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Why do some people keep choosing partners who don't choose them back?
Why do we ignore red flags, confuse anxiety with chemistry, or find ourselves constantly trying to earn someone's love?
In this episode, I talked about the connection between self-esteem and the relationships we choose. We'll explore how childhood experiences, trauma, fear of rejection, and our own sense of worth shape our romantic lives.
If you've ever found yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people, settling for less than you deserve, or wondering why healthy love feels unfamiliar, this conversation is for you.
In this episode, I cover:
• Why you keep choosing people who don't choose you
• How low self-esteem affects your relationships
• Why we confuse anxiety with chemistry
• The link between childhood experiences and adult relationships
• Why emotionally unavailable partners can feel strangely attractiveListen and enjoy.
Let’s stay connected:
Email: [email protected]
IG: @ayanpella
X: @ayanpella_
TikTok: @ayanpella
If this episode resonated with you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might need it.
See you next time. 🤍
By Temitope Ayanyemi5
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Why do some people keep choosing partners who don't choose them back?
Why do we ignore red flags, confuse anxiety with chemistry, or find ourselves constantly trying to earn someone's love?
In this episode, I talked about the connection between self-esteem and the relationships we choose. We'll explore how childhood experiences, trauma, fear of rejection, and our own sense of worth shape our romantic lives.
If you've ever found yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people, settling for less than you deserve, or wondering why healthy love feels unfamiliar, this conversation is for you.
In this episode, I cover:
• Why you keep choosing people who don't choose you
• How low self-esteem affects your relationships
• Why we confuse anxiety with chemistry
• The link between childhood experiences and adult relationships
• Why emotionally unavailable partners can feel strangely attractiveListen and enjoy.
Let’s stay connected:
Email: [email protected]
IG: @ayanpella
X: @ayanpella_
TikTok: @ayanpella
If this episode resonated with you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, or sharing it with someone who might need it.
See you next time. 🤍

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