does it feel like to embody them together? How do we tell the difference between healthy and legitimate risk? These are just some of the themes we get into in this week’s episode. We also do some math: Fear(x) + Risk(x) + Vulnerability(x) = Authentic Intimacy Be sure to show your work when solving for your own personal x factors.

Song featured: Down by Marian Hill

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This episode is all about the oddities and complexities of dating. How can we truly get to know each other within the modern dating structure? And, more specifically, how do we establish intimacy with another person outside of the culturally perpetuated “game” that surrounds it? We also discuss the ways in which chemistry fits into all this, and the differences between chemistry and attraction.  

Song featured: Can’t Take My Eyes Off of You by Lauryn Hill

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